Step daughter

How old is your stepdaughter and does your husband have know boundaries set for her. I posted earlier and said i have a twelve year old daughter from previous marrige and two stepdaughter ages eight and ten and at start had alot off attitude. My now husband had never spanked his daughters before apart from light taps too clothed bottoms. But after many discussions and seeing the diffrence in my daughters behaviour by useing spanking as part off discipline. He finaly came around and we now have a better family life and we bought administer spankings too our daughters as part off discipline. Please reply if you want too chat and trust me hun it can change a girls attitude and hope things work out for you. But post and lets know how things are and hugs too you...

She is 13 and she has a identical twin who is the total opposite and so sweet and loving and kind, if only the other one was like that lol.

I cant wait to hear back from u😊

Are you there. How's things hun...

They're gone hun. Go play with your infant grandchildren hun. Oh that's right, you've been run off, you can't read this. Or maybe you've died. Either one's good

I have 3 sons primarily raised since toddlers by myself and stepmom (my wife). They are all grown and gone now. Stepmom loved those boys and gave them a real mom unlike birth mom who spent most the time doing her own thing.

Not one single time did those boys in their entire life ever disrespected their step mom. It was my role as birth parent to be the disciplinarian not her. I didn't lay that job on her. I was a firm dad but very actively involved and close to them . I don't believe it's going to be a very easy ride if step parents are the disciplinarian. It doesn't mean they are not in charge it just means they don't levy the discipline.

All my wife would say to the one acting up is your going to have to tell your dad what you did.

Well you are doing the right thing for sticking by your wifes side and defending her. Unlike my bf and his daughters they can do no wrong they are perfect angels, they disrespect me right infront of his face and he always finds a excuse for them and dont discipline them very annoying bc they think they can get away with anything in which case they do! Have any advice???

Sorry hun. Im the step mother and my husband has the two may i add now completley diffrent girls. It might be diffrent in my case as my x husband is a firm man also and will spank our daughter when he has her if she needs it. So our daughter knows she wont play games with us just because were seperated. But she realy is a lovley girl and only averages a spanking probabley once a mont the last while. But my steodaughters whom i have come too love like my own have still got lots off attitude an unlike my daughter who as said is spanked about once a month by my husband or i our youngest cant seem too go a week without my husband or myself giveing their bare bottoms a spanking or early bedtime. You realy need too sit down with your husband and tell him you will not be spoken too in that manner and you expect him too back you up when your discipline his girls and not too argue in front off them. Is their mother strict with them and if you talk too her. Maybe ask how she disciplines them at home and who knows hun she may be a pro spanker. But either way sit down with your husband and tell him what you expect and he may change his mind if he hares everything you have too say. I just know if she was our daughter that she would be in bed at 6 or 7 for as long as it took too stop disrespecting us and her bare ** would not only be spanked by my husband or myself. But she would spend some time bottom less in lounge with her red buns on display for time too reflect on her behaviour like our daughters. You might be suprised by your husbands reaction as said and he may agree with you. But set boundaries for those girls. Such as chores and bedtime routine or what ever else suits you and your husband. Please keep me posted hun and will be thinking off you. Huggs from mommy off three and a loveing husband. Stick too your guns....

How old is your stepdaughter and time too set some rules and boundaries. I can share some stuff if you like. Im a step mom also and had similar stuff with my two step children. I have a daughter off my own whos by know means perfect. But if she spoke too me the way my step children had at time she would not have got outside house for days and would have being spanked. Anyway the thing is now its being two years and my now husband set rules and boundaries and at first i had same ** from them your not my mommy and cant ground us or spank us. Well guess what yes i can and my now twelve year old daughter and eight and ten year old daughter know that their step mommy can and will tann their bare bottoms when needed as will their daddy and yes he will spank my daughter also if needed...

Please share my one step daughter bucks at me and gets in my face like she is going to hit me but of course i would never put my hands on her

Shes 13

Please lets know how you get on and if you just even want too message me hun. I realy know what its like..

I have spoke with the girl's father about the situation regarding the punishment but he has full custody of them and I have been in their life since they were 8 years old they are 13 now they go over their moms and she has no boundaries set for them she lets them do whatever they want she tells them to disrespect me and they do I tried to tell their father about things going on in the house and he keeps saying quote you're just picking on them they're just kids mean while she's getting in my face screaming at me being totally disrespectful I try to set some boundaries and punishments but of course their father never goes along with it he says I am too ** them because I said that I wanted to punish them for a week that they had to come home do their chores eat dinner take a shower and go to bed because they keep ** and ** in their underwear and hiding it in their bedroom which is pretty disgusting when there are 13 year old girls but then again he says they're just kids you can be ** them I'm honestly starting to feel like those are his Precious Angels that can do no wrong in his eyes I made a comment about the girls picking up dog ** out fried hard as their punishment part of their chores and his response was oh no I'll do that I was thinking to myself why your precious little girl can't get her hands dirty but she can sit there and be disrespectful and not listen to my rules the father is never here he works early in the morning and comes home after the kids go to bed so I'm with them 24/7 I don't know what else to do I can't deal with the disrespectfulness anymore

Hi you hun. Did you think anymore on what i said and talk your partner...

I was looking at this post again hun and you said that child gets up in your face and like shes going too hit you. My heart breaks for you and please talk too your prtner. Wow our girls would have their ** off in a flash if they dared too do something like that. That little girl needs a firm hand applied to a bare bottom and then get her too bring yous her hairbrush and finish her spanking with her hairbrush. I hope your partner can agree with you and maybe his x wife if yous ever talk. Please keep me posted hun....

I have been told that since they are not my kids i am not allowed to spank them and if i do then she will tell her bio mom and press charges on me