What shall I do?
I hate my ex- stepfather. My mother is no longer with him, but she tells me to call him to see how he's doing. I absolutely do not want to do that. I explained to her my reasoning but she says that I should do it to keep face with my half brother (his and my mother's son). My ex-stepfather never gave a damned about me in my childhood and my teenage years. He never hugged me or told me that he loved me. He basically never talked to me, and just ignored me. I went off to University at age 16 and he never called me once to ask how I was doing, or support me in any way shape or form. Nothing for my birthdays in all of the years that I've known him, no call from him any other days. When I returned home to live with my mother for about half a year in 2015, I was involved in a hit-and-run auto accident. He was at home so I went to him and asked for help driving me to the hospital and to the police station to file a report. He said he was busy and couldn't help me, but he was just hanging around the house fixing his car. I took the bus to the hospital and upon release went to the police station.
At present, my mother tells me to call him and then report back to her about our conversation. I only told her that I would call him to get her off my back. I'm conflicted and don't know what to do. I don't want to call him but I also want to be on good terms with my half brother and my mother. I never want to talk to him again. What should I do? Should I just call him?