Love my wife, but my colleague makes me feel alive

I’ve been married for 17 years. We have two teens in HS.
Love my family and still feel attracted to my wife. But, there is no spark. There are things we like to do in common, but I just don’t feel a connection and we’ve drifted apart. Totally different things that make us happy.
Worked with the same person, not directly, for 3 years. Got along, thought she was attractive but limited contact.
Got to talking a lot recently after getting stuck for several hours at an airport together. We hit it off. We’ve hung out together for drinks and have texted.
Have not made any moves on her or even hinted at it.
But we’ve texted - emotional cheating, yeah I admit to that.
I am torn. I’m sure my wife and I can bump along to the point where we’re 70 with nothing to say. But, I feel like this woman would make me feel alive again - a deeper chemistry
I have no idea if she has an interest, but I feel like I need to end my marriage so I can honestly find out.

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  • Hooking up with a co worker can make things complicated and awkward if things don't work out after s**. How about bringing up the subject of hotwifing. (Sharing her with a guy who she is attracted to). She may slowly open up to the idea of swinging. Spices things up. Im a solid secure marriage situations.

  • I wished I would have ended my marriage before I got deeply attracted and involved with a co-worker. We created a lot of hurt and a big mess for everyone around us including my kids. I married that co-worker and she wishes the same thing.

  • Yeah... Go for the Pu55y

  • ^agreed^

  • Give her a try. see what happens. you know she wants it so give it to her. stop wasting time.

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