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Growing His Guy Gut
I’m pregnant again, and my husband always makes fun of my weight gain. So this time, I’m turning it against him.
About five months ago, when we were messing around, I told him I was worried about gaining weight and him not being attracted to me anymore. We had recently found out we were expecting again. He asked if there was anything he could do to help, and then the thought occurred to me that he could get as big as me. So I then told him I would feel better about myself if he got as big as me.
He’s not super skinny anymore. I guess kind of like your average dad bod. Anyways, he sheepishly agreed to put on some weight with me.
Well, that was five months ago, and he went much further than I thought he would. He cut his gym time in half. Ate whatever he wanted whenever he wanted. Started snacking more and eating more junk food. In the last five months, he has gained 40 pounds! I just had to buy him size 40 pants, and he was a 34 pants size when we found out we were expecting. I wear maternity pants at this point in my pregnancy, and he was joking the other day that he probably needs some now. I think he probably does! I’ve gained about 25 pounds, so our bellies have grown at about the same rate!
I love him so much! And it’s crazy to see how much bigger he has become. I think it’s kind of sweet in a way. He walks a little slower. He has a tiny waddle a little bit. He has to pull himself up off the couch now. We have to hug each other differently now because both bellies get in the way a little bit. When we start kissing now, if we kiss more than twenty seconds, he has to take a break because he is out of breath! His face and his ** have filled out more. His body is softer.
The crazy thing is that I want him to stay this way. Maybe even gain another 20-30 pounds. I find myself being really attracted to his new shape and size. I like snuggling on him during pillow talk as we are going to bed. I like rubbing his new belly and cupping his moob. When we spoon, I like the feel of his new belly on my back. It’s all just really ** to me.
Sometimes I can tell he feels really self-conscious, especially when his friends make fun of him. If they say something about his weight and I’m around, I make a specific point to compliment him, brush my body against his, go up and hug or kiss him or whisper something ** in his ear with his friends watching. The other day his friends were really giving him a hard time, and so I made sure they overheard me telling their wives how much I enjoy his body now and how ** he feels.
I’m not sure if he’s going to get any bigger during the last trimester, but I’m not going to mind if he does. He is mine and I love his new, big belly!
Whatever happened to your husband? Did he lose any of the weight?
He didn’t lose any of it and has kept it all on. We bought him a new wardrobe and his skinny clothes are packed away in the attic. He is so big now and I love it! He’s so ** to me.
You can donate those clothes now. If you were the type of woman who wanted your husband skinny and made him lose a bunch of weight, I'd say keep the clothes hanging up, because weight loss almost never lasts.
But if you love yourself a gaining man, once they go fat, they don't go back! That gut is the very essence of stability right there, especially if they got an encourager in the bedroom.
Donating clothes so he can’t go back? Oooh you are sneaky! Did your guy gain a lot too? Does he ever talk about losing it? Mine hasn’t said a word.
My hubby grew from 175 to 360 in 5 years. After he hit 280 I donated all his old clothes and bought him a new wardrobe with "room to grow" starting at size 52. He's a size 60 now, with a beachball belly. He knows he's only going to get bigger and bigger.
I hope you continues to love him that fat because no other women will!
Totally disagree. I get more attention since I’ve fattened up. Not that I’m looking for it. I’m married!
Yes, my husband, too. He’s still very handsome, and he has a great career, so just because he’s a wider guy doesn’t mean he doesn’t get attention still.
Wow! He got super fat on you!
I don’t mind at all when my husband gains weight. I think he looks ** no matter his size. And I think his pregnant-looking hairy belly can be really cute.
Has he gained a lot? Still liking it?
Definitely get the sports bra. My husband is like a C cup now and it smooths him out and gives his moobs support. His chest in a tshirt or a dress shirt looks better. He said it actually makes his back hurt less. It was a little different at first, but he's used to it now and I'm used to seeing him in it. I always thought I wanted my man with a strong and tight chest, but I prefer his new mushy and soft chest. It's much more comfortable to sleep on.
He has to sleep in a bra too? How fat is he?
Sounds like my husband. Although, I didn't ask him to gain weight. He just did it on his own. He's put on about 60-70 pounds on an already chubby frame. The other day he asked me to amazon him a sports bra because his chest was bouncing so much when he tried to exercise. I told him that I would find him something to help support his growing moobs! Now he knows what it's like to be me. (And I really don't mind his weight gain. He is still a wonderful husband. He's just a bigger version of himself in a sports bra.)
My husband has been on a lot of weight, too. More with each kid. Before I was a little embarrassed about it, especially when we hadn’t seen someone for a little while. It was a very noticeable weight gain. But now I look back on pictures, and he looked so skinny to me! I prefer my large and chubby man. He’s probably gained about 80 pounds. He was a L and now he is a XXL, but I love every pound of him! I like to give him a hug from behind and grab his big belly and grab his moobs. He hasn’t asked for a sports bra yet, but maybe I should surprise him with one. He sure needs it!
If you show him you are trying to help him and that you love him and still find him manly, I’m sure he will wear the bra. After all, it’s just a piece of underwear.
I bought my husband a regular bra. It has really wide straps and helps his posture. It was hard to get him to try and start wearing it, but now he wouldn’t go without it.
How did you convince him? He still wearing it?
Yes, he still wears his bra on a daily basis. It’s important for him to feel his best and not have back aches. It did take a little convincing for him because our society associates bras with women instead of bras with chest support. I just told him I wanted him to try it for his health and comfort, which is the same reason I wear a bra everyday. And I told him that it’s just a piece of clothing, that’s it! I asked him just to try it for a weekend around the house and just see how he feels at the end of the weekend. After that weekend, he’s never been without his bra.
Sounds very logical. I just can’t get over the emotional part. I think wearing one would call even more attention to my chest. And if I got comfortable wearing one, I’m afraid I’d get even fatter.
You are very supportive! Was he embarrassed at the idea?
Wow! Congrats on showing him who is the boss. Now he can know what it’s like to be you! Hope you like his fat belly!
Hope you ** when you give birth and humiliate yourself!
That’s not very nice.
The fatter, the better. My man used to be skinny. A couple years with me fixed that! I’m a really good cook and he plumped up in just a few years. I’ve always been attracted to bigger boys, so I had to help him fill out a bit. He’s put on about 100 pounds since dating/marrying me and he looks and feels much sexier to me now.
How much bigger do you want him?
Does he feel OK? 100 pounds is a lot of weight.
Nothing wrong with fattening up a man if you intend to be his forever. That extra fat is a layer of security to keep other women away, and it’s your marker that he has someone else that already takes good care of him!
You should measure both bellies and see who gains more inches!
His belly got really big! He was more inches than I was when I was nine months pregnant.