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My husband spanks me
I am 40 years old and have been married to my husband for 18 years, we dated 2 years before that. When we first met he was very jealous and demanding but very sweet and good to me. I remember I was driving soon after we met and I made a wrong turn and he pinched me. I got mad at him and he just laughed it off. That’s where I should have stopped it, but I kind of liked it.
If I did anything he thought was wrong he would get after me like a child. Once we got married he stepped up the discipline. He is a great husband and he provides well and means well but he keeps me in line. It’s strange I feel though and I cannot tell anyone because it is embarrassing. He has slapped me only once, and it was hard, but I mouthed off to him and dared him to do it. And he did. I don’t know why I did that. I usually do not talk back to him and certainly do not provoke him.
Just the other day I said a curse word, I said the S word when talking on the phone with a friend. He heard it and sternly said Watch your language. I said sorry and when I hung up he said Come here. I stood in front of him and he reached behind me and swatted by ** with his hand hard and said I don’t like you using that language. I said I was sorry and he said turn around I’m going to spank you. I turned around and bent over slightly and he spanked me ** the **. I said sorry again and he hugged me and gave me a kiss and then we made love. He can be gentle or rough in bed and he was very rough that night.
The thing is, he sparks me and gets after me but I wouldn’t change it. I love him and I want his discipline, it makes me a better person. I don’t curse at all usually and I listen to him. He gives me everything I could ever want and I would do anything for him and he would for me.
Today I wore a blouse that is a little low cut, I am ** and it showed some cleavage. I knew he wouldn’t like it unless he was with me, I could wear anything even tiny bikinis if he is with me, but I was out alone and he said You wore that? It shows all your **. Then he said come here, and I went to him knowing what he was going to do and he said turn around and I did and he spanked me hard, just one seat but it stung. Then he said You’re too ** and you’re ** are too big to go out like that without me, don’t do it again. I mouthed off and asked What if I do? He got angry and said then you will be in big trouble.
I’m turned on because I know he will take it out on me later when we have **. Isn’t that weird!
I dont unerstand why people feel the need to justify this act with bible. if spanking you arouses you then go ahead but dont justify it with the bible nowhere does it say husbands should spank their wives? do you not fear God to insult his word ike that? if the bible was clear enough to say spare the rod and spoil the child why would it dilly dally when it came to husbands and wives. why do you turn something that was meant to be beutiful into a sick fetish and the arrogancy that comes with it phrases like that is wat it says like it or not simply because you have no basis for ur claim. if that ** turns you on please get spanked till ur ** explodes for all we care but do not put false teaching out there. the bible says there is severe punishment for that. a marriage relationship is a consensual relationship between two adults and it is divine. it is not similar to parent/child, master/servant or government/citizen. that is what it says leave your father and mother join to your wife become one. thats why God is strict about anyone seperating two people or any one joining them. the bible is strict to marriage because its a covenant with God. he expects wives to submit and ensure they submit it does not tell husbands to make sure their wives are submissive. it tells husbands that their prayers will be hindered if they treat their wives harshly. so why do you promote heresy to the world that may not know God. the bible tells husbnds to love their wives as their own flesh adding that you dont HURT your own flesh but clothe it and feed it. meaning if he is spanking you he better be spanking himself as well otherwise what you are doing or desiring is not biblical. you are a ** wife that gets ** when spanked nothing to do with submisson and if you think that is submission sweetie you are dumber than you think coz the bible gives women the responsibility of making sure she herself ensures her submission to her husband and she is accountable to God not her husband.
They're repressed.