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I’m pregnant again, and my husband always makes fun of my weight gain. So this time, I’m turning it against him.
About five months ago, when we were messing around, I told him I was worried about gaining weight and him not being attracted to me anymore. We had recently found out we were expecting again. He asked if there was anything he could do to help, and then the thought occurred to me that he could get as big as me. So I then told him I would feel better about myself if he got as big as me.
He’s not super skinny anymore. I guess kind of like your average dad bod. Anyways, he sheepishly agreed to put on some weight with me.
Well, that was five months ago, and he went much further than I thought he would. He cut his gym time in half. Ate whatever he wanted whenever he wanted. Started snacking more and eating more junk food. In the last five months, he has gained 40 pounds! I just had to buy him size 40 pants, and he was a 34 pants size when we found out we were expecting. I wear maternity pants at this point in my pregnancy, and he was joking the other day that he probably needs some now. I think he probably does! I’ve gained about 25 pounds, so our bellies have grown at about the same rate!
I love him so much! And it’s crazy to see how much bigger he has become. I think it’s kind of sweet in a way. He walks a little slower. He has a tiny waddle a little bit. He has to pull himself up off the couch now. We have to hug each other differently now because both bellies get in the way a little bit. When we start kissing now, if we kiss more than twenty seconds, he has to take a break because he is out of breath! His face and his ** have filled out more. His body is softer.
The crazy thing is that I want him to stay this way. Maybe even gain another 20-30 pounds. I find myself being really attracted to his new shape and size. I like snuggling on him during pillow talk as we are going to bed. I like rubbing his new belly and cupping his moob. When we spoon, I like the feel of his new belly on my back. It’s all just really ** to me.
Sometimes I can tell he feels really self-conscious, especially when his friends make fun of him. If they say something about his weight and I’m around, I make a specific point to compliment him, brush my body against his, go up and hug or kiss him or whisper something ** in his ear with his friends watching. The other day his friends were really giving him a hard time, and so I made sure they overheard me telling their wives how much I enjoy his body now and how ** he feels.
I’m not sure if he’s going to get any bigger during the last trimester, but I’m not going to mind if he does. He is mine and I love his new, big belly!
Has your hubby kept gaining? What's his weight now?
My wife seems to feel the same about my ever growing pudginess. If I’d known earlier, I thunk I’d be even bigger now.
I think that as long as you still find him attractive and have ** time, it’s your right as his wife to get him as big as you want. How big is too big, though?
Have you exercised your rights and fattened your partner up? How big have you influenced him to become?
My wife and I are hoping to become pregnant this year. This thread has me thinking an empathy belly would be a food thing to grow.
Like a real fat empathy belly or the simulated ones you take on and off? I think it would be so cute and lovely for my hubby to gain a belly while I did!!
A real one. Fair is fair ;) My wife told me she wouldn’t mind a little more belly for me. (I have a good starter already!)
How much would you gain for her for your empathy belly?
I would go pound for pound with her. The dr wants to keep her under 40lbs. If I gain that much, I think I can lose it still. And tolerate the teasing until I do!
Anyone getting fat for a new year’s resolution?
I want to see my hubbs size up in pants this year. He’s been stretching his 44s for two years!
This sounds like a fabulous ideas for all those mean hubbies!!
What, fattening a guy up just because he’s not always nice? That seems mean! Isn’t there a nicer revenge you can do?
Well, if you ever have met a confident, ** dude who lost his hair or gained weight later on in life, you’ll notice a much nicer and more subdued guy. A better version of himself. Perhaps, this husband is learning that, too.
My wife fattened me up too. I 5ought she was just proud of her cooking. Turns out, she wanted to mark me as hers and now I can’t lose it.
100% true, after I got my hubby to expand his waistline, and shaved his head during covid his whole attitude changed. Much nicer and accommodating to point where I run the show. Needless to say he is still shaved bald and kept at a weight where ppl know who the attractive one in the couple is atm
I have a silicone pregnant belly from IVITA. It weighs about 10 pounds and straps around my stomach to make me look pregnant. I have fun wearing it around town sometimes, especially when it’s fall and winter and I can dress in cute clothes.
Super fun and so cute!! When and where do you wear your fake belly? 🤰
I’ve worn it out to the grocery store shopping, for a walk in the park, etc. Just every few weeks when I have some spare time. Maybe every 3-4 weeks or something like that. I amazon or eBay cute maternity clothes and wear those.
Are you a guy or girl? Either way, why?
F, 24. Not entirely sure why except I just enjoy the feeling of looking preggo. I haven’t had my own baby yet, so maybe that’s why. Either way, it’s fun and cute and I only do it about once a month or so. I mainly wear it when I’m in the next town over. I’ve worn it once in front of my bf, but I’m not sure he loved it so I haven’t done that again.
Yeah, that’s a kinda nightmare scenario for a boyfriend. ;)
I also have one! I’m a girl. Fairly thin and “attractive” based on society’s standards. But I love my little helper belly. I feel so cute when I wear it and I get so many looks and complements!! You would be surprised how many guys are attracted to a pregnant lady!!
Do they think you’re pregnant or just a little chubby? Does the experience make you want to gain weight, or are you relieved to take it off?
I’m a dude and I have a silicone belly. Totally straight. Love women. Very attracted to females. Just like looking and feeling fat/pregnant sometimes.
My husband is definitely gaining quarantine weight and looking like he’s pregnant! 😂
How much has he gained? Are you liking the look?
He refuses to step on a scale while I’m in the room, but I would guess 35-45 pounds. Belly is just popping and drooping out now. It’s definitely something I’m getting used to having around and seeing, but I still love him and am attracted to him.
Do you like his belly as well? I know when I gained during quarantine I was conscious of it but my wife just started putting her hand on my belly if we’re on the couch or give it a little squeeze during **. We haven’t openly talked about it but it’s enough that I stopped worrying about losing it.
Yea, it took me some time to come to grips with being married to a fat guy, but I don’t mind it now. I’ve always dated active, athletic men. So being with a big boy is new to me. Sometimes I catch a glimpse of his pregnant silhouette and just laugh to myself now! 😂
Did she ever tell you she liked you being fat?
Wow! He agreed to look as preggo as you?! Just wow! 😯
You couldn’t see your husband doing that? I can only think of one hubby I know who wouldn’t. He’s the vain alpha dad.
Husbands will do a lot of crazy things to please their wives, including this guy. If my wife said something like that to me, I’m sure I would resist…at first. Then I would end up probably also looking pregnant a year later.
True. Ive managed to gain a pregnant look without her even asking. Can’t imagine how much I’d gain if she did.
Do you like your new preggo body?!! Ha ha!!! 😆
Well now that you put it that way, no. :) I’m getting used to it. My chest is growing super sensitive so that’s cool.
This post is a couple years old. OP, did he stay fat after the baby? How’s life now?
Yes! He gained about 80 pounds since we have been married. He didn’t lose any of his baby weight. He’s still a fat guy, and I love his big tummy!! 💕
That’s so sweet!! My guy grew pretty organically for years and I’ve loved it. I recently started encouraging him a bit more and am loving the results. Is there anything better than curling up with a doughy body? Wondering if I can get him to eat thirds tomorrow for thanksgiving. :)
How much weight has he put on since being with you? Which came first, his doughy body or your enjoyment of him fattening up?
Definitely his doughy body. I don’t mind bigger guys but I would never have started dating a guy as big as he is. But now that I already love him, it’s easier to accept that it’s the same guy, just in a much rounder form.
When did you decide you liked him fat?
I don’t know how big he was weight wise. But as soon as his moobs got bigger than mine, there seemed to be a shift in our relationship, and I saw his fat more than just a bigger body. Now, I am slowly taking charge of him and he’s mindlessly letting me. It’s so hot
How do you encourage him?
Sometimes I’ll just push a dish in front of him as he finishes his plate or I’ll remind him how much he likes something or that I went through the trouble of making something. A little guilt trip and soon he’s making room for more.
I know what you mean about spooning. It’s my girlfriend and I’s favorite position now that I’m thicker. I love curling up to her or having her slip her hand down to where my belly hangs over. Heaven
How pudgy is your husband now? Did he expand further or finally stabilize? Still liking his fuller form?
He’s almost 300 pounds. He gained about 80 pounds throughout the process of supporting my pregnancies. (We have a few kids now!!) I love how big and strong he is. I wouldn’t want him to lose the weight if he wanted to.
My husband is a little bigger than that and I couldn’t love on him more. He’s like my very own Buddha with all belly and breast. I wouldn’t mind if he got a little bigger but I’m enjoying where he’s at now.
You like his moobs?
Oh my. they’re my favorite parts! He needs a bra at this point though he is too “manly” to admit it.
When did you decide you enjoyed him being big?
He was never thin. But as he has gotten heavier, I’ve loved the feeling of his soft body. And he’s always warm. My very own heater!
Has he kept gaining? Are you wanting him huge, or do you like his santa belly?
I don’t want him too big. He’s about 290ish pounds, and that’s just fine for me. Plenty to snuggle on and cuddle with. I absolutely adore his belly!
That’s right about where my guy is too. It’s the perfect amount of fluffiness.
How much does he weigh now? How big around is his belly?
Oh, wow! I kinda forgot about this post but just got an email that someone responded!! This post is from about 18 months ago.
The baby is 15 months and I’ve almost bounced back. Have about another 10, maybe 15, pounds to lose to feel normal again. Hubby is a different story. He took our little deal a little far and is a much fatter version of himself. He’s still super ** to me, and we are talking about another baby. He’s up about 80 pounds. Wears a size 44-46 in pants. XXL shirts and shorts. His belly is about 24 inches bigger than it was. It’s almost like a big, Santa belly now!! 🎅
How much does he weigh now in total? What size pants is he wearing? Sounds like he's on his way to be your huge hefty hubby!
He has kinda stabilized his weight over the last year. He hasn’t gained or lost anything more than ten pounds one way or the other. He gained about 24-26 inches on his belly in total, and it’s much bigger than when we were dating or engaged. I love to just wiggle it and pat it and love on it. I wouldn’t want him to lose his belly even if he wanted to work it off!
How fat is your hishand now!?
He gained 70 pounds, and kept it all on. He’s so much bigger now. He wears a size 44 pants and he gained 22 inches on his belly during the entire pregnancy. I have about ten pounds to go to get back to pre-pregnancy weight. It I don’t want him to lose any of it. I love his new size!