Growing His Guy Gut

I’m pregnant again, and my husband always makes fun of my weight gain. So this time, I’m turning it against him.

About five months ago, when we were messing around, I told him I was worried about gaining weight and him not being attracted to me anymore. We had recently found out we were expecting again. He asked if there was anything he could do to help, and then the thought occurred to me that he could get as big as me. So I then told him I would feel better about myself if he got as big as me.

He’s not super skinny anymore. I guess kind of like your average dad bod. Anyways, he sheepishly agreed to put on some weight with me.

Well, that was five months ago, and he went much further than I thought he would. He cut his gym time in half. Ate whatever he wanted whenever he wanted. Started snacking more and eating more junk food. In the last five months, he has gained 40 pounds! I just had to buy him size 40 pants, and he was a 34 pants size when we found out we were expecting. I wear maternity pants at this point in my pregnancy, and he was joking the other day that he probably needs some now. I think he probably does! I’ve gained about 25 pounds, so our bellies have grown at about the same rate!

I love him so much! And it’s crazy to see how much bigger he has become. I think it’s kind of sweet in a way. He walks a little slower. He has a tiny waddle a little bit. He has to pull himself up off the couch now. We have to hug each other differently now because both bellies get in the way a little bit. When we start kissing now, if we kiss more than twenty seconds, he has to take a break because he is out of breath! His face and his bum have filled out more. His body is softer.

The crazy thing is that I want him to stay this way. Maybe even gain another 20-30 pounds. I find myself being really attracted to his new shape and size. I like snuggling on him during pillow talk as we are going to bed. I like rubbing his new belly and cupping his moob. When we spoon, I like the feel of his new belly on my back. It’s all just really sexy to me.

Sometimes I can tell he feels really self-conscious, especially when his friends make fun of him. If they say something about his weight and I’m around, I make a specific point to compliment him, brush my body against his, go up and hug or kiss him or whisper something sexy in his ear with his friends watching. The other day his friends were really giving him a hard time, and so I made sure they overheard me telling their wives how much I enjoy his body now and how sexy he feels.

I’m not sure if he’s going to get any bigger during the last trimester, but I’m not going to mind if he does. He is mine and I love his new, big belly!

Mar 13, 2019

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  • Have you exercised your rights and fattened your partner up? How big have you influenced him to become?

  • My wife and I are hoping to become pregnant this year. This thread has me thinking an empathy belly would be a food thing to grow.

  • How much would you gain for her for your empathy belly?

  • I would go pound for pound with her. The dr wants to keep her under 40lbs. If I gain that much, I think I can lose it still. And tolerate the teasing until I do!

  • Like a real fat empathy belly or the simulated ones you take on and off? I think it would be so cute and lovely for my hubby to gain a belly while I did!!

  • A real one. Fair is fair ;) My wife told me she wouldn’t mind a little more belly for me. (I have a good starter already!)

  • Anyone getting fat for a new year’s resolution?

  • I want to see my hubbs size up in pants this year. He’s been stretching his 44s for two years!

  • This sounds like a fabulous ideas for all those mean hubbies!!

  • What, fattening a guy up just because he’s not always nice? That seems mean! Isn’t there a nicer revenge you can do?

  • Well, if you ever have met a confident, douchebag dude who lost his hair or gained weight later on in life, you’ll notice a much nicer and more subdued guy. A better version of himself. Perhaps, this husband is learning that, too.

  • My wife fattened me up too. I 5ought she was just proud of her cooking. Turns out, she wanted to mark me as hers and now I can’t lose it.

  • I have a silicone pregnant belly from IVITA. It weighs about 10 pounds and straps around my stomach to make me look pregnant. I have fun wearing it around town sometimes, especially when it’s fall and winter and I can dress in cute clothes.

  • Are you a guy or girl? Either way, why?

  • I’m a dude and I have a silicone belly. Totally straight. Love women. Very attracted to females. Just like looking and feeling fat/pregnant sometimes.

  • Are you fat too? Is it just the belly part you like or the b**** as well?

  • I’m fairly skinny. Or I was before Covid. I wouldn’t say I’m “fat” or obese. Mainly I like the belly. But the fake b**** can be fun sometimes, although I feel bad for women that they always have them. They get in the way a lot of the time. But the big belly is always enjoyable.

  • You should grow a real one. They feel amazing!

  • I don’t know. I like being able to take off the extra weight and be normal and play sports/workout, etc. I like my everyday life of being skinny. I just like feeling really big sometimes, like going to the grocery store or watching a movie at home as a pregnant man. Big belly. Big chest. Hard to breathe and move around. But I don’t think I want that all the time. I’m fairly active.

  • Hah give it time. I used to be a basketball player as well. Ive happily given that up for comfort foods and belly rubs!

  • I also have one! I’m a girl. Fairly thin and “attractive” based on society’s standards. But I love my little helper belly. I feel so cute when I wear it and I get so many looks and complements!! You would be surprised how many guys are attracted to a pregnant lady!!

  • Do they think you’re pregnant or just a little chubby? Does the experience make you want to gain weight, or are you relieved to take it off?

  • It’s nice to take off my belly, but I won’t mind when it’s real and big like that for nine months. 🤰

  • I definitely look pregnant when I wear my belly. I’m a thin person. It sticks out and looks like a pregnant belly, so it’s not that I just look chubby. All my other features are thin. I haven’t thought much about gaining weight. I’m not sure I could gain weight if I tried.

  • F, 24. Not entirely sure why except I just enjoy the feeling of looking preggo. I haven’t had my own baby yet, so maybe that’s why. Either way, it’s fun and cute and I only do it about once a month or so. I mainly wear it when I’m in the next town over. I’ve worn it once in front of my bf, but I’m not sure he loved it so I haven’t done that again.

  • Yeah, that’s a kinda nightmare scenario for a boyfriend. ;)

  • I wouldn’t mind if my girlfriend did this. I think it would be cute and sexy, but I also think I have a little bit of a pregnancy fetish.

  • What do you like about it? Are you also into bigger girls who aren’t pregnant?

  • I have a plus size fetish. I also have a pregnancy fetish. I’m just attracted to a large and round woman. I think they are absolutely stunning.

  • I don’t know, I’ve just always been attracted to a woman who was pregnant. Plus size women are also attractive, but I think I like a pregnant belly much more than just a chubby belly. Maybe it’s how big it gets or how fast the weight comes on or that it’s a targeted weight gain so it’s more noticeable faster. I really don’t know. Maybe it’s biological and subconscious. I can’t really explain it. But sometimes I think a woman looks better pregnant than not pregnant - celebrities in pictures, etc. For example, Ashley Graham is a pretty plus size model. But when she’s pregnant, I’m like 😍.

  • Yes to this! If you think BBWs are sexy, it doesn’t get much better than Ashley Graham.

  • I second that. A pregnant Ashley Graham might be the closest our 2021 civilization has to a goddess.

  • Truer words have never been typed. Why don’t more women realize that confidence is sexier than a size?

  • Yea, for sure. Didn’t really think about it that way when I did it the first time but can totally see it from his perspective now. I was just trying to be fun and it was for Halloween. 😬. I wasn’t weird about it like on a date night or something. But he did say I looked cute with a belly!

  • That’s promising! Plan to make your belly real in the future?

  • Yes!! I love kids, and when the time is right and the guy is right, I’m sure it will happen. I get excited thinking about getting big and round with a huge pregnant belly, so for now I just have to dress up like I’m big and round.

  • Super fun and so cute!! When and where do you wear your fake belly? 🤰

  • I’ve worn it out to the grocery store shopping, for a walk in the park, etc. Just every few weeks when I have some spare time. Maybe every 3-4 weeks or something like that. I amazon or eBay cute maternity clothes and wear those.

  • My husband is definitely gaining quarantine weight and looking like he’s pregnant! 😂

  • How much has he gained? Are you liking the look?

  • He refuses to step on a scale while I’m in the room, but I would guess 35-45 pounds. Belly is just popping and drooping out now. It’s definitely something I’m getting used to having around and seeing, but I still love him and am attracted to him.

  • Do you like his belly as well? I know when I gained during quarantine I was conscious of it but my wife just started putting her hand on my belly if we’re on the couch or give it a little squeeze during s**. We haven’t openly talked about it but it’s enough that I stopped worrying about losing it.

  • Did she ever tell you she liked you being fat?

  • She hasn’t out and out said it. Maybe her desire is just a fantasy of mine and if so, I don’t want to ruin it. Plus, I love the mystery of it tbh.

  • Yea, it took me some time to come to grips with being married to a fat guy, but I don’t mind it now. I’ve always dated active, athletic men. So being with a big boy is new to me. Sometimes I catch a glimpse of his pregnant silhouette and just laugh to myself now! 😂

  • Nice. Every now and then, I’ll look at the shadow my chest and belly are casting and it’ll make me realize how pregnant I’m looking from certain angles. My wife’s exes are all pretty slim as well. It makes me wonder what her friends are thinking.

  • Wow! He agreed to look as preggo as you?! Just wow! 😯

  • Husbands will do a lot of crazy things to please their wives, including this guy. If my wife said something like that to me, I’m sure I would resist…at first. Then I would end up probably also looking pregnant a year later.

  • True. Ive managed to gain a pregnant look without her even asking. Can’t imagine how much I’d gain if she did.

  • Do you like your new preggo body?!! Ha ha!!! 😆

  • Well now that you put it that way, no. :) I’m getting used to it. My chest is growing super sensitive so that’s cool.

  • It sounds like you have elevated levels of estrogen and shrinking levels of testosterone if you are experiencing growth in your chest region and not exercising.
    An increase in body fat composition in men is known to change due to heightened estrogen levels (female hormones that are naturally occurring in men) that are outside of a normal range. If you are feeling sensitive in your nipple area and they are growing in size, your body is essentially signaling to you that you have an imbalance (most likely) in your hormone levels. Long story short, your body is treating itself like you are female and growing fatty tissue in your chest, which is creating a female-type of breast in your chest (“moobs”) as you gain weight and your body is adding some of that gained weight to your b******, more so than an average man. You might want to consult a doctor.

  • But what if I kind of like it?

  • You actually like your b**** t***? My friend got fat and I tweak his nipple every chance I get just to remind him how out of shape he’s gotten.

  • Are you trying to transition to a woman or just interested in having enlarged breast tissue?

  • I’m happy being a guy. I just like having a softer side and physically like how being fat feels. It turns my wife on as well, which is really hot.

  • She likes that you have male b******?

  • She doesn’t like it. She loves it. She’s kind obsessed actually.

  • Well, I was actually trying to help you and give you some perspective on the seriousness of your health issue, but you seem more interested in being a man with b****, so I’ll just let this go now. Good luck in finding a bra for your growing b****.

  • Yeah I’m happy. Embarrassed but happy. Thank you for trying to help

  • You couldn’t see your husband doing that? I can only think of one hubby I know who wouldn’t. He’s the vain alpha dad.

  • This post is a couple years old. OP, did he stay fat after the baby? How’s life now?

  • Yes! He gained about 80 pounds since we have been married. He didn’t lose any of his baby weight. He’s still a fat guy, and I love his big tummy!! 💕

  • That’s so sweet!! My guy grew pretty organically for years and I’ve loved it. I recently started encouraging him a bit more and am loving the results. Is there anything better than curling up with a doughy body? Wondering if I can get him to eat thirds tomorrow for thanksgiving. :)

  • How do you encourage him?

  • Sometimes I’ll just push a dish in front of him as he finishes his plate or I’ll remind him how much he likes something or that I went through the trouble of making something. A little guilt trip and soon he’s making room for more.

  • Does he notice you are fattening him up? How’s he taking it?

  • I think he knows he has fat tendencies so he doesn’t blame me. He’ll say things like he has no self control. Then he’ll eat more. The internal struggle is almost as cute as his growing belly.

  • How much has he put on? How chubby do you want him to be?

  • He’s added about 75 or so pounds in the last couple years. I wouldn’t have guessed I would be attracted to someone that large but when you love someone first a weight gain is more easily accepted like the cliche ‘more to love’. I don’t have a goal weight for him. The cutest part to me is in the evolution of slowly outgrowing clothes or slowly stop going to the gym or slowly being ok to have dessert at every meal. I love to see his defenses slowly collapse. Does that sound mean? I don’t intend it like that.

  • It sounds sweet, but what if the shoe was on the other foot? What if you gained fifty pounds and he liked seeing you go up in dress sizes or eat more dessert? Would you feel a similar way?

  • It is interesting you ask. Truth be told, I have fat tendencies as well. The difference is, I keep them in check. You don’t gain 50 pounds unless you WANT to gain 50 pounds. My little butterball does. I do not.

  • Have you tried gaining weight before to see if you would like it as much as your butterball?

  • I was heavyset when I was young. I didn’t exactly appreciate the teasing.

  • When did you decide you liked him fat?

  • I don’t know how big he was weight wise. But as soon as his moobs got bigger than mine, there seemed to be a shift in our relationship, and I saw his fat more than just a bigger body. Now, I am slowly taking charge of him and he’s mindlessly letting me. It’s so hot

  • Oh, wow! Sounds like you need to take him to Victoria’s Secret and get him fitted! 😂

  • That might be too big of a step for him. It is a good idea though. Maybe someday

  • What do you like most about making him fat?

  • Like I said, it seems to have caused a shift in our relationship. He’s very strong-willed and a successful manager. Now that he has a softer body he seems to have a softer personality too, at least with me. I’ve always told him what to do because I’m his wife ha ha. But now, he’s starting to listen more. Maybe a little submissive. I don’t know.

  • How much weight did you make him gain?

  • I haven’t made him gain. He just overeats and drinks. All I do is show my appreciation for his extra inches around the waist. That’s not making him gain, is it??

  • How much weight has he put on since being with you? Which came first, his doughy body or your enjoyment of him fattening up?

  • Definitely his doughy body. I don’t mind bigger guys but I would never have started dating a guy as big as he is. But now that I already love him, it’s easier to accept that it’s the same guy, just in a much rounder form.

  • Do you want him to lose the weight now?

  • Never! Though I’d still love him if he did. Is your hubby fat too?

  • No, my partner is not fat. I’ve toyed with the idea of putting some weight on him until I have a wedding ring, but I haven’t done that yet. He’s pretty clever. I think he would catch on.

  • I don’t know. Guys are pretty easily distracted. ;)

  • I know what you mean about spooning. It’s my girlfriend and I’s favorite position now that I’m thicker. I love curling up to her or having her slip her hand down to where my belly hangs over. Heaven

  • How pudgy is your husband now? Did he expand further or finally stabilize? Still liking his fuller form?

  • He’s almost 300 pounds. He gained about 80 pounds throughout the process of supporting my pregnancies. (We have a few kids now!!) I love how big and strong he is. I wouldn’t want him to lose the weight if he wanted to.

  • My husband is a little bigger than that and I couldn’t love on him more. He’s like my very own Buddha with all belly and breast. I wouldn’t mind if he got a little bigger but I’m enjoying where he’s at now.

  • When did you decide you enjoyed him being big?

  • He was never thin. But as he has gotten heavier, I’ve loved the feeling of his soft body. And he’s always warm. My very own heater!

  • You like his moobs?

  • Oh my. they’re my favorite parts! He needs a bra at this point though he is too “manly” to admit it.

  • Good luck on getting a bra on a porker like that!

  • That’s not very nice. He can’t help that his extra weight just finds his chest more than other areas.

  • How do you feel about his chest/breast growing?

  • I like it a lot. I had a few non serious encounters with other girls in college and really loved how sensual b****** are. Now that he’s grown a pair, I get the best of both genders.

  • What size cup would he be?

  • I’m a c and he’s bigger than me. But man b****** are different. So not sure. Maybe a d?

  • I’ve never really seen or felt moobs before. What are they like? How are they different?

  • Well, b****** vary as you know. Female b****** are a lot more defined and usually bigger. Usually ha ha. If guys keep gaining weight sometimes it goes to the sides of their b****** instead of making them fuller or stick out more. What I love so much about my husbands growth is how much he likes the attention I give them.

  • Does he wear one now? Are you going to get him one?

  • No not yet. Though if he grows any bigger I think I will. It will not be an easy conversation ha ha.

  • It can seriously help him with back issues. My husband couldn’t stand there and do dishes without his bad hurting because of his belly and man b****. I got him a bra to try and he feels a lot better doing everyday tasks now, inside and outside the house.

  • He hasn’t complained about back issues yet. But the thought of him doing the dishes or mowing the lawn in a bra is so cute.

  • Well, he wears a shirt while he is doing chores around the house, so you can’t see he is wearing a bra. But it is cute when he’s wearing it!! 😊

  • Yeah, but I would know… ;) And I would imagine how red-faced he would be if others did. So cute!

  • You gonna try it on him then?! 🤞 😆

  • Why are you hoping I do? Perv… ;)

  • I don’t really care one way or another. Just thought people would like to hear your plans and how it goes if you try it. That’s what this forum is here for.

  • I was just kidding. ;) Honestly I can’t imagine what I could do to get him to ever going for the idea.

  • Has he kept gaining? Are you wanting him huge, or do you like his santa belly?

  • I don’t want him too big. He’s about 290ish pounds, and that’s just fine for me. Plenty to snuggle on and cuddle with. I absolutely adore his belly!

  • That’s right about where my guy is too. It’s the perfect amount of fluffiness.

  • How much does he weigh now? How big around is his belly?

  • Oh, wow! I kinda forgot about this post but just got an email that someone responded!! This post is from about 18 months ago.
    The baby is 15 months and I’ve almost bounced back. Have about another 10, maybe 15, pounds to lose to feel normal again. Hubby is a different story. He took our little deal a little far and is a much fatter version of himself. He’s still super sexy to me, and we are talking about another baby. He’s up about 80 pounds. Wears a size 44-46 in pants. XXL shirts and shorts. His belly is about 24 inches bigger than it was. It’s almost like a big, Santa belly now!! 🎅

  • How much does he weigh now in total? What size pants is he wearing? Sounds like he's on his way to be your huge hefty hubby!

  • He has kinda stabilized his weight over the last year. He hasn’t gained or lost anything more than ten pounds one way or the other. He gained about 24-26 inches on his belly in total, and it’s much bigger than when we were dating or engaged. I love to just wiggle it and pat it and love on it. I wouldn’t want him to lose his belly even if he wanted to work it off!

  • How fat is your hishand now!?

  • He gained 70 pounds, and kept it all on. He’s so much bigger now. He wears a size 44 pants and he gained 22 inches on his belly during the entire pregnancy. I have about ten pounds to go to get back to pre-pregnancy weight. It I don’t want him to lose any of it. I love his new size!

  • Whatever happened to your husband? Did he lose any of the weight?

  • He didn’t lose any of it and has kept it all on. We bought him a new wardrobe and his skinny clothes are packed away in the attic. He is so big now and I love it! He’s so sexy to me.

  • You can donate those clothes now. If you were the type of woman who wanted your husband skinny and made him lose a bunch of weight, I'd say keep the clothes hanging up, because weight loss almost never lasts.

    But if you love yourself a gaining man, once they go fat, they don't go back! That gut is the very essence of stability right there, especially if they got an encourager in the bedroom.

  • Donating clothes so he can’t go back? Oooh you are sneaky! Did your guy gain a lot too? Does he ever talk about losing it? Mine hasn’t said a word.

  • I hope you continues to love him that fat because no other women will!

  • Totally disagree. I get more attention since I’ve fattened up. Not that I’m looking for it. I’m married!

  • Yes, my husband, too. He’s still very handsome, and he has a great career, so just because he’s a wider guy doesn’t mean he doesn’t get attention still.

  • Wow! He got super fat on you!

  • I don’t mind at all when my husband gains weight. I think he looks sexy no matter his size. And I think his pregnant-looking hairy belly can be really cute.

  • Has he gained a lot? Still liking it?

  • Definitely get the sports bra. My husband is like a C cup now and it smooths him out and gives his moobs support. His chest in a tshirt or a dress shirt looks better. He said it actually makes his back hurt less. It was a little different at first, but he's used to it now and I'm used to seeing him in it. I always thought I wanted my man with a strong and tight chest, but I prefer his new mushy and soft chest. It's much more comfortable to sleep on.

  • He has to sleep in a bra too? How fat is he?

  • Sounds like my husband. Although, I didn't ask him to gain weight. He just did it on his own. He's put on about 60-70 pounds on an already chubby frame. The other day he asked me to amazon him a sports bra because his chest was bouncing so much when he tried to exercise. I told him that I would find him something to help support his growing moobs! Now he knows what it's like to be me. (And I really don't mind his weight gain. He is still a wonderful husband. He's just a bigger version of himself in a sports bra.)

  • You are very supportive! Was he embarrassed at the idea?

  • I bought my husband a regular bra. It has really wide straps and helps his posture. It was hard to get him to try and start wearing it, but now he wouldn’t go without it.

  • How did you convince him? He still wearing it?

  • Yes, he still wears his bra on a daily basis. It’s important for him to feel his best and not have back aches. It did take a little convincing for him because our society associates bras with women instead of bras with chest support. I just told him I wanted him to try it for his health and comfort, which is the same reason I wear a bra everyday. And I told him that it’s just a piece of clothing, that’s it! I asked him just to try it for a weekend around the house and just see how he feels at the end of the weekend. After that weekend, he’s never been without his bra.

  • Sounds very logical. I just can’t get over the emotional part. I think wearing one would call even more attention to my chest. And if I got comfortable wearing one, I’m afraid I’d get even fatter.

  • You should try it. It really is helpful. There is a reason why 50% of the population wears one.

  • I brought the idea up to my wife this weekend. She said she wouldn’t be “into” that but I could do what I want. Now I’m sitting around with a fat body/belly/chest that maybe she’s not liking as much as she led onto.

  • My husband has been on a lot of weight, too. More with each kid. Before I was a little embarrassed about it, especially when we hadn’t seen someone for a little while. It was a very noticeable weight gain. But now I look back on pictures, and he looked so skinny to me! I prefer my large and chubby man. He’s probably gained about 80 pounds. He was a L and now he is a XXL, but I love every pound of him! I like to give him a hug from behind and grab his big belly and grab his moobs. He hasn’t asked for a sports bra yet, but maybe I should surprise him with one. He sure needs it!

  • If you show him you are trying to help him and that you love him and still find him manly, I’m sure he will wear the bra. After all, it’s just a piece of underwear.

  • Wow! Congrats on showing him who is the boss. Now he can know what it’s like to be you! Hope you like his fat belly!

  • You should measure both bellies and see who gains more inches!

  • His belly got really big! He was more inches than I was when I was nine months pregnant.

  • So who’s in better shape now?

  • I’m in better shape, but I don’t mind. I like the fatter version of him. I’m not back to my pre-preggo body either, but he’s definitely not!! He looks like he was the one who was pregnant for nine months. 😂

  • Same with my guy. Such a big sexy belly on him.

  • The fatter, the better. My man used to be skinny. A couple years with me fixed that! I’m a really good cook and he plumped up in just a few years. I’ve always been attracted to bigger boys, so I had to help him fill out a bit. He’s put on about 100 pounds since dating/marrying me and he looks and feels much sexier to me now.

  • Yes, some girls will refuse to date a skinny guy, but if you're a good cook, give us a chance. Few skinny guys stay that way for long with a talented chef in the house!

  • Amen to that skinny man!

  • Skinny man for now indeed! I've seen a skinny man move in with girl who bakes nonstop and loves chub. You'd never guess he was skinny before.

  • Nothing wrong with fattening up a man if you intend to be his forever. That extra fat is a layer of security to keep other women away, and it’s your marker that he has someone else that already takes good care of him!

  • Tho fattening him up and leaving him is a good way to get revenge if he isn’t faithful. Have an ex who is lugging around an extra 70 pounds thans to me. Haha

  • Does he feel OK? 100 pounds is a lot of weight.

  • How much bigger do you want him?

  • Hope you poo when you give birth and humiliate yourself!

  • That’s not very nice.

  • It's erotic in my eyes

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