My husband spanks me

I am 40 years old and have been married to my husband for 18 years, we dated 2 years before that. When we first met he was very jealous and demanding but very sweet and good to me. I remember I was driving soon after we met and I made a wrong turn and he pinched me. I got mad at him and he just laughed it off. That’s where I should have stopped it, but I kind of liked it.
If I did anything he thought was wrong he would get after me like a child. Once we got married he stepped up the discipline. He is a great husband and he provides well and means well but he keeps me in line. It’s strange I feel though and I cannot tell anyone because it is embarrassing. He has slapped me only once, and it was hard, but I mouthed off to him and dared him to do it. And he did. I don’t know why I did that. I usually do not talk back to him and certainly do not provoke him.
Just the other day I said a curse word, I said the S word when talking on the phone with a friend. He heard it and sternly said Watch your language. I said sorry and when I hung up he said Come here. I stood in front of him and he reached behind me and swatted by butt with his hand hard and said I don’t like you using that language. I said I was sorry and he said turn around I’m going to spank you. I turned around and bent over slightly and he spanked me h****** the butt. I said sorry again and he hugged me and gave me a kiss and then we made love. He can be gentle or rough in bed and he was very rough that night.
The thing is, he sparks me and gets after me but I wouldn’t change it. I love him and I want his discipline, it makes me a better person. I don’t curse at all usually and I listen to him. He gives me everything I could ever want and I would do anything for him and he would for me.

Today I wore a blouse that is a little low cut, I am busty and it showed some cleavage. I knew he wouldn’t like it unless he was with me, I could wear anything even tiny bikinis if he is with me, but I was out alone and he said You wore that? It shows all your t***. Then he said come here, and I went to him knowing what he was going to do and he said turn around and I did and he spanked me hard, just one seat but it stung. Then he said You’re too sexy and you’re t*** are too big to go out like that without me, don’t do it again. I mouthed off and asked What if I do? He got angry and said then you will be in big trouble.
I’m turned on because I know he will take it out on me later when we have s**. Isn’t that weird!

Jan 8, 2018

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  • Not weird

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  • There is something really disordered about women wanting to be hit or spanked, even in bed, and there is something sadistic and evil about the men wanting to do it. Women should not have to be submissive to evil. The Bible says that the husbands should love their wives, as Christ loved the Church. How did Christ love the Church? By shedding His own Blood to save her, by sacrificing Himself, instead of the Church, to save her. To have a husband who cares and wants to serve his wife, the wife should submit to the love the husband shows her, not abuse.
    Read Theology of the Body.

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  • YES

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  • Wtf type of bullshit "mY hUsbAnd iS thE hEaD OfF ThE hOusE" what type of white bullshit is this

  • “I hAvE 3 BaByDaDiEs aNd NoNe aRe ArOuNd-“ what type of no white buckshot is this?

  • ALL OF YOU GROW UP. This is consenting adults ONLY. CHOICE.

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  • This post and these comments are sick

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  • Then dont read them or give your 2 cents. Its meaningless.

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  • The only time my husband has spanked me yet was for slapping his face repeatedly in a fit of jealosy. The first time I slapped him, he warned me not to do again, so when I slapped him again he turned me over his knees, pulled down my panties and spanked my bare bottom long and hard. Soon I began to cry and promise to stop being jealous, but he continued setting fire to my behind until I just lay sobbing and totally subdued. Afterwards he explained why he had spanked me and that I had absolutely no reason to be jealous, because he would not have s** with other women, and I believed him. I know he would not have spanked me, if he had done something wrong, so when we made up and had s** ater he had dried my tears and comforted me, I felt better ande more at ease than ever before. He has not spanked me since, and sometimes I feel like pretending a fit of jealousy to make him spank me again and have that wonderful feeling afterwards. But I don't want to hurt him, and besides the thoughtof how much that spanking hurt also deters me. What do you think I should do?

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    Years later he said I needed a spanking in jest, I said okay. I guess I wanted it again. He told me if I got it, it would be real and very sound and I agreed. I spoke to him throughout the day and he confirmed that I wanted this. I said I did but taunted him saying I didn't believe he'd follow through. When he came home he bared me and spanked the daylights out me! He really gave me the spanking of my life.
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  • We recently started DD. It’s already helping. My hubby of over 10 years spanks me several times a week. He tore my booty up last night (still sore).

  • I am actually reading this with a very very sore butt. I got his belt yesterday.

  • You would have other things sore if you were my wife

  • So hot

  • What did you do to get the belt?

  • I failed to do something ask me to do and he blistered my bare butt

  • Why do I have an erection while reading this

  • Omg I know right? These blogs are my p*** so f***** up

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  • Are you embarrassed too be spanked in front of your family and friends?

  • Spank me.

  • Every woman needs a spanking and I'm happy to give them out.

  • You're sick.

  • U sound like a predator

  • Do you spank your wife? How often? How long have you been married?

  • I need a spanking.

  • Would love to spank you otk knickers taken down until your bottom is red raw

  • I will give you a good spanking

  • I can give you a spanking

  • Many wives have found that it is very good for them to have a husband who lovingly disciplines them. feel blessed.

  • I have been disciplining my wife throughout our marriage, and she understood from the start that she is submissive to me and that I will correct her with a spanking. She is spanked, usually with a belt or paddle, for disrespect, disobedience, or serious irresponsibility. She needs to undress, kneel before me to be verbally corrected, then go over my knee to get spanked hard and lectured firmly.

    I have seen the benefit, including some past behaviors disappear, and the immediate responsiveness she shows to me after being spanked. Any conflict also disappears quickly after she goes over my knee. As others have pointed out, a spanking clearly reestablishes the man's leadership, and the wife's softness to him. After many years of peaceful and happy marriage, I have never regretted bringing discipline into our marriage. I would not want to be without it.

  • How long have you been married? Do you spank your wife only at home or would you do so in public if the situation warranted it?
    Thank you for sharing your experience in domestic discipline.

  • Does your wife feel better after her spankings and discipline? I imagine there would be relief afterward. Is this the only form of punishment that you use?

  • Great! I am there also....need a good spanking and a lot of love.

  • I have always had bare bottom spankings That is the best way to do it I some times walk around the house bare bottom showing My husband laughs and before I know I am over his knees Sometimes he used the wooden ruler or hairbrush This stings good and I like it Give me more

  • There's been times where I stayed bare for a while after having been spanked also. He even had me finish cleaning (what I promised to have done and didn't) with my red butt bare.
    I admitted that a spanking seems to work for me sometimes but wanted to find a way to get it prior to really acting up or getting rude. (Which I think I would end up doing to provoke a spanking.) But I was embarrassed to ask for it.
    We have signals now, I'll leave a belt on the bed or the wooden brush out of place, such as on the counter. My husband at some point after seeing my signal gets firm and takes me in hand. It works great in addition to if he finds something to spank me for.
    But my big sign that I want s** and some sort of spanking is to walk around bare Bottomed!

  • I am a twenty three year old wife and I agreed to be spanked when we got married six months ago. My dad told my husband he needed to control me with a firm hand so that is what he does. I’m his little girl now, he takes great care of me but he is also strict with me, and at least once a month I have a very sore bottom. I am always spanked on my bare bottom having my skirt and knickers removed ( I am not allowed to wear tights) then lectured on my behaviour before going over his knee for a hand spanking after which I am not allowed to to redress but must remain naked below the waist for the rest of the day. He has my pubic hair waxed fortnightly which sometimes leads to embarrassment if exposing my rosey red cheeks to the beautician and having to admit that I have been a naughty girl to her. Lynne.

  • I am sitting at work with a sore ass as I write this. My name is Michelle I am 45 my husband is 46 we have been married 25 years and he has spanked me and disciplined me since we met. He only uses a belt or paddle and always on my bare ass anytime he wants. I got a speeding ticket yesterday morning on my to work, and when I got home he was waiting for me with his belt. He made me bend over our table and pull my skirt up I got 30 hard licks until I was crying. I had to count every lick. After my whipping I had to stand in corner and I got grounded for 1 week. We also have 3 kids all girls and all teenagers they know our lifestyle. I think it’s ok. I have had to whip them. I like my punishments we go to bed he punishes me harder and takes it out on my p**** which he owns

  • I commented earlier, I started getting spanked after ten years of marriage. I've got it with his belt only a few times for more serious stuff. Wow it stings!
    If he warns me to stop something or asks if I want an a** whipping, I know he means the belt and I quickly settle down. We were out once and I'd been drinking and getting feisty.( I don't know why sometimes I taunt him if it's been a while and I'm thinking about getting spanked.) He said to me "Does somebody need an a** whipping?"
    I got smart and said I may need a little spanking. He assured me if I didn't settle down I'd get a good spanking and I might get my butt whipped too!
    Long story short I didn't settle down and taunted him saying he wouldn't F****ng dare! (don't often curse) He said We'll see.

    I wanted a spanking and I got one before we even got home! It was in the car, pretty soundly then he made me suck him. I felt very submissive.
    Went home, got naked and ready for bed and s**. He took his belt and gave me the a** whipping he told me I needed. Quite the a** beating for a naughty girl, I felt it for two days! VR

  • I'm not the one with kids, and I agree kids should not be involved or see this in any form. VR

  • Ur sick and someone needs to call child services on you. Its one thing to let ur husband spank you. Thats fine. But for kids to know about it? That's. Sick. You're warping their minds and should be taken away.

  • That child service is wrong, that’s why so many kids are screwed up, discipline is important, 30 years ago you didn’t have children service, you got a spanking and I’m ok today, none of my kids have been arrested, they work hard and enjoy life

  • Have to totally agree, not for kids to be part of. VR

  • Agreed

  • In our home, my wife does all the spanking, me included. She strips me, or catches me coming out of the shower & puts me over her knee, then spanks to her satisfaction. Sometimes, she'll pull the covers down in the morning (I sleep naked & on my stomach), sit on my shoulders & spank me awake. markiee

  • My wife uses a hard wooden hairbrush on me regularly and never stops until I am crying. I hate to go to they gym after a spanking as the marks stay a few days and everybody can guess I got spanked.

  • If we would live our lives by the way the Bible talks about, and follow God, we wouldn't have the BS we have in this country as much as we do. Marriage is the same way. If men would follow their role and encourage women to follow theirs, and women would follow their role and encourage men to live theirs as the Bible direct us to live, we wouldn't have all of this divorce. And it's a man's right under God to keep Authority in his home. As the church, the body of Christ, obeys Christ as our husband, the wife should obey her husband. And as Christ does, whether you believe it or not, but does discipline his bride, Believers in Jesus Christ, the husband has the right to discipline his wife. What good is having Authority if you can't use it. Christ will use his authority on us, especially during judgment. Therefore the husband has a right to use his authority, and even spank his wife when she disobeys. Don't like it, it doesn't matter. the Bible is the only opinion that matters,
    not yours.

  • People like you love to speak for the bible and say dont like it or like it so to shut down thr truth. the bible even warns men that is=f they treat their wives harshly their prayers will be hindered. colosians 3:19 and 1peters 3:7. a husband is to lead by love and servanthood leadership not some sick kind of superiority. the bible stells men not to forget that their wives are equal heirs with them in christ. she submits to her husband as to christ, but not worshiping her husband. she is accountable to God for her discipline not to her husband. stop twisting the bible to fit in ur sick lifestyle. the bible says in 1timothy 3:6 that false teachers are also those who worm their way into women households and gain control over women who are loaded with sins and swayed by their evil desires. the bible refers to women like you as weak, gullible silly and with no understanding of the word of god upon your life so next time you are getting spanked think about how you have failed yourself by undermining the gift of wisdom and understandin god has dresed a christian wife with proverbs 31.

  • Since you bring the Bible into this, please show me the scripture references that you rely upon.
    King David denied his first wife, Michal bat-Shaul, s** and therefore children for the rest of her life. This is directly opposed to the attitude that God (YHVH) displays toward s** and marriage throughout the Bible. Apostle Paul repeats this in 1 Corinthians 7 when he commands husbands and wives to have sexual intercourse whenever either so desires (subject to the guidance of Scripture) and not to skip s** for very long, “lest you be tempted.”
    The Scripture contains the proverb, “It’s better to live in the corner of the rooftop (their houses had flat roofs) than with a brawling woman in a wide house.” I can't think of any passage that endorses spanking one’s wife.

  • Yes I obey my husband is in charge like the Bible says. Not only does he spank me he uses his belt

  • My husband and I have practiced CDD for 2 years now. He paddles/belts me and takes away certain previlages. I have a daily routine starting with bible study in the mornings and I've skipped a few days and he made me copy the bible for an hour. He usually comes up with alternative punishments but has used the paddle and belt.

  • I too am spanked. My husband is the head of our family and I chose to obey him. He spanks me when it’s called for. It makes me a better person. I love being held accountable and I love the authority he has over me.

  • My husband spanked me for the first time a few days ago. He bared my bottom and spanked me long and hard, and I screamed and yelled, but finally I just lay there sobbing and apologizing for having slapped him in a temper tantrum. After the spanking he took good and loving care of me, and soon we were both in the mood for some wonderful s**. I told him later in bed that the spanking had hurt something awful, and that I hoped he would not make a habit of spanking me. He promised only to do it when I had really done something bad to deserve it, and I accepted that and now love and respect my husband even more than before, because I know he is able and willing to spank me, if I do something really bad. And even though my bottom is still a bit sore and the spanking really hurt, I also remember how sweet and caring he was afterwards. So all in all I love him even more now, but I hope he will not spank me again soon - but as he says, I can always behave, so I'll try to do that - at least for a while, because it's not always easy, and the first spanking made me love even more - afterwards.

  • Does my husband have to spank me in front of our kids? if so why? and why do I need to be nude?

  • Yes. apparantly your husband believes in you being spanked w your kids watching. im the same type of husband. and yes it must be fully nude

  • Do you have boys or girls

  • That should not be happening. If you're into the Bible then show the verses pertaining to how wrong that situation is.

  • My hubby has whipped me in front of our daughters many times. They are teenagers and the understand that if i disobey the rules then I get daddy’s belt. They too have been disciplined mainly by me but it’s always bare bottom for us all

  • How did it go?

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