I hate my step son
Someone please help!!! I just got married February. I love my wife she's so amazing. But I absolutely HATE my step son he makes me wanna smoke my lungs out!!! Doesn't the bible say choose your spouse over EVERYONE including kids?? He's becoming a problem in our marriage and I am suffering psychological problems because of it. He's 30 years old and his mom will not for the life of her send him away. Knowing he has a place to go. She has allowed him to get in our business and disrespect us both time and time again. I finally snapped and called her out on his **. I haven't even met my step daughter and grandson yet. She's 26 her son is 4. I have wept in tears for my wife to get rid of him and she will not respect my wishes after all I have done. He's very violent and belligerent too. She knows his behavior and temper but not only that she threatens me with him so I will put up with her ** and let her AND him walk all over me. I only wanna hear from people who got this resolved please. I love my wife and I am not letting Satan break us apart. The bad thing is she and her son know I hate him with a passion his disrespectful behavior will not be tolerated. My wife was abused by her ex husband but it's been years since before she married me. The excuses got to go. I can't put up with that no more.
The OP is correct. He should be prioritzed, especially over a 30 y/old loser fvck that is the spawn of some other man. You'd think the mother would be grateful that some decent man would take her - not to mention that she's a grandmother, ffs. Easily replaceable and doesn't realise it.
Bro, you're being used. Plan an exit....ASAP.
You have no relationship with God so stop bringing the Divine into this you fake protestant idiot!
This marriage is toxic. You need to get out but you are too much of a pu$$y to do anything right in your life so just D EAL with it. Why don't you admit you are afriad of being alone. I am a woman who chooses to be alone i have travelled to 75 countries ALONE and you a 60 year old man cannot be alone wahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!! boo hoo. No cojones NONE! you are not a man. LEAVE and make your life better Get a backbone and leave her!
"after all I have done" You narcissist. You have been with her FIVE MONTHS he has been her son for THIRTY Years I hope she dumps your ugly as$ I am NOT surprised you were available. You are damaged goods and she did not see it. YOU are the PROBLEM.
Oh boo hoo/ How old are you? At least 60. Why the ** are you CRYING?!! BE THE MAN! you have no blals and I feel nothing for you. She married a LOser! be a man-crying like a girl. She is going to divorce you. Who wants a sissy?
Why did you marry her if she has a narcissist for a son or are you jealous. He is her son and you better get used to it. NO you DO NOT PUT YOUR SPOUSE AHEAD OF YOUR CHILD CHILDREN COME FIRST! I have no respect for you whatsoever trying to break a mother and son up. YOu should not quote the bible when being devisive. Typical narcissist behavior. I bet you're the problem. And Be a man! stop "crying" what are you a f@g?!
Learn to read, cuntislava. The "child" is 30 years old. Old enough to sink or swim on his own. OP is a piece of work, but you're a chunk of mouthy trash who can't read!
Your stepson is the devil. He must go, or you will have no other choice but to leave them to themselves, for your own peace and health.
How the ** would YOU know? LIar! AntiChrist!
Deep breath. Chill. Have an affair.