Love my wife, but my colleague makes me feel alive
I’ve been married for 17 years. We have two teens in HS.
Love my family and still feel attracted to my wife. But, there is no spark. There are things we like to do in common, but I just don’t feel a connection and we’ve drifted apart. Totally different things that make us happy.
Worked with the same person, not directly, for 3 years. Got along, thought she was attractive but limited contact.
Got to talking a lot recently after getting stuck for several hours at an airport together. We hit it off. We’ve hung out together for drinks and have texted.
Have not made any moves on her or even hinted at it.
But we’ve texted - emotional cheating, yeah I admit to that.
I am torn. I’m sure my wife and I can bump along to the point where we’re 70 with nothing to say. But, I feel like this woman would make me feel alive again - a deeper chemistry
I have no idea if she has an interest, but I feel like I need to end my marriage so I can honestly find out.