My husband spanks me

In our home, my wife is the disciplinarian, (I found that out the hard way). We always sleep naked, so we are available to each other, whenever the other one wants the other. We had gotten into an argument, & I said "I'm putting my foot down, you're not going out with your slutty friend". She's (6'2" 190 lbs.), bigger than me (5'10" 165 lbs.). What I didn't know up until then, was that she's stronger & more dominate than me as well. Before I knew it, I was over her knee, & it didn't take long for her to change my mind & me to say she could go. Now, I get spanked whenever she thinks I need it, or is just in that mood. Often, she spanks me as foreplay, or fiveplay, as she calls it.

This is how a real man and a real woman complement each other 😍

This sounds so hot 🔥🔥🔥

I am in college but I still get spanked at home by my mother or by her boyfriend. Sometimes I am allowed to keep my bra and ** on because I always wear nylon or sheer ** and they offer no protection and my thongs certainly don't. I usually get spanked with a spanking strap my mother has had since we were early teens and sometimes with a belt. I know the boyfriend gets off on spanking me and seeing me in my bra and ** but sometimes he makes me take my ** off or pull them down.

You are a lucky woman to have (inadvertently even) found out what your needs are and to have them fulfilled. Most women never understand and lead lives that are 'missing something' that they cannot quite identify. He knew though.

You are a lucky woman to have found out what is important and necessary to keep a real woman happy. In turn, your obedience and submission keeps Him happy.

I’m a 5’10 240 sum pound guy I enjoy the power I have over women and there **’es I most enjoy the look on their faces when I tell them I’m gonna spank them just because I can , wheather they want ‘’it ‘’ or not

A crop is a cane covered in leather. I have been caned, cropped, and whipped many times. 🤔😢

My hubby spanks me weekly. Over his knee, during **, doesn't matter. It's done hard but in a loving way. And yes, it intensifies my **.

I spank my girlfriend at least twice a week as well. Seems to keep her in line pretty good. I prefer a crop on her bare bottom.

A riding crop is perfect

What is a crop?

You should misbehave when he has friends are over and maybe he'll give you a bare ** spanking over his knee in front of them, and corner time with your ** in the air so they all get a peek at your privates and rosy bottom.

This is ** hott as **! 😮‍💨😮‍💨

Spank me til I **.

My husband spanked me from the very first day of our marriage.
He spanked me and he still spanks me regularly, once or twice a week.
I am pretty okay with that.
My parents spanked me.
My babysitters spanked me.
I was spanked in the school. (I attended the Catholic school).
I was spanked in our Church.
Regular spankings are an important part of females discipline.

I,l Ike you, was spanked by my mom and in my private school. At home I was ** below the waist. In school it was uniform skirt hiked up and sometimes over **, other times bare depending on the infractions.
My husband knows of those spankings. One Saturday we were at mom’s house. Bill said something, I forget what, and mom said he needs a spanking. No mom, not here. You spank him or I’ll spank you. Bill knew I’d be horribly humiliated so he nodded ok to me. Stand up, drop your pants and bend over that chair. He did and I began to get aroused. Pull down his underpants mom said. I did. I began spanking him lightly with the paddle she used on me. Harder mom said or I’ll bend you over as a reminder. I began a hard spanking and he was squirming. My ** got damp. I enjoyed it.
Tonight is my turn to be spanked by Bill

Both, my mother-in-law & wife give me b'day suit spankings over their knees whenever they think I need it, or are just in that mood. markiee

Are you really serious?? Or are you just so used to the spankings which could be a form of abuse, that your brain chemistry changed so you think it's all good all the time.

Spankings have always made me feel extra loved and I like it when he comes up with ways to make it more severe or embarrassing at times, depending on the infraction.

I totally agree with you, spanking is very important for females. My husband using Domestic Discipline in our marriage. My husband spanks me every single day since our wedding night (sometimes more than once a day). We believe that husband has a right to discipline wife everytime it's needed.

Yes my husband spanks me too. He is my master and I obey him. Spanking is good for our marriage.

Yes I so agree with you and am a spanked wife as well .

And the biggest question I have is; this is a ** confession forum and it automatically bleeps out the letters in words like ** off, ** and even ** 🤪

Oh it left ** but bleeps ⚽️ 🏀 ! Lol

I am a ** 25 year olde girl with a bizarre ** life. I only ** muscular young well hung black bodybuilders. I support myself as a dom ands my clients all know my sexual preference for bbc. They worship me. Many just want to kiss,lick and ** on my feet. Sexual surrender to the power that black ** has over white woman. A few want to spanked to ** over my lap as I tell them about my bbc experiences. In a yoga position as I spank them I will squeeze their ** between my soles and ** their ** with my middle toe. They become my slave for life after this humiliation.

No you’re not. You’re a pimply-faced 15 year old dude that takes his own d-i-l-d-o up his a-s-s.

** **!!

My husband disciplines me with spanking too. I must say I love it and crave it, especially the sexual loving that comes after. I too feel like a better and more secure woman with his discipline. It is important for all of you to remember this can be a secure and loving practice that makes a relationship more secure and happy. After 27 years I know I can walk away any time, but I don't by my own choice. I love him deeply and he respects me enough to care about my behavior. When my spankings come I wear absolutely nothing but pantyhose all day, anticipating my discipline. Throughout the day he reminds me about my behavior and the importance it has to our relationship. He affirms his deep love and desire for me. When the time comes I lay across his lap as he delivers a spanking. The sharp slapping of his hand on my panty-hosed ** drives me crazy with desire. After about twenty slaps he massages my ** and talks about his love for me. This turns into incredible mutual sexual activity with both of us pleasing the other in every possible way! It goes on for hours and bonds us in mutual love. I love my man deeply, submissively, and supportively. I would not change our relationship for anything.

The important thing is not whether it is consensual, but whether the wife chooses to stay with her spanking husband, because even though his spankings hurt, they make her love and respect her husband more.

I love this site. All these postings are exactly what I needed. Thanks everyone for telling your stories. As a submissive wife I look forward to be spanked

My husband spanked me from the very first day we have met.
My mother told him that she and my father spanked me since I was a little girl.
When we started dating I was still a virgin.
After our first date I asked him to discipline me.
We were in the privacy of my room, and I took of my skirt.
I was wearing the white cotton ** underneath, as my mother told me to do.
My father spanked me usually over this kind of **.
I was over his lap and he spanked me very firmly.
During spanking I felt his erected ** on my hip.
Nothing unusual: my father's ** was always erected when he spanked me.
After a proper spanking my bottom was very red, warm and sore.
When the spanking was over, I kissed his hand and expressed him my gratitude.
Then we kissed, for the first time.

On the second date he disciplined me on the same way.

For the third date, my mother told me not to wear cotton **. To wear thong, in order he can spank my naked bottom cheeks. So he can spank it on the regular way and my intimate parts would still be covered.
When he saw it, he was trilled.
He rewarded me with a long, firm spanking.
I cried a lot, much more then I usually cry during spanking.
He also liked a lot of (my) tears.
I was preparing for our fifth date, and my mother told me to let him touch my **. To ask him to hold my ** with one hand and to spank me with the other.
I told him that.
Before spanking I removed my t-short and my bra, and he spanked me again over his lap, holding my ** with one hand.
My ** were erected even before and during spanking.
From this day on, I was obligated to allow him to touch my ** during kissing.
After our tenth date, my mother told me to wear only ** when we are in my room. And to lay in the bed, so he can touch me whenever he wanted, except the ** zone.
It was my first time and a new experience for me.
Several weeks after that, I told my mother that I saw the man's organ alive.
She administrated me a proper ...

Belting. I was on the bed, on my tummy.
She used the belt on my naked thighs and bottom.
And she told me to take his organ in my hand on the next date.
And I did it. It was very new for me.
When we were engaged, My mother told me to take off my ** before we lay in the bed.
When my fiance spanked me, I was even without **. He was the second male person who spanked me like that. (My father was the first, of course).
After a proper spanking, we were both naked in the bed.
He touched me everywhere. I was really aroused, because my mother didn't allow me to **.
Each attempt of touching myself down there ended with a firm belting.
But he also don't allowed me to **.
We were in the bed, late at night both naked, kissing and hugging, he touched my naked body for hours, he really liked to hold his hand between my legs but I was not allowed to c**.
My spankings were regularly.
He really took care about me and my discipline.
I was very thankful and grateful to him for it.
In our wedding night he spanked me first. It was a spanking for a memory.
And then he turned me on my tummy and spread my bottom chicks.
He inserted his ** deep inside it. It was a little bit unpleasant; nobody else haven't ever done it before; it was my first time to feel man's ** in my **.
And then he ... his ** in my **.
And f***** me very hard. It was very painful.
From this day on we call in the first step on ** discipline.
My mother told me to tell her when I loose the virginity.
When it happened, I told her.
He administrated me 10 disciplinary sessions with the belt.
Once a week for 10 weeks.
My husband still spanks me regularly, once a week, at least.
And I am pretty okay with that.

Your parents raised you right and properly prepared you for marriage and chose the right husband who could take over what your father entrusted him with.

You have just found your soul mate, and he enjoys spanking you when you deserve it - and you accept it and even crave it as part of your ** life. Good for you and good for him, and I hope you'll go on making each other happy.

I am spanked by my husband. We are married 32 yrs next September. When I’m spanked it’s usually warranted. I must take off my pants or skirt and bend over the back of a chair. Then I’m spanked usually with a hairbrush. At some point he stops and tells me to take off my **. This is more humiliating than the spanking.
I go over the chair and he continues my spanking. My rear is red and hot but my front is very wet.

I’m like you. My husband spanks me with a hairbrush. I’m in a blouse and **. My spankings are always by a picture window in the living room. Sometimes I’m bent over looking out.v I can see people walking. Other times it’s the reverse, my hiny is facing the window,
. That’s more embarrassing to me. Either way he uses a hairbrush. The rest of the day I’m kept ** from the waist down.

No, you're not crazy. You have a sexual fantasy or fetish with your husband acting like your dad. The crazy part is that he smacks the ** out of you when you're not even doing **. Also, that you obey his every command as if you were his daughter. He is even crazier because he has a fetish where he thinks you're like his daughter. So, if you think about if you're crazy, then he's crazy too, and you belong with each other. Happy Ending!

It has nothing to do with being father and daughter, but everything to do with being man and woman. Women feel feminine and sevy when their husbands or boyfriends bare their bottoms for a good, old-fashioned spanking. And if the wife has been a pain in the ** or behaved irresponsibly, it also makes the man feel good and very masculine that he is able to spank his woman to tears and console and comfort her afterwards. One of the best moments for both parts is when she stands sobbing and red-bottomed in front of him after a real spanking, and he strokes her body and hair and comforts her and tells her that now everything is right between them. And the ** after such a confrontation is fantastic, because both parties want to do the best for their partner - and also the next day or two they feel closer and want to cuddle and have **. So don't knock spanking between man and woman - it has a very good function and both of them feel better afterwards.

They aren't treating each other like parent and child. He is taking the role of a husband very seriously being the head of the household and firm disciplinarian of his wife. She loves and respects him as a man and her husband and he loves and cares for her as his wife.

I can't imagine what will happen if you have a daughter, what if he thinks it's okay to do the same to her?

My hubby spanks me all the time when I am bad. Usually with his belt. Has for years.

Not weird

We both are in our 40s. She sometime love being spanked. The other day we got naked and **. I laid her on me lap exposing her ample ** cheeks - she could feel my hard-on against her abdomen. 1-2-3-4.... hard slaps on her ** cheeks and she orgasmed peeing on my thighs. That was too ** and I put her on her four and drilled her ** hard and deep till I flooded her hot **. OMG! the best ** after a long time.

You're crazy if you think the bible is important. My Christian wife likes being spanked, but, for us it is just a ** thing that leads her to an **. She has had fantasies since she was a schoolgirl and is well balanced enough to know that its just the way she is.

My hubby spanks my ** cheeks while ** me dogie and I utter filthy words. With every slaps on my ** cheek I squeeze my ** muscles tight ... wait for another. He gets excited with my verbals and he spanks hard as I ** and he shoots his load deep into me ... finishing our session off ! Love it...

Wow

My wife let's me smack with my hand lightly 2 smacks on each cheek ** lowered

Well afte she lets you spank her 2 times lightly I hope she gives you a warm glass of milk ........

I told my husband if he thinks I need a slap in the face its ok. I'm looking forward to the first one I get

There is something really disordered about women wanting to be hit or spanked, even in bed, and there is something sadistic and evil about the men wanting to do it. Women should not have to be submissive to evil. The Bible says that the husbands should love their wives, as Christ loved the Church. How did Christ love the Church? By shedding His own Blood to save her, by sacrificing Himself, instead of the Church, to save her. To have a husband who cares and wants to serve his wife, the wife should submit to the love the husband shows her, not abuse.
Read Theology of the Body.

Not everyone agrees with your religious beliefs so there is no reason to read your bible and use it as a guide for life. There are a lot of different religions out there along with lots of people who don't believe in anything at all. :shrug: as I'm sure you'd say, we're all god's children, right?

**. – Jeremiah 30:11 (NIV) As husbands our discipline should always start off gently and then move toward harder forms of discipline.

No, a man who spanks the woman he loves for endangering her life
and their security is not abusing her. He does it because he loves her,
and though she may resent it while she is being spanked -
bare-bottomed and over his knees - she will love and respect him all
the more afterwards. That's the way it works in relationships where
men spank because they love their wives - and wives appreciate it.

I do appreciate it.
I am pretty okay with regular spankings administered in the privacy of our bedroom.
But my husband also spanks me in front of his parents and my parents.
Both of them are also okay with that.
I am a obedient women but i am a little bit embarrassed when i must take off my ** in front of his parents. Even in front of my parents.

YES

I repeat the person before me, YES

No, it is not abusive. I love my hubby squash hard my ** while massaging them and as I ** he bites my nips enhancing my physical pleasure. I have couple of teeth marks on my aerolas ... looks nice.

I'm all for spanking when its needed I spanked my first wife we were together for 30 years I started spanking her before we were married the same thing with my 2nd and current wife I've been spanking my women for the last 42 years

Yall are ** up, i get it if its a kink, but you guys actually treat women like children. and even then, studies have proved that spanking children doesn't do anything. and yall love blaming your bible for being abusive, like nah that's sounds like a you problem

People always go on about "studies have shown" but then where are those studies and how scientific were they. Like many studies you can be sure they were tailored to obtain the wanted result.

I agree. A little spanking and even submission in the moment can be fun but these people aren’t playing. “When she needs it”! ? Seriously a man gets to decide when she need discipline!? Sounds like he is a narcissist and she has low self esteem! It angers me that a woman would allow someone to be dominant over her in real life! She needs therapy!

Yes she does need therapy , to ‘’allow ‘’ it she should realize in reality she had no physical power over a man a man of my size anyway 200 plus pounder , and for her to think she has the power to allow it , is psychological dominance on her part and under mines the mans physical dominance over her , thus making the man at her command thus ruining their raw physical natural connection of the man being physically stronger which leads to a unnatural form of ** also , reducing the phychological dominance of a mans mind leads to In most cases whimpy ** making the man a summissive whimp and the lady a dominant controlling thug

Spanking your wife is not like spanking children. Wives may
need it and want it, and she can leave their marriage if she
really dislikes it, but for man and wife it is as much a confirmation
of their love for each other as it is a punishment. For children it is
only a punishment, and they have to stay with their family.

Spanking yes but not in front off children! Yes my husband is the head off the house, but I have rights too! Comes to spanking, it’s only in bed ! Not in front off kids! That’s wrong! I love my husband and yes I obey him, but he doesn’t put hand on me at all only comes to ** in bed behind locked doors away from kids. We live with the Bible and my husband have the saying in the house! I love it! I serve him ! But he would never spank me in front off our kids! Never! It’s between me and him!

I agree. Behind closed doors should spankings take place but a swat is ok. My kids love the attention my husband shows me

Wtf type of ** "mY hUsbAnd iS thE hEaD OfF ThE hOusE" what type of white ** is this

Don’t blame the white people you sick racist

“I hAvE 3 BaByDaDiEs aNd NoNe aRe ArOuNd-“ what type of no white buckshot is this?

ALL OF YOU GROW UP. This is consenting adults ONLY. CHOICE.

She already said right she lives by the Bible ?! Bible explicitly says man should submit to the will of the lord (church) . And wife should submit to her husband and husband should take care of her and love her!
Nothing wrong with being religious as long it’s not abuse

Interesting what husbands want. I like to show my wife off. I like her to feel on show. Something for me to show off and control. So I like her to be a little skimpy. I like her to tell people she is obedient and submissive. I also like her to submit to being spanked. I don't mean just a titilating hand spanking I mean a full on whipping that is insanely painful and leaves welts and bruises that take several weeks to heal.

Just perfect

Did you always spank your wife from the beginning of your relationship? Does she like being spanked? Or does she need it? How often do you spank her?

My husband began spanking me on our wedding night. He took me in his arms said he was head of houdehold and i would obey him.in everything. He then said he would show me what i would get if i didntn bey. He then turned me over his knee and spanked me very hard with his hand. I learned fast and we have been married 15 years and I'm expecting our 8th child being pregnant does not prevent a spanking. My ** is red and sore now because of paddling I received yesterday.I'm only allowed to gain so much weight each month and will be expected to be at my original weight eithimn3bweeks after baby is born in have only failed to do this after myn4th pregnancy and he really tore my ** up i was down to my goal e right within days I just needed the spanking as motivation. Also I breast feed my children so basically in 10 years my milk has never dryer up as my husband enjoys nursing along with the baby. Some might think I'm crazy but letting my husband control of all my life I am free from worry and he allows me to have time for myself to do things I like that he approved of. After 7 children I don't need to be spanked as often as I did in beginning and I miss. When he does punish me it. It is always a very hard over knee spanking with his hand or paddle. He has only use his belt on me once. My bottom was so sore he would not ** me for days he said never again. And he hasn't he can really tear my ** up with his hand and paddle. ** is always great After a good whipping. He never spanks kids. Spanking is reserved for mommy. I would not have any other way. Sorry I have rambled on so I know this life style is not for all but I would not have any other way.

Yes, spanking is fine for the wife when she misbehaves,
but children should not be spanked. My wife also benefited
from a good, hard and bare-bottomed spanking, and she was
more loving and tender wife for many days after a spanking.

I disagree children need spankings up to about age 12 , but never beatening , wife or children. That's a sin before GOD and man to beat eather.

Married over 20 years and I've been spanked about 4 times or so. I can say each time I totally deserved it and each time was very sound on my bared bottom. Once was a sound spanking then he took off his belt and gave me a strapping. I learned my lesson and as I said I deserved them all.

This post and these comments are sick

There is nothing sick about a woman who admits that she needs
a spanking from her husband, when she has done something bad.
And there is nothing sick or perverted about the husband, who has
found out that his wife wants it that way, whether or not he himself
gets turned on by spanking her. It is a good thing that people get what
they want, even if it is a bare-bottomed spanking. :-)

Then dont read them or give your 2 cents. Its meaningless.

My husband has been spanking me too. ..I've had some boyfriends in the past do it too... I think I have some testing thrill of annoying g them but honestly hate being spanked. When I get a spanking ill pinch my husband or slap his face....which gets me harder ones.
I've decided to hide his stuff to teach him a lesson
Beside's this power struggle battle
We get along great

You may hate the actual spanking on your bare bottom,
but you love leading him on - and without the exciting
danger of a sore bottom you would be bored. So you are
lucky to have a husband who provides - also spankings when
you need them.

The only time my husband has spanked me yet was for slapping his face repeatedly in a fit of jealosy. The first time I slapped him, he warned me not to do again, so when I slapped him again he turned me over his knees, pulled down my ** and spanked my bare bottom long and hard. Soon I began to cry and promise to stop being jealous, but he continued setting fire to my behind until I just lay sobbing and totally subdued. Afterwards he explained why he had spanked me and that I had absolutely no reason to be jealous, because he would not have ** with other women, and I believed him. I know he would not have spanked me, if he had done something wrong, so when we made up and had ** ater he had dried my tears and comforted me, I felt better ande more at ease than ever before. He has not spanked me since, and sometimes I feel like pretending a fit of jealousy to make him spank me again and have that wonderful feeling afterwards. But I don't want to hurt him, and besides the thoughtof how much that spanking hurt also deters me. What do you think I should do?

By the way was it a bare cheeks spankin

Tell him you need it for sexual pleasure

You are not the first woman who finds out that you like getting spanked,
because you have slapped your husband and he retaliated with a bare-
bottomed spanking. It also happened between me and my first wife, and
after the spanking we made up and made love and got really close to
each other. And the next few days we were very much in the mood for
love and **, and she confessed that the spanking had really turned
her on and renewed her respect for me. But it had also hurt her bottom
and her pride (normally we are completely equal), so we agreed that
I should only do it again, when she had been really naughty - and that
happened only a few times after her much too early death because of
a big heart.

Rather than spanking my newlywed spread her ** cheeks for mel)

My husband got really upset with me after almost ten years of marriage. I had been being b***hy for a long time and just kind of obstinate and not nice. Again this went on and off for a couple of years. He finally swatted my ** and took me upstairs telling me he was spanking me. I have no idea why but I went quietly. I went over his lap and was spanked on my bare bottom very soundly!
I actually realized how wrong I'd been acting, the spanking woke me up and I began acting better.
Years later he said I needed a spanking in jest, I said okay. I guess I wanted it again. He told me if I got it, it would be real and very sound and I agreed. I spoke to him throughout the day and he confirmed that I wanted this. I said I did but taunted him saying I didn't believe he'd follow through. When he came home he bared me and spanked the daylights out me! He really gave me the spanking of my life.
He said from then on this is how he would handle me when I needed it and I again agreed saying okay.
In the beginning I received many sound spankings for various reasons but I've learned and needed less in recent years. If everything is going well I've realized my husband will still paddle me soundly at least once a year saying "Things are going well and we're going to keep it that way!" I think this has worked very well for us over the years. VA.

We recently started DD. It’s already helping. My hubby of over 10 years spanks me several times a week. He tore my booty up last night (still sore).

I am actually reading this with a very very sore **. I got his belt yesterday.

You would have other things sore if you were my wife

So hot

What did you do to get the belt?

I failed to do something ask me to do and he blistered my bare **

Why do I have an ** while reading this

Omg I know right? These blogs are my ** so ** up

My hubby and I have been married 20 years. And he has always spanked me. Usually always with belt or paddle. He has spanked me in front of friends and family as well. I love it keeps me line.

I once spanked my girlfriend in front of her best friend, because she was jealous and implied there was something between her friend Eileen and me. The spanking convinced her that it was not so, and after the spanking Eileen also confirmed that. My girlfriend wanted me to console her and comfort her - and I took care of that too, and it completely stopped her fits of meaningless jealousy. She does not like getting spanked - always bare-bottomed over my knees with the flat of my hand - but she knows she deserves it sometimes, and it makes her feel very much like a woman - my woman I may add.

Sara spanked me for the same reason. She thought her girlfriend and I were flirting. When she left Sara said take off your pants and undies so we can have fun. Vi did. She said lean across your desk. I did. Suddenly my rear lit up as she spanked my with a wood bath brush. I started to get up but the tone of her voice warned me not to. She had me spread my legs as she continued. I had tears streaming down. When she stopped she said stay there. Then I felt her ** pushing on my **. I tried to resist but her ** popped in eventually. Sliding it in and out she yelled this what you want to do to Cara. She fingered me until she was tired. I was sore, very sore.

My husband and I were visiting friends. Our friend in 'fun' pushed his girlfriend over the sofa and began swatting her bottom. He's a big guy and He smacked her bottom full force at least twenty times or more as she squealed and bucked unable to get off the sofa. He made a joke as she rubbed her bottom telling him it hurt. Her ** had to be red by how hard he spanked her. I kind of felt bad for her getting spanked in front of us like that even if it was supposed to be in fun.
I experienced worse months later when we celebrated my birthday with them and two other couples. Returning to our apartment after dinner for cake and drinks someone said I hadn't had a birthday spanking yet. The big guy who'd spanked his girlfriend, asked to start things off. My husband was videotaping throughout the night, said okay and proceeded to video as our friend bent me under his arm and gave me Twenty-nine fast,hard swats almost like he'd given his girlfriend but maybe not quite as hard. I yelled from the first swat on as he gave me a real spanking! My ** was stinging and warm! I think I was on the verge of my eyes watering. He held me there while the others gave me each a smack. A co-worker I was friends with as well said it wasn't fair she wanted to give me a birthday spanking as well. Everyone drank at dinner and we were very,very relaxed.
Our friend lowered me over her lap as I tried to get out of it. My co-worker also gave me a spanking as the others counted to twenty-nine and one for luck. The first fifteen were slow and firm, but the last fifteen were firm and fast and after having been spanked soundly already I was squirming and kicking. She sat me up on her lap and told me I'd better not act up at work.
Reluctantly next was my husband. Watching the video later I was shocked! My skirt flipped up going over his lap, my red ** in just pantyhose was visible to all when lightly spanked by my husband as they sang happy birthday. The next morning my ** was sore!

Are you embarrassed too be spanked in front of your family and friends?

Yes. Shortly after we were married and we were at my mom’ for dinner. I was in a bitchy, rude mood. Eventually mom said Karen get the hairbrush, I turned red and pleaded no mom, please.
Knowing it would only get worse I got it. Dave was deadly silent. Mom said lift your skirt and across that table. I did, horribly embarrassed. She began with that brush. Karen, take your ** off. Mom please, Four more with that brush and I took my ** down, she continued, I was squirming and yelping. When she finished I had to stay over the table, legs spread. It was humiliating. Dave was oddly quiet.
Then mom said Dave, spank her. He hesitated and she said it’s her hiny or yours. He began lightly spanking me. Harder or it’s you. He began giving me a very hard spanking,
Now he spanks me twice a month. It is embarrassing but it’s fun when he finishes.

My wife was, but since it involved Eileen, her best friend whom she accused of having an affair with, she got a long and hard bare-bottomed spanking in front of Eileen, and after the spanking they both agreed that I had done the right thing and stopped her jealousy that way.

Spank me.

Every woman needs a spanking and I'm happy to give them out.

You're sick.

U sound like a predator

Do you spank your wife? How often? How long have you been married?

Don't know if this is asked to any one person but I'll answer you're question.
It's not a regular occurrence but in almost twenty years of marriage my wife has had about a half dozen sound spankings when she needed (or wanted ) one.
I say it that way because once I said she needed to be spanked and she wanted me too for real. So I spanked her soundly and suggested she get it regularly. The next week or so she brought it up again so I spanked her good and then spanked her again until she felt she'd had enough. I probably should have kept it up but didn't and she didn't bring it up again.
She did get another for something she did.
The last one she had been really bad (wont go into details). She was spanked then I gave her a good ** whipping with the belt. Her bubble ** was red, sore and welted. She never repeated the same behavior again

I need a spanking.

Would love to spank you otk knickers taken down until your bottom is red raw

I will give you a good spanking

I can give you a spanking

Many wives have found that it is very good for them to have a husband who lovingly disciplines them. feel blessed.

Yes, spanking is a sort of discipline that is luckily not used much with children nowadays. But in an adult relationship it can have a good effect, if the man knows how and when to spank his naughty wife. It is mostly meant as a punishment, and a bare-bottomed spanking really hurts, bit it is the kind of pain and situation that is ** as well. So in spite of the pain most women accept the spanking when they know they have done something wrong and deserve a punishment. And women never feel more feminine and men more masculine than during and after a spanking - and that feeling often continues while her bottom is still red and a bit sore. It is a useful reminder to behave - but also of the good time they had afster the spanking.

I have been disciplining my wife throughout our marriage, and she understood from the start that she is submissive to me and that I will correct her with a spanking. She is spanked, usually with a belt or paddle, for disrespect, disobedience, or serious irresponsibility. She needs to undress, kneel before me to be verbally corrected, then go over my knee to get spanked hard and lectured firmly.

I have seen the benefit, including some past behaviors disappear, and the immediate responsiveness she shows to me after being spanked. Any conflict also disappears quickly after she goes over my knee. As others have pointed out, a spanking clearly reestablishes the man's leadership, and the wife's softness to him. After many years of peaceful and happy marriage, I have never regretted bringing discipline into our marriage. I would not want to be without it.

How long have you been married? Do you spank your wife only at home or would you do so in public if the situation warranted it?
Thank you for sharing your experience in domestic discipline.

Does your wife feel better after her spankings and discipline? I imagine there would be relief afterward. Is this the only form of punishment that you use?

Great! I am there also....need a good spanking and a lot of love.

My gf is a lot younger than me and she drinks a lot. She does stupid ** when she drinks -breaks things and sht. Eventually i had just had it and i told her we were done. She cried and said she wanted me to hit her. I said no way. She said she had done bad things but wanted to be with me still no matter what. I said no. But finally she said she was genuinely sorry and that if i punished her she could change. So we made rules. On her request, i bent her over my lap on the couch and beat her bare ** bottom with our bath brush. Severely, but again, only as she asked. The next time she got wasted and ** up the house, i bent her over our bed and whipped her with my belt until she was in tears. Is this ok? I don't enjoy it but she says she needs it. At this point i spank her almost daily. She is a ** brat still, jesus christ.

I have always had bare bottom spankings That is the best way to do it I some times walk around the house bare bottom showing My husband laughs and before I know I am over his knees Sometimes he used the wooden ruler or hairbrush This stings good and I like it Give me more

There's been times where I stayed bare for a while after having been spanked also. He even had me finish cleaning (what I promised to have done and didn't) with my red ** bare.
I admitted that a spanking seems to work for me sometimes but wanted to find a way to get it prior to really acting up or getting rude. (Which I think I would end up doing to provoke a spanking.) But I was embarrassed to ask for it.
We have signals now, I'll leave a belt on the bed or the wooden brush out of place, such as on the counter. My husband at some point after seeing my signal gets firm and takes me in hand. It works great in addition to if he finds something to spank me for.
But my big sign that I want ** and some sort of spanking is to walk around bare Bottomed!

I am a twenty three year old wife and I agreed to be spanked when we got married six months ago. My dad told my husband he needed to control me with a firm hand so that is what he does. I’m his little girl now, he takes great care of me but he is also strict with me, and at least once a month I have a very sore bottom. I am always spanked on my bare bottom having my skirt and knickers removed ( I am not allowed to wear tights) then lectured on my behaviour before going over his knee for a hand spanking after which I am not allowed to to redress but must remain naked below the waist for the rest of the day. He has my pubic hair waxed fortnightly which sometimes leads to embarrassment if exposing my rosey red cheeks to the beautician and having to admit that I have been a naughty girl to her. Lynne.

I am sitting at work with a sore ** as I write this. My name is Michelle I am 45 my husband is 46 we have been married 25 years and he has spanked me and disciplined me since we met. He only uses a belt or paddle and always on my bare ** anytime he wants. I got a speeding ticket yesterday morning on my to work, and when I got home he was waiting for me with his belt. He made me bend over our table and pull my skirt up I got 30 hard licks until I was crying. I had to count every lick. After my whipping I had to stand in corner and I got grounded for 1 week. We also have 3 kids all girls and all teenagers they know our lifestyle. I think it’s ok. I have had to whip them. I like my punishments we go to bed he punishes me harder and takes it out on my ** which he owns

I commented earlier, I started getting spanked after ten years of marriage. I've got it with his belt only a few times for more serious stuff. Wow it stings!
If he warns me to stop something or asks if I want an a** whipping, I know he means the belt and I quickly settle down. We were out once and I'd been drinking and getting feisty.( I don't know why sometimes I taunt him if it's been a while and I'm thinking about getting spanked.) He said to me "Does somebody need an a** whipping?"
I got smart and said I may need a little spanking. He assured me if I didn't settle down I'd get a good spanking and I might get my ** whipped too!
Long story short I didn't settle down and taunted him saying he wouldn't F****ng dare! (don't often curse) He said We'll see.

I wanted a spanking and I got one before we even got home! It was in the car, pretty soundly then he made me ** him. I felt very submissive.
Went home, got naked and ready for bed and **. He took his belt and gave me the a** whipping he told me I needed. Quite the a** beating for a naughty girl, I felt it for two days! VR

I'm not the one with kids, and I agree kids should not be involved or see this in any form. VR

Ur sick and someone needs to call child services on you. Its one thing to let ur husband spank you. Thats fine. But for kids to know about it? That's. Sick. You're warping their minds and should be taken away.

That child service is wrong, that’s why so many kids are screwed up, discipline is important, 30 years ago you didn’t have children service, you got a spanking and I’m ok today, none of my kids have been arrested, they work hard and enjoy life

** off, you monstrous **! your children deserve better than you!!

Have to totally agree, not for kids to be part of. VR

Agreed

In our home, my wife does all the spanking, me included. She strips me, or catches me coming out of the shower & puts me over her knee, then spanks to her satisfaction. Sometimes, she'll pull the covers down in the morning (I sleep naked & on my stomach), sit on my shoulders & spank me awake. markiee

My wife uses a hard wooden hairbrush on me regularly and never stops until I am crying. I hate to go to they gym after a spanking as the marks stay a few days and everybody can guess I got spanked.

If we would live our lives by the way the Bible talks about, and follow God, we wouldn't have the BS we have in this country as much as we do. Marriage is the same way. If men would follow their role and encourage women to follow theirs, and women would follow their role and encourage men to live theirs as the Bible direct us to live, we wouldn't have all of this divorce. And it's a man's right under God to keep Authority in his home. As the church, the body of Christ, obeys Christ as our husband, the wife should obey her husband. And as Christ does, whether you believe it or not, but does discipline his bride, Believers in Jesus Christ, the husband has the right to discipline his wife. What good is having Authority if you can't use it. Christ will use his authority on us, especially during judgment. Therefore the husband has a right to use his authority, and even spank his wife when she disobeys. Don't like it, it doesn't matter. the Bible is the only opinion that matters,
not yours.

People like you love to speak for the bible and say dont like it or like it so to shut down thr truth. the bible even warns men that is=f they treat their wives harshly their prayers will be hindered. colosians 3:19 and 1peters 3:7. a husband is to lead by love and servanthood leadership not some sick kind of superiority. the bible stells men not to forget that their wives are equal heirs with them in christ. she submits to her husband as to christ, but not worshiping her husband. she is accountable to God for her discipline not to her husband. stop twisting the bible to fit in ur sick lifestyle. the bible says in 1timothy 3:6 that false teachers are also those who worm their way into women households and gain control over women who are loaded with sins and swayed by their evil desires. the bible refers to women like you as weak, gullible silly and with no understanding of the word of god upon your life so next time you are getting spanked think about how you have failed yourself by undermining the gift of wisdom and understandin god has dresed a christian wife with proverbs 31.

Since you bring the Bible into this, please show me the scripture references that you rely upon.
King David denied his first wife, Michal bat-Shaul, ** and therefore children for the rest of her life. This is directly opposed to the attitude that God (YHVH) displays toward ** and marriage throughout the Bible. Apostle Paul repeats this in 1 Corinthians 7 when he commands husbands and wives to have sexual ** whenever either so desires (subject to the guidance of Scripture) and not to skip ** for very long, “lest you be tempted.”
The Scripture contains the proverb, “It’s better to live in the corner of the rooftop (their houses had flat roofs) than with a brawling woman in a wide house.” I can't think of any passage that endorses spanking one’s wife.

Yes I obey my husband is in charge like the Bible says. Not only does he spank me he uses his belt

My husband and I have practiced CDD for 2 years now. He paddles/belts me and takes away certain previlages. I have a daily routine starting with bible study in the mornings and I've skipped a few days and he made me copy the bible for an hour. He usually comes up with alternative punishments but has used the paddle and belt.

I too am spanked. My husband is the head of our family and I chose to obey him. He spanks me when it’s called for. It makes me a better person. I love being held accountable and I love the authority he has over me.

My husband spanked me for the first time a few days ago. He bared my bottom and spanked me long and hard, and I screamed and yelled, but finally I just lay there sobbing and apologizing for having slapped him in a temper tantrum. After the spanking he took good and loving care of me, and soon we were both in the mood for some wonderful **. I told him later in bed that the spanking had hurt something awful, and that I hoped he would not make a habit of spanking me. He promised only to do it when I had really done something bad to deserve it, and I accepted that and now love and respect my husband even more than before, because I know he is able and willing to spank me, if I do something really bad. And even though my bottom is still a bit sore and the spanking really hurt, I also remember how sweet and caring he was afterwards. So all in all I love him even more now, but I hope he will not spank me again soon - but as he says, I can always behave, so I'll try to do that - at least for a while, because it's not always easy, and the first spanking made me love even more - afterwards.

Does my husband have to spank me in front of our kids? if so why? and why do I need to be **?

Yes. apparantly your husband believes in you being spanked w your kids watching. im the same type of husband. and yes it must be fully **

Do you have boys or girls

That should not be happening. If you're into the Bible then show the verses pertaining to how wrong that situation is.

My hubby has whipped me in front of our daughters many times. They are teenagers and the understand that if i disobey the rules then I get daddy’s belt. They too have been disciplined mainly by me but it’s always bare bottom for us all

This is a dude. It's not real.

How did it go?

Pid

My husband just decided all three of my stepsons who are all teen boys will get to watch tomorrow night when he spanks me. he has already told me that I will have to have this spanking wearing nothing and all three boys will see me **. he also says he wants to spank extremely hard so I will cry. ive agreed and accepted the punishment. just makes me nervous

I think your stepsons shoukd be taking turns spanking you too

I do not think this is right at all, with the teenagers watching this.

I think this is very wrong.

I find it interesting the different way adults view spanking other adults. For me I want my wife to be submissive and obedient. I get turned on spanking her and I like her to accept the pain as a demonstration of her submission. But she is an adult and the idea of her behaviour being controlled through fear of physical punishment seems to imply a degree of immaturity on her part.

It's never immaturity on your part. It's you leading the home as her Authority. There's never immaturity when you're doing it for her benefit and to help her become a better person. It's not abuse when your spanking her on the ** and she deserves it. I don't care what people think, they don't matter. That's my feelings on it.

My husband spanked me lastnight. I feel a lot better now though. I wasn't listening to him about taking someone money well I got ahead of myself and told that person to meet me before my husband said it was okay. He told me not to do anything with that money until I heard from him and I did something I wasn't supposed to with it now I'm restricted to the bedroom and I got a spanking from my husband last night I hope he doesn't give me another spanking before bed but I think he's going to. I haven't been aloud to get out of bed today and he is making me wear a diaper I'm not allowed to get out of bed until he says I can I know not to get ahead of myself again I learnt my lesson I love you my beautiful husband. I'm sorry I disobeyed you. I won't do it again. It dose make me a better person and Wife when he punishes me and spanks me I feel so much better emotionally too.

When Hal is going to spank me we go out to dinner first. I must wear a short skirt and no **. It’s kind of exciting. When we get home, the skirt comes off. I’m half naked until he is ready. He puts me across the kitchen table, spreads my legs and uses a plastic paddle.

I think that is typical somehow. Women tend to have a bigger super-ego than men, so when they have done something wrong - or even bad, they often get a guilty conscience, and when she is punished by a spanking from her boyfriend or husband, it relieves her conscience - so she gets a sore bottom, but a clean conscience, and most women prefer that to a guilty conscience and no spanking.

I hate wearing a diaper after a spanking!

How often do you have to wear diapers? Is this always part of your punishment? I am required to wear mine every night because my husband is a light sleeper and doesn’t want to be awakened during the night by me getting up and going to the bathroom. At first I found it to be humiliating but now that I’m used to it, it doesn’t bother me so much. I don’t like wearing them in public though and that is part of my punishment on occasion.

My husband paddles,belts and grounds me. We practice CDD & have for 2 years. I am only allowed to wear skirts and dresses except around the house and have a daily routine starting with bible study first thing in the morning. I have skipped the last two days and now I'm grounded. I had to copy from the bible for an hour today for slacking.

My wife does not get any clothing priveleges at our house. I enforce full ** for her at all times. it seems to be very effective as far as im concerned. im debating if I should make this a permanent rule for her.

That is not right

When we are alone my husband does this. He’ll give a chores I have to complete in the ** as well. Also, I’m not allowed to wear any clothing to bed, ever. He makes our decisions, provides structure and discipline for me. We have a great marriage and it makes me a better person! I love the control and authority he has over me. I love how submissive I am to him and how obeying him comes natural.

I love my husband’s dominion over me. I gave it gladly. I know that he will make all the decisions and rules for our life. I am required to show respect and deference to him at all times. If he feels I need a spanking, I receive one. If I fail to show gratitude and appreciation then I’ll get another. He requires submission and if he thinks I’m departing from that rule, he will bring me back in line. Examples of how he does this include me wearing diapers or an ** plug when we are out on public, Him asking me publicly for others to hear if my diaper needs changing and lots of spankings and corner time afterwards.

My husband spanks me. My behaviour isnt being controlled through feat of physical punishment. I have four rules that I have to follow at all times. I try my best to follow them but i break them sometimes. I know if I break the rules I get a spanking. I dont fear the spankings t hgv at husband gives me. I know that he will not give me more then I can handle. I do get nervous when I know I'm going to a spanking but I dont fear it. I love submitting to my husband this way.

When I have spanked my wife - bare-bottomed and otk - she has always made a lot of fuss while the spanking takes place, but afterwards she just wants to be cuddled, kissed and made love to. She respects me for spanking her, when she deserves it, and I respect her submitting to it - not during the spanking, when the flat of my hand hurts her bare bottom, but after the spanking when we forgive each other and she tearfully confesses that she loves me all the more for punishing her with a long and hard spanking, when she deserves it, and we are always very much male and female when we make up and make love after her spanking.

My husband and I have been married for over a year now and he has never spanked me but he has been gone for a while now on personal business. When I talked to him on the phone yesterday he said I am in trouble with him when he gets home and was going to spank me for the first time and I will be restricted to my bedroom. He said he will explain what I did when he gets home. He promised me that he would never spank me with anything other than his hand. I'm worried about it because I don't know what I did and I know how strict he is on me. I'm not allowed to even walk down the street by myself with out him. He said that it is dangerous I I will not allow you to go anywhere without me. He is good to me and I love him very much and respect his diction to spank me when he gets home but really scared of it. How will I feel emotionally after he spanks me can anyone tell me what to expect after? I'm 35 and he is 52 year's old. I was the one who agreed to this in our marriage but he has never done it before. So yeah I'm waiting for my first discipline bad part is I have 4 more months to think about why he is going to spank me when he gets home and what it is I did I'm puzzled about it. Can another woman email me and tell me what to expect after the spanking? My email address is jennrus77@gmail.com thanks hope to hear from another cdd wife.

Iam a 33 house wife named nicole but you will n okay if u know and know hr won't go to far it's okay you are his helper but he shud tell what's so you can correct the problem

Put you over my knee take your ** down and smack your bottom good and proper

How was it?

I was just spanked by my husband. I sit here with a sore red **. I feel I deserved it. He only uses his hand on my bate **

The anticipation is an important part. its just something you have to experience. no one can tell you haw it will be for you. if you have the right attitude it will bring you closer though.

i do think he should tell you what you did though, so you can make sure not to repeat the act.

I want my husband to have the control of what I do. We are both Christians and I beleave all married women should follow her husbands rules or be treated like a little girl. Yes I let him spank me or put me in the corner for the way I am sometimes. I need the structure of the discipline. Everyone is different and needs to find what works for there relationship.

I dont unerstand why people feel the need to justify this act with bible. if spanking you arouses you then go ahead but dont justify it with the bible nowhere does it say husbands should spank their wives? do you not fear God to insult his word ike that? if the bible was clear enough to say spare the rod and spoil the child why would it dilly dally when it came to husbands and wives. why do you turn something that was meant to be beutiful into a sick fetish and the arrogancy that comes with it phrases like that is wat it says like it or not simply because you have no basis for ur claim. if that ** turns you on please get spanked till ur ** explodes for all we care but do not put false teaching out there. the bible says there is severe punishment for that. a marriage relationship is a consensual relationship between two adults and it is divine. it is not similar to parent/child, master/servant or government/citizen. that is what it says leave your father and mother join to your wife become one. thats why God is strict about anyone seperating two people or any one joining them. the bible is strict to marriage because its a covenant with God. he expects wives to submit and ensure they submit it does not tell husbands to make sure their wives are submissive. it tells husbands that their prayers will be hindered if they treat their wives harshly. so why do you promote heresy to the world that may not know God. the bible tells husbnds to love their wives as their own flesh adding that you dont HURT your own flesh but clothe it and feed it. meaning if he is spanking you he better be spanking himself as well otherwise what you are doing or desiring is not biblical. you are a ** wife that gets ** when spanked nothing to do with submisson and if you think that is submission sweetie you are dumber than you think coz the bible gives women the responsibility of making sure she herself ensures her submission to her husband and she is accountable to God not her husband.

I have been spanked three times in 30 years, only by his bare hand. We discussed it beforehand and mutually agreed it was a fair punishment. All times, my ** were pulled down and he would put me over his knee with my bottom up and head low to floor and I had very hard swats until he felt my bottom was red/warmed enough, which could be up to ten minutes. It was miserable. I only accepted it because I had one bare bottom spanking at 15 for the reason of mouthing off to my parents one toi many times and it worked. My husband spaned me always for arguments when I swear at him. My temper is much calmer now so I don't anticipate one again.

Spanking your wife or girlfriend is coming back in vogue as more
men realize that women want men to act like real men and not
accept their unacceptable behaviour sometimes. Women are never
ore feminine and men never more masculine than right after he has
had her over his knees for a sound bare-bottom spanking. During the
aftercare with making up and making love they come to feel closer
to each other and to their true identity as man and woman than any
other time.

I totally agree that women and men are always extremely feminine and masculine during and after he has spanked her bare bottom. She may cry and beg to let her off, but the man must do it properly, so that she remembers the spanking as a valuable lesson. After the spanking it is important that he takes good care of her and that they tell each other that they are forgiven and can make up and make love with a clean conscience. But it is important that he spanks hard and long enough to make her think twice, before she disobeys him on an important issue again.

That is also my experience. I have only spanked my wife a few times,
and she definitely does not like it while it goes on, and she starts by
fighting me, but eventually she gives in and judt lies over my knees
sobbing and apologizing. After the spanking she sits on my lap - very
carefully, and we assure each other of how much we love each other.
And when we make love a bit later we never feel and act more like a
woman and a man. So spanking works for us - my wife tries to avoid
them, because they hurt a lot, but at the same time she likes me to
take her in hand - and over my knees - when she has done something
to really deserve a spanking, because she feels more at ease with a
clean conscience when her bottom has paid the price for her behaviour,
and we are really good at taking care of each other after such a spanking.

Men who love their women and spank them when they deserve it would
never hit, kick or beat them any other way. The wife - or girlfriend as the case may be - get at hot bottom and maty have problems sitting comfortably
for a day or two, but the man always makes her feel that he loves her - both
during and after the spanking. And more often than not they love and cherish
each other all the more afterwards.

Men who spank their wives and girlfriends generally care a lot about them and want to be proud of them as women, and women who get spanked by
their men are angry at first, but soon it turns to love and wanting to make up and make love - and deep down these women are more feminine than other women and deep down they are also proud that their men are strong and determined and male enough to take them over their knees when they need it.

No reason to be ashamed. A lot of women feel that they benefit
from an occasional spanking from their husbands, and women are
never more feminine and men more masculine than after he has
spanked her and they make up and make love.

You and your husband have been together long enough that you should know how you really feel about each other. If things are ok in other areas, just enjoy being spanked. Life's too short for guilt over something that's nobody else's business.

Exactly, nowadays there is no reason for girls to be ashamed because they get spanked by their partners. Even if they don't want or like the spanking, they accept it as a necessary part of their life together - and most girls like part of it, especially the aftercare and feeling free of guilt - and anyway if a girl does not accept it, she can tell him to stop or leave him.

Yesterday my wife got the worst spanking in our married life, and that is five years now. She had been toa lunch with some lady friends and drove her car home, but unfortunately for her I was home and could tell she should have phoned me or a taxi instead. After a short while she confessed and admitted that she deserved a spanking. I used her own hairbrush on her bare bottom and I did it long and hard. She soon began crying and begging to be let off, but I continued spanking her until her bottom was crimson red and she was sobbing quietly over my knees. Afterwards we cuddled and I kissed her tears away and told her that loved her so much and would not risk losing her because of drinking and driving, and she promised never to do it again, and soon we were kissing and cuddling and having fantastic ** in the late afternoon. She was even more feminine and tender tah usual and I was very strong and masculine. There is something about spanking a woman's bare
bottom that brings that out in her as well as me, and the rest of the day and the day after we were even closer and more affectionate than usual, and my wife said that when I was like that afterwards it was almost worth being spanked, almost shed added and rubbed her still red and sore ande very cute bottom.

This is boasting rather than confessing.

Enjoy being spanked.

I enjoy both spanking and being spanked.

.....sometimes...................a ** just need a beating........

Remember how you disciplan your wife is how god is going to discipline you

Wow...

I spank laurey when needed

william

Too much, just a bit