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Trying to turn son straight again
My wife and I are divorced, we live in different states, and our nineteen year old son lives with her. I was talking to her on the phone recently and she said that our son says he's gay. I told her to put him on the phone, and he confirmed it. I'm not sure how to handle this disturbing news. I think he's likely acting out because I've been away and he lacks a strong male figure in his life.
I don't have a problem with gay people. I have friends who are gay. It's just that I don't want my only son to be gay. He really needs to be pursuing the bearded clam. I'm thinking of inviting him out to my place and hooking him up with some older women friends that I know who are kinda slutty. I've already talked to one, and she said she'd be willing to help. I've had her before, and I think she is good enough that she might be able to turn him straight. Heck, it might even be good to do a tag team on her, so I can show him how it's supposed to be done.
I love my son, and I'm willing to do anything to get him over this issue he is having. With a little bit of luck, I can get him back to optimal health again.
They have an old saying that you can lead the horse to water but you can't make him drink. He is 19 years old and as bad as it may be to you,he is an adult and it isn't right to make someone Change. It's darn near impossible to do. I have took my daughter that is now 13 years old to church since she was two weeks old. She told me she is pan sexual and no matter how much I try to teach her that it isn't right in Gods eyes, she is who she is and would it be right for me to try to change her or discipline her over how she feels and who she is? Take a moment and think about it. We can control only what we say or do but nobody else.
You can't "turn" gay people, straight. It's how you are born.
If you think you can 'change him back', then it's probably a good idea you're far away from him. It's not a choice, no one chooses who they feel sexual towards. Just remember, it was your wife and you who made him. Be happy with that and don't twist his head over it or you're at risk of causing him more harm.
You justt need to beat the little **!
Disown that **.
Accept it or not, but your wife is probably to blame for making him gay. He developed too many sissy habits that have led him to be degenerate. When you spend time with him again, I'd correct some of those habits when you see them. For example, if he's speaking in a gay tone, say "Shh!" just like Ceaser the Dog Whisperer. Getting him straight means dealing with the entire person, not just the ** part.
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Guess what buddy you dont have the option of micro managing your kids sexuality.
Accept it and move forward. My 22 yr old daughter from 5 boys and 2 girls her being the oldest girl came out in highschool senior yr. She dated a few boys but most were the bad drug dealers gang bangers up to no good. One of them ended up in jail straight out of my house. I haven't been the best father either I've had to win my children until this day. Senior year she completely changed back to my sweet little girl, good grades wanting to go to church on sundays like she used to and small things I noticed were different , always happy she'd do her make up and wear heels more often just a glow in her face. When she confessed it didn't hit me until I heard t from her mouth "DAD IM GAY ,& I HAVE A GF, IM HAPPY. My wife didn't accept any bit of it but I kind of thought about how many bad guys she's dated most would back talk her disrespect her and I wasn't there to protect her becuase my mentality was work more and earn more to support a huge family. I've been overprotective of my daughters and I angered myself and said I'd do over dramatic things I'd try to buy out my daughter and tell her to come back home. After h.s she moved out of the house to move in with her gf I didn't agree or accept it just happened she was 19. It took me awhile to get used to the gf but as time went by this girl my daughter is with or should I say woman I respect her now. She's a hard worker makes my daughter happy & doesn't pull my daughter away from our family. she's a good woman. Now they're around 22-21 & they have their own condo cars and are doing good economically they started off like anybody else. I look back and regret acting up or wanting to buy my daughter drawing boundaries on if your gay , or become straight and... I opened my wife's mind up its 2017 almost 2018 for goodness sake she's my daughter and I love her and her gf no matter what. I'm her father I don't care what people say now. She's been with that gf for 3 yrs now
Good for you x
You can TURN"" SONEONE GAY OR STRAIGHT. ITS NOT A CHOCE. LOOK BACK TO HIS ACTIONS AS A CHILD AND MAYBE JUST MAYBE THERE MAY BE SOME THROWN SIGNS ON THE FOOOR YOULL GO BACK AND PICK UP AND THINGS MIGHT JUST MAKE SENSE TO YOU... just accept it love him , HES YOUR ONLY SON!!
Good point. But your literacy skills are poor.
People don't decide to become gay. It isn't a lifestyle choice. It is the way God made them. Just accept it and get on with your life.
Well said
I feel your pain, brother. My daughter decided to become a lesbian in high school. She actually dated guys for a bit, before she made the switch. I think it was all of that diversity ** they teach in schools that promote homosexuality. I hope she shakes out of it, but right now she's looking ** and hanging with the wrong crowd. I hope she can be pretty again and get a guy, have a normal family, and not live a life of self-induced misery.
Excellent posting. It boldly underscores & proves AGAIN that q_u_ee_r_d_o_m is a behavioral, as well as reversible disease.
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How many of you met a "stable" non promiscuous **? I've had a few male gay friends.. all whores or alcoholic/drug addicts.. and 2/3 were abusive in their relationships..
Also you always see the older gay male with a younger male.. like 40+ with 18-25's..
Pushing the way to normalizing pedophilia..
I've met lots of them. most, in fact. It has nothing yo do with paedophilia. That is the preserve of Christians. Catholics, mostly.
Lol
I didn't mention paedophilia in my original comment, so why bring it up as if I did?!
You're still foolish!
So your own experiences is the basis for your judgements and generalisations, against the majority of the lgbtq community?!
Do you realise, you don't know the majority of the lgbtq community? You're an idiot!
I can't stand up in totality for this man. I don't know why they became single parents but the world(meaning the sheep and their shepard, the Zionist media) lately favors the destruction of the family unit ..
Emasculation of the male role model as well as a pressing source of degenerative views.
Single parent homes, built on lies and hate of the other parental figure.. when "they loved each other sooo much was tru,y built on a few hard nights drinking and little care for yourself and your sexual partner.. false car in a child that most didn't want or couldn't care for.
Not saying that's all but look around and see..
I'm sure that you know well enough to disregard & laugh off the previous comments supporting q_u_ee_r_d_o_m. As such, it's obviously more important to consider what is more likely occurring here. Don't worry about setting up older broads for him. Look, you admit to living many hours away from your ex wife & child & in different states. Your lad is a young buck now as I'm sure your wife is aware of too. I've seen this more than once before. She is lonely & needs a man's attention as it takes in the form of your son thus ; she relays the story of your son confessing to being q_u_ee_r. That immediately dismisses him from the equation while he & she continue blissful, satisfying sexual relations unbeknownst to you. She practices reliable contraception to further eliminate issues, all is well, & your snooping is eliminated. It's a even money bet jack.
What the **, I can't believe that you are actually saying that this guy's ex-wife would rather practise ** than just going out into the city and finding herself a man. That is so ** up, what is wrong with you?
To quote the great President R. Reagan : "there you go again"'. Unfortunately for you, your ignorance shines brightly enough to factually & literally blind you to facts of life in this 21st century. To quote another great President, G.H.W. Bush : "read my lips", ** HAS BECOME MAINSTREAM, fool.
Furthermore, the poster never revealed if his ex wife lived in a city, causing you to make another erroneous, or unwarranted assumption.
It appears that you heed the advice to crawl out from under your rock more often. The last 20 or 30 years have passed you by.
Moron
Moron!!
You quote fuckwits and dumb **.
If you can't accept the natural entity you're born to be, that is a mental disposition/degradation of the self you were already meant to be. Being gay is a sexual ** or disposition usually built upon adverse experiences when they're young and not in the mindset to be sexually orientated.
The media has put images in the minds of our youth(as well as putting forth misinformed parents) that these disorders are "normal/healthy" behavior..
Like younger kids listening to metal music, then rap.. the clothes/ideas are a fad and homosexuality and especially transgenders has become a fad of the media..
Good take. I agree with it & will only add that it is more than a fad of the media. it has become a mainstream, liberal, & seemingly permanent part of their agenda in the egregious, infectious spread of liberalism. To that point, liberalism IS the mental disease that is eroding & destroying any parts & concepts of the u.s. that it can!!
Why don't you like liberalism? What upsets you so much about people having liberal mind, thoughts, lifestyles, choices and perspectives? What's your concerns about forward and independent thinks, as opposed to conformists?
The so-called media, contemporary society and just human beings in general are not the dictators of our world, people like you only think they're. People like you think you're the experts of what is normal and abnormal in this world. But you can't, because you're only a fellow human being like the rest of us and folly with human frailties. Anyone that is not without fault and makes mistakes like the rest of us, can't determine what is wrong and what is right in this world. So your judgements mean nothing, fellow human.
A person's sexuality is only one part of a person's identity, a person has numerous identities. I'm assuming you're heterosexual because of your comment.
Is your identity based solely on your sexuality? Does your sexuality determine who you're as a person?