I don’t like my second child

I recently became The father to my second baby which to start with I was overjoyed about it was lovely to start with and I cried when he was born. He is now one and I find myself resenting him purely Because he requires more attention than my first born ever did. He constantly cries and whinges and quite frankly it’s driving me f****** crazy. I feel nothing but coldness and resentment towards him and inside it’s breaking me apart because I don’t want to feel that way towards him but the truth is I just can’t help it. I imagine I will get abuse or trolls respond to this but I’m hoping maybe someone has been through this before and it isn’t just me. Feeling sad :-/

Aug 7, 2018

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  • You're "feeling sad" because you insisted on bringing yet another DNA replicant onto an overcrowded planet? Too bad. Bed, made, lie.

  • Go.get counseling asap

  • Go get counseling asap

  • Why not.

  • Hay dad and you keep go dad and hope you find me dad and mom wont get me nice panties dad

  • Take some from brother's girlfriend.

  • Hay dad and she freak out dad over her make up and purse dad and spank me dad and mom say were going out soon and say she bring my ruler and hairbrush dad i hate them dad

  • Do not give her a excuse to spank you. I love you girl.

  • Its not fair dad

  • It is not fair to your elders to behave badly.

  • Hay what you mean dad

  • Parents or people in charge can spank you if you do not obey.

  • Hay dad i dont f*** think so dad

  • You said f*** again that means you want to have s** with me.

  • Hay dad stop say that to me im get angry and stick my finger up at yoiu dad im not even mess dad xxxx

  • Your finger is going to go in your v***** and I am going to spank your butt right now strip.

  • Hay that please no its not fair dad xxxx

  • Hay dad f*** sake and were you dad

  • You said it again so let us have s** now I will suck your v***** and you will suck my p****.

  • Get lost dad you make me angry dad and i want you dad xxxxx and were in moms friends house dad

  • I love you my little girl.

  • Hay dad its not fair dad xxxx

  • What are you doing now?

  • Hay dad and im in moms friends bedroom dad and mom spanked me in front of him dad and i was not hungry and called him a p**** for given out to me dad xxxxx

  • Did he show his p**** to you?

  • No dad i did not and my brother some time show me his thing dad but moms friend spanked me last time dad and was freaking smile dad

  • He wanted to see your beautiful v*****.

  • Hay dad and were are you dad

  • I was outside planting a couple of primrose and I watered the plants.

  • Hay dad i was looking for you dad xxxxx and i luv you dad

  • I love you to. Dad feels h****.

  • Hay dad were did you go again dad xxxxx

  • Hay dad were you dad and what it mean dad xxxxx

  • H**** means I have a p**** erection and need to stroke it and have it spurt.

  • Whats that mean dad

  • Just like you finger your button at top of your slit and you feel like peeing.

  • Hay dad get lost then

  • I am lost bye.

  • Hay dad and im new you will go dad and you lied dad and why you f*** go dad its not fair dad and now im sneak down look at my cartoons daddy and b****** brother gone work daddy and my mom the b**** and brothers b**** girl friend in bed dad and now you go dad you pants on fire dad for lie dad and yous are all meany pants and not care about me dad and now im feel like put taps on daddy and im not mess dad im actualy serious dad i luv you dad and you not care dad and its not fair dad xxxx and im give you hugs dad but i was look for you dad

  • My little girl dad was not feeling well yesterday and I said some things that hurt.I am sorry for that and I will be here for you I will not leave. I love you to much to leave I cry I just want to hold you in my lap and never let you go.

  • Hay dad but you say by to me dad and i was crying dad and im got so mad dad and i put taps on dad in kitchen and bathroom daddy and look at cartoons dad and my brothers b**** girl friend see all water dad and scream at me dad and took my pjs of dad and spanked me for ages like dad and no clothes dad and my mom came down and shout me to dad and get spoon daddy and then she f*** spank me with it dad and its sore dad im hate them dad and you said by to me dad and i was mad dad

  • I am crying now I caused you a lot of pain and got you into so much trouble and now damaged your house. It will cost lot of money to repair damage. I am so sorry my little girl.Dad feels better today and I will feel better if you hug me now.

  • Kkk dad im hug you dad but its sore dad and they are realy mad at me dad and say my anti uncle and cousins come over and say she tell them how bold im am dad and say she spank me front of them dad and its not fair i luv you dad but its not fair dad

  • You just need to punch your pillow more than doing water damage. Need to find some lotion and cover your bum and between your legs and make it feel better. I love you

  • Kkk dad but its not fair dad and im look at it dad and its all red dad and to sore dad im want hit them back now dad xxxxx

  • Hit your pillow instead. Let's find some lotion and cover your whole butt and between your legs and smooth it in gently. I love you.

  • Kkk dad and im take my pj top of dad and you rubb my bum and down there dad and im might go sleep dad and i just feel tired dad but you never say by to me again dad and please hug me dad i luv you so much dad xxxxx.

  • I will hug you and I will never say bye to you again I promise. Oh your skin is so soft if I get excited I hope you will not mind.

  • Kkk dad and promise dad you not say by again dad and it be feel nice cuddle now dad and rubb me dad and im have my finger in down there dad luv you dad

  • Oh my little girl you are so beautiful and dad will not leave you. I am glad you are fingering your self> I love you so much and I will cuddle with you.

  • Oo dad it tickles dad

  • That is fine dear.

  • Realy dad it tickles

  • Just keep fingering it will be fine.

  • Your an awful person.

  • Hay dad im wake dad and you go dad and my anti uncle and cousins here dad and im have get dinner mom said dad and said im get spanked later with them and told them what i did dad and my anti and uncle say it was bold dad i will make mess again dad if b**** mom do it dad and im not even mess dad i actualy mean it dad its not fair dad

  • Please do not make mess. Punch a pillow. I love you so much.

  • Hay dad and im will do it im not even mess dad xxxxx

  • No do not do it.Your bottom will be so red.

  • Hay she spank me in and they see me dad i hate them dad luv you dad

  • You should not have done what you did so now you had to be the center of attraction.

  • Hay dad she is a b**** dad i luv you dad xxxxx

  • I am glad you love me no matter what as I love you no matter what.

  • Hay dad were you dad and im look for you dad xxxxx

  • My little girl are you tired?

  • Hay dad and why you not answer dad now im tired dad and want you to hold me dad and i dont like them dad and im not mess dad and its not fair dad i luv you dad and i want hugs dad to im you baby girl dad nite nite dad and i want you dad and luv you xxxxx

  • Hay dad and you go again dad im tired dad and you say you snuggle dad me and im feel like curse dad and im not even mess dad i luv you dad xxxxx

  • Let's cuddle and kiss and I will rub your back. I love you.

  • Hay dad im tired and you say cuddle me dad you did xxxxx

  • I am laying next to you cuddling. I love you so much sweetheart.

  • Hay dad and i was look for you dad and my a****** anti uncle and cousins stayed and im cant sneak down and look my cartoons dad and im go to do some thing dad on all them im not even mess dad its not fair dad they all see me dad get spanked im go get them dad and im actualy not even mess dad im not im will dad i luv you dad xxxxx and i get them all back dad

  • No you don't I think that it is time for me to spank you for your bad behaving. I love you so much and hug you.

  • Hay dad no its not fair dad and yes i will get them back dad and i feel like put on taps again dad and i will and im not even mess dad im actualy serious dad and and they are fukheads dad i luv you dad xxxxx

  • No more damage please.
    You are better than this.
    You are beautiful and I know you can be better.
    I love you.

  • Dad i dont care dad xxxxx

  • Please be better than doing damage.
    Off with your clothes you are getting spanked now.

  • Dad what and you actualy cant even be serious dad please dad

  • Getting spanked now and you are going to lay across my nude lap .
    I love you.

  • Hay dad please and do i have to dad please its not fair dad

  • Yes now. I love you.

  • Dad its not fair dad and im go leave my panties on dad please dad xxxxx

  • No panties.

  • Dad please dad i luv you dad xxxxx

  • Bare skin I want to feel your bare skin on my bare skin.

  • Ok dad and not hard dad its not fair dad im fair dad xxxxx

  • Here we go five on each cheek.

  • Owwww dad no dad

  • Yes now. Then I will rub lotion on it.

  • Not spank hard dad

  • That is better now. I love you so much.

  • Dad i want hugs and rubb me dad and im want lie on belly dad g hugs' dad xxxxx

  • You want to lay on me OK.I will rub you. I love you.

  • Hay dad and please rubb my bum dad im wont to have sleep dad i luv you dad xxxxx and im lie on you belly

  • Lay on my belly and I will rub your bum. I love you.

  • Hay dad were are you dad i luv you dad xxxxx

  • I love you to well dad is stroking his p****.
    I love you.

  • Whats that dad and im got in more trouble dad and its not fair dad and i should not off hit my anti and cousin daddy and im was angry daddy xxxxx

  • Why did you not hit the pillow?
    Dad is playing with his p**** just like when you finger your slit because it feels good.

  • Dad they spank me dad so i hit them back dad and you dont have v***** dad xxxxx

  • You have a v***** I have a p**** and when it is stiff I rub it up and down with my hand it feels good. When I do it fast stuff comes out at the tip of my p**** and it is white in color.

  • Hay dad and i luv you dad xxxxx and dont go dad

  • Yes that stuff can make babies when p**** is inside v*****. I love you so much.

  • Hay dad and it be feel funny dad i luv you dad xxxxx

  • Are you fingering your v*****?

  • Im will now dad and i love you dad xxxxx

  • Awesome I will lick your fingers.

  • Hay dad and you lick my fingers dad and why dad xxxx

  • Because you had them in your slit and wet from your v*****.

  • Ha ha dad and that be nice dad xxxx

  • Maybe I should run my tongue up and down your slit.

  • Hay dad that will tickle me dad are you going to do it dad ha for real dad xxxxx

  • Hay dad that is funny dad and like how babys are made dad xxxxx i love you dad

  • I love you dad xxxxx

  • Hay dad and were you dad and you say cuddle me dad you said it dad xxxxx

  • Kkk dad and i was wait for you dad and its not fair im tired dad and mom spanked me and they looked at me dad i luv you dad you please rubb my bum dad im tired dad hugs you dad xxxxx and im you little girl dad

  • Hay dad and your gone again dad

  • Hay dad and im not wont to go sleep dad and my c*** mom spank with anti uncle and cousins dad and they were looking at me dad and mom and stupid brother and his s*** girl friend tell them what i did dad and they said i was boldest ever and i said all shut their f*** faces dad i luv you dad and its not fair xxxxx

  • Hay dad im go sleep dad and were you dad i luv you dad xxxx

  • Hay dad it tickled to much and was go have pee pee dad im feel tired dad and were you dad xxxxx i luv you dad

  • Kkk dad o it tickles dad

  • Hay dad will you tell me how and whats spurt dad xxxx

  • Hay dad its not funny

  • This is the problem with the modern world. Once upon a time it would have been mom's job. Plus she would have had the village to help her. Now we do this as individuals.

  • You need s**

  • So do you. I'll do you.

  • It takes a lot to be honest and vulnerable even in this crazy forum. I'm sure you are not a lone. You haven't bonded with him yet. It will happen.. I found this site: https://www.dad.info/forum/families/46813-struggling-to-bond-with-second-baby -- you may find some suggestions and help in there. In putting the question "dad bonding with second child" others come up. Some suggest private time between you and the new baby. And even going to a therapist and talking about it open and honestly. Good luck!

  • Thank you so much for your kind words I am genuinely hating myself right now. I shall check that link, thank you so much

  • You need a timeout. Just hire a babysitter for a while

  • Yeah I think part of the problem is we had 2 baby’s within a year of eachother so we have had no time off. Also our eldest who is 6 has ADHD so my house is like a zoo basically.

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