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My husband spanks me
I am 40 years old and have been married to my husband for 18 years, we dated 2 years before that. When we first met he was very jealous and demanding but very sweet and good to me. I remember I was driving soon after we met and I made a wrong turn and he pinched me. I got mad at him and he just laughed it off. That’s where I should have stopped it, but I kind of liked it.
If I did anything he thought was wrong he would get after me like a child. Once we got married he stepped up the discipline. He is a great husband and he provides well and means well but he keeps me in line. It’s strange I feel though and I cannot tell anyone because it is embarrassing. He has slapped me only once, and it was hard, but I mouthed off to him and dared him to do it. And he did. I don’t know why I did that. I usually do not talk back to him and certainly do not provoke him.
Just the other day I said a curse word, I said the S word when talking on the phone with a friend. He heard it and sternly said Watch your language. I said sorry and when I hung up he said Come here. I stood in front of him and he reached behind me and swatted by ** with his hand hard and said I don’t like you using that language. I said I was sorry and he said turn around I’m going to spank you. I turned around and bent over slightly and he spanked me ** the **. I said sorry again and he hugged me and gave me a kiss and then we made love. He can be gentle or rough in bed and he was very rough that night.
The thing is, he sparks me and gets after me but I wouldn’t change it. I love him and I want his discipline, it makes me a better person. I don’t curse at all usually and I listen to him. He gives me everything I could ever want and I would do anything for him and he would for me.
Today I wore a blouse that is a little low cut, I am ** and it showed some cleavage. I knew he wouldn’t like it unless he was with me, I could wear anything even tiny bikinis if he is with me, but I was out alone and he said You wore that? It shows all your **. Then he said come here, and I went to him knowing what he was going to do and he said turn around and I did and he spanked me hard, just one seat but it stung. Then he said You’re too ** and you’re ** are too big to go out like that without me, don’t do it again. I mouthed off and asked What if I do? He got angry and said then you will be in big trouble.
I’m turned on because I know he will take it out on me later when we have **. Isn’t that weird!
My husband spanked me lastnight. I feel a lot better now though. I wasn't listening to him about taking someone money well I got ahead of myself and told that person to meet me before my husband said it was okay. He told me not to do anything with that money until I heard from him and I did something I wasn't supposed to with it now I'm restricted to the bedroom and I got a spanking from my husband last night I hope he doesn't give me another spanking before bed but I think he's going to. I haven't been aloud to get out of bed today and he is making me wear a diaper I'm not allowed to get out of bed until he says I can I know not to get ahead of myself again I learnt my lesson I love you my beautiful husband. I'm sorry I disobeyed you. I won't do it again. It dose make me a better person and Wife when he punishes me and spanks me I feel so much better emotionally too.
How often do you have to wear diapers? Is this always part of your punishment? I am required to wear mine every night because my husband is a light sleeper and doesn’t want to be awakened during the night by me getting up and going to the bathroom. At first I found it to be humiliating but now that I’m used to it, it doesn’t bother me so much. I don’t like wearing them in public though and that is part of my punishment on occasion.
I hate wearing a diaper after a spanking!
I think that is typical somehow. Women tend to have a bigger super-ego than men, so when they have done something wrong - or even bad, they often get a guilty conscience, and when she is punished by a spanking from her boyfriend or husband, it relieves her conscience - so she gets a sore bottom, but a clean conscience, and most women prefer that to a guilty conscience and no spanking.
Not true? Do you have a degree on this? I do
Nope. Most women don't prefer that lmao. Don't speak for us.
When Hal is going to spank me we go out to dinner first. I must wear a short skirt and no **. It’s kind of exciting. When we get home, the skirt comes off. I’m half naked until he is ready. He puts me across the kitchen table, spreads my legs and uses a plastic paddle.