My husband spanks me

I am 40 years old and have been married to my husband for 18 years, we dated 2 years before that. When we first met he was very jealous and demanding but very sweet and good to me. I remember I was driving soon after we met and I made a wrong turn and he pinched me. I got mad at him and he just laughed it off. That’s where I should have stopped it, but I kind of liked it.
If I did anything he thought was wrong he would get after me like a child. Once we got married he stepped up the discipline. He is a great husband and he provides well and means well but he keeps me in line. It’s strange I feel though and I cannot tell anyone because it is embarrassing. He has slapped me only once, and it was hard, but I mouthed off to him and dared him to do it. And he did. I don’t know why I did that. I usually do not talk back to him and certainly do not provoke him.
Just the other day I said a curse word, I said the S word when talking on the phone with a friend. He heard it and sternly said Watch your language. I said sorry and when I hung up he said Come here. I stood in front of him and he reached behind me and swatted by butt with his hand hard and said I don’t like you using that language. I said I was sorry and he said turn around I’m going to spank you. I turned around and bent over slightly and he spanked me h****** the butt. I said sorry again and he hugged me and gave me a kiss and then we made love. He can be gentle or rough in bed and he was very rough that night.
The thing is, he sparks me and gets after me but I wouldn’t change it. I love him and I want his discipline, it makes me a better person. I don’t curse at all usually and I listen to him. He gives me everything I could ever want and I would do anything for him and he would for me.

Today I wore a blouse that is a little low cut, I am busty and it showed some cleavage. I knew he wouldn’t like it unless he was with me, I could wear anything even tiny bikinis if he is with me, but I was out alone and he said You wore that? It shows all your t***. Then he said come here, and I went to him knowing what he was going to do and he said turn around and I did and he spanked me hard, just one seat but it stung. Then he said You’re too sexy and you’re t*** are too big to go out like that without me, don’t do it again. I mouthed off and asked What if I do? He got angry and said then you will be in big trouble.
I’m turned on because I know he will take it out on me later when we have s**. Isn’t that weird!


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  • Many wives have found that it is very good for them to have a husband who lovingly disciplines them. feel blessed.

  • I have been disciplining my wife throughout our marriage, and she understood from the start that she is submissive to me and that I will correct her with a spanking. She is spanked, usually with a belt or paddle, for disrespect, disobedience, or serious irresponsibility. She needs to undress, kneel before me to be verbally corrected, then go over my knee to get spanked hard and lectured firmly.

    I have seen the benefit, including some past behaviors disappear, and the immediate responsiveness she shows to me after being spanked. Any conflict also disappears quickly after she goes over my knee. As others have pointed out, a spanking clearly reestablishes the man's leadership, and the wife's softness to him. After many years of peaceful and happy marriage, I have never regretted bringing discipline into our marriage. I would not want to be without it.

  • I am a twenty three year old wife and I agreed to be spanked when we got married six months ago. My dad told my husband he needed to control me with a firm hand so that is what he does. I’m his little girl now, he takes great care of me but he is also strict with me, and at least once a month I have a very sore bottom. I am always spanked on my bare bottom having my skirt and knickers removed ( I am not allowed to wear tights) then lectured on my behaviour before going over his knee for a hand spanking after which I am not allowed to to redress but must remain naked below the waist for the rest of the day. He has my pubic hair waxed fortnightly which sometimes leads to embarrassment if exposing my rosey red cheeks to the beautician and having to admit that I have been a naughty girl to her. Lynne.

  • I am sitting at work with a sore ass as I write this. My name is Michelle I am 45 my husband is 46 we have been married 25 years and he has spanked me and disciplined me since we met. He only uses a belt or paddle and always on my bare ass anytime he wants. I got a speeding ticket yesterday morning on my to work, and when I got home he was waiting for me with his belt. He made me bend over our table and pull my skirt up I got 30 hard licks until I was crying. I had to count every lick. After my whipping I had to stand in corner and I got grounded for 1 week. We also have 3 kids all girls and all teenagers they know our lifestyle. I think it’s ok. I have had to whip them. I like my punishments we go to bed he punishes me harder and takes it out on my p**** which he owns

  • Ur sick and someone needs to call child services on you. Its one thing to let ur husband spank you. Thats fine. But for kids to know about it? That's. Sick. You're warping their minds and should be taken away.

  • In our home, my wife does all the spanking, me included. She strips me, or catches me coming out of the shower & puts me over her knee, then spanks to her satisfaction. Sometimes, she'll pull the covers down in the morning (I sleep naked & on my stomach), sit on my shoulders & spank me awake. markiee

  • If we would live our lives by the way the Bible talks about, and follow God, we wouldn't have the BS we have in this country as much as we do. Marriage is the same way. If men would follow their role and encourage women to follow theirs, and women would follow their role and encourage men to live theirs as the Bible direct us to live, we wouldn't have all of this divorce. And it's a man's right under God to keep Authority in his home. As the church, the body of Christ, obeys Christ as our husband, the wife should obey her husband. And as Christ does, whether you believe it or not, but does discipline his bride, Believers in Jesus Christ, the husband has the right to discipline his wife. What good is having Authority if you can't use it. Christ will use his authority on us, especially during judgment. Therefore the husband has a right to use his authority, and even spank his wife when she disobeys. Don't like it, it doesn't matter. the Bible is the only opinion that matters,
    not yours.

  • Yes I obey my husband is in charge like the Bible says. Not only does he spank me he uses his belt

  • My husband and I have practiced CDD for 2 years now. He paddles/belts me and takes away certain previlages. I have a daily routine starting with bible study in the mornings and I've skipped a few days and he made me copy the bible for an hour. He usually comes up with alternative punishments but has used the paddle and belt.

  • I too am spanked. My husband is the head of our family and I chose to obey him. He spanks me when it’s called for. It makes me a better person. I love being held accountable and I love the authority he has over me.

  • Does my husband have to spank me in front of our kids? if so why? and why do I need to be nude?

  • Do you have boys or girls

  • That should not be happening. If you're into the Bible then show the verses pertaining to how wrong that situation is.

  • My hubby has whipped me in front of our daughters many times. They are teenagers and the understand that if i disobey the rules then I get daddy’s belt. They too have been disciplined mainly by me but it’s always bare bottom for us all

  • This is a dude. It's not real.

  • How did it go?

  • My husband just decided all three of my stepsons who are all teen boys will get to watch tomorrow night when he spanks me. he has already told me that I will have to have this spanking wearing nothing and all three boys will see me nude. he also says he wants to spank extremely hard so I will cry. ive agreed and accepted the punishment. just makes me nervous

  • I do not think this is right at all, with the teenagers watching this.

  • I think this is very wrong.

  • I find it interesting the different way adults view spanking other adults. For me I want my wife to be submissive and obedient. I get turned on spanking her and I like her to accept the pain as a demonstration of her submission. But she is an adult and the idea of her behaviour being controlled through fear of physical punishment seems to imply a degree of immaturity on her part.

  • It's never immaturity on your part. It's you leading the home as her Authority. There's never immaturity when you're doing it for her benefit and to help her become a better person. It's not abuse when your spanking her on the butt and she deserves it. I don't care what people think, they don't matter. That's my feelings on it.

  • My husband spanked me lastnight. I feel a lot better now though. I wasn't listening to him about taking someone money well I got ahead of myself and told that person to meet me before my husband said it was okay. He told me not to do anything with that money until I heard from him and I did something I wasn't supposed to with it now I'm restricted to the bedroom and I got a spanking from my husband last night I hope he doesn't give me another spanking before bed but I think he's going to. I haven't been aloud to get out of bed today and he is making me wear a diaper I'm not allowed to get out of bed until he says I can I know not to get ahead of myself again I learnt my lesson I love you my beautiful husband. I'm sorry I disobeyed you. I won't do it again. It dose make me a better person and Wife when he punishes me and spanks me I feel so much better emotionally too.

  • My husband paddles,belts and grounds me. We practice CDD & have for 2 years. I am only allowed to wear skirts and dresses except around the house and have a daily routine starting with bible study first thing in the morning. I have skipped the last two days and now I'm grounded. I had to copy from the bible for an hour today for slacking.

  • My wife does not get any clothing priveleges at our house. I enforce full nudity for her at all times. it seems to be very effective as far as im concerned. im debating if I should make this a permanent rule for her.

  • When we are alone my husband does this. He’ll give a chores I have to complete in the nude as well. Also, I’m not allowed to wear any clothing to bed, ever. He makes our decisions, provides structure and discipline for me. We have a great marriage and it makes me a better person! I love the control and authority he has over me. I love how submissive I am to him and how obeying him comes natural.

  • My husband spanks me. My behaviour isnt being controlled through feat of physical punishment. I have four rules that I have to follow at all times. I try my best to follow them but i break them sometimes. I know if I break the rules I get a spanking. I dont fear the spankings t hgv at husband gives me. I know that he will not give me more then I can handle. I do get nervous when I know I'm going to a spanking but I dont fear it. I love submitting to my husband this way.

  • My husband and I have been married for over a year now and he has never spanked me but he has been gone for a while now on personal business. When I talked to him on the phone yesterday he said I am in trouble with him when he gets home and was going to spank me for the first time and I will be restricted to my bedroom. He said he will explain what I did when he gets home. He promised me that he would never spank me with anything other than his hand. I'm worried about it because I don't know what I did and I know how strict he is on me. I'm not allowed to even walk down the street by myself with out him. He said that it is dangerous I I will not allow you to go anywhere without me. He is good to me and I love him very much and respect his diction to spank me when he gets home but really scared of it. How will I feel emotionally after he spanks me can anyone tell me what to expect after? I'm 35 and he is 52 year's old. I was the one who agreed to this in our marriage but he has never done it before. So yeah I'm waiting for my first discipline bad part is I have 4 more months to think about why he is going to spank me when he gets home and what it is I did I'm puzzled about it. Can another woman email me and tell me what to expect after the spanking? My email address is thanks hope to hear from another cdd wife.

  • The anticipation is an important part. its just something you have to experience. no one can tell you haw it will be for you. if you have the right attitude it will bring you closer though.

    i do think he should tell you what you did though, so you can make sure not to repeat the act.

  • I want my husband to have the control of what I do. We are both Christians and I beleave all married women should follow her husbands rules or be treated like a little girl. Yes I let him spank me or put me in the corner for the way I am sometimes. I need the structure of the discipline. Everyone is different and needs to find what works for there relationship.

  • I have been spanked three times in 30 years, only by his bare hand. We discussed it beforehand and mutually agreed it was a fair punishment. All times, my panties were pulled down and he would put me over his knee with my bottom up and head low to floor and I had very hard swats until he felt my bottom was red/warmed enough, which could be up to ten minutes. It was miserable. I only accepted it because I had one bare bottom spanking at 15 for the reason of mouthing off to my parents one toi many times and it worked. My husband spaned me always for arguments when I swear at him. My temper is much calmer now so I don't anticipate one again.

  • Spanking your wife or girlfriend is coming back in vogue as more
    men realize that women want men to act like real men and not
    accept their unacceptable behaviour sometimes. Women are never
    ore feminine and men never more masculine than right after he has
    had her over his knees for a sound bare-bottom spanking. During the
    aftercare with making up and making love they come to feel closer
    to each other and to their true identity as man and woman than any
    other time.

  • Men who spank their wives and girlfriends generally care a lot about them and want to be proud of them as women, and women who get spanked by
    their men are angry at first, but soon it turns to love and wanting to make up and make love - and deep down these women are more feminine than other women and deep down they are also proud that their men are strong and determined and male enough to take them over their knees when they need it.

  • No reason to be ashamed. A lot of women feel that they benefit
    from an occasional spanking from their husbands, and women are
    never more feminine and men more masculine than after he has
    spanked her and they make up and make love.

  • You and your husband have been together long enough that you should know how you really feel about each other. If things are ok in other areas, just enjoy being spanked. Life's too short for guilt over something that's nobody else's business.

  • Exactly, nowadays there is no reason for girls to be ashamed because they get spanked by their partners. Even if they don't want or like the spanking, they accept it as a necessary part of their life together - and most girls like part of it, especially the aftercare and feeling free of guilt - and anyway if a girl does not accept it, she can tell him to stop or leave him.

  • This is boasting rather than confessing.

    Enjoy being spanked.

    I enjoy both spanking and being spanked.

  • Some people deserve spanking and a good hit.

  • .....sometimes...................a b**** just need a beating........

  • Remember how you disciplan your wife is how god is going to discipline you

  • Wow...

  • I spank laurey when needed


  • Too much, just a bit

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