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Concerns about her trip
I'm 27, and I've been happily married for 4 years. My wife is beautiful, same age, and is the love of my life. My world revolves around her, I love her so much.
She recently said that she wanted to take a trip to Mexico this spring with a dozen friends from her high school days for a week. I said, "When are we going?" She replied that I'm not invited, and that it is just her and her friends. I felt a little hurt by that. She said boyfriends/spouses are not allowed.
I'd feel better about the trip if it was just with her female friends, but there are going to be guys that she knew in high school there as well, four of them. It's like a mini-reunion. I'm on my wife's facebook, and they are chatting non-stop about getting rooms, where they are going to party, etc. It has me unnerved.
I trust my wife, but this doesn't seem right. I asked her if she is doing this trip just so she can get **, and she got really angry. I'm not sure if my concerns are justified, or if I should back off and let her go. Any comments would be appreciated.
Incredible. Hard to imagine she was that stupid AND careless. I'm sorry you had to go through that but I'm glad you're out of the trap. Have you remarried or are you still shopping?
I have remarried and my new life with my new wife is actually so much better than my first marriage. Its funny because my current wife used to work with my first wife and after talking about why we divorced she started pointing out all the signs I missed and that at her place of employment it was a not so well kept secret that she slept around. My current wife told me she personally knew of three different men they worked with that my ex wife had ** while we were married. If it hadn't been for seeing the condoms fall from her bag I may have never known. I will never trust anyone so blindly again.
It's a great shame that you had to find out both things so painfully, although I must say that you don't seem embittered by the betrayals, which is a rare thing in the world. Maybe the new wife, and her trustworthiness, have been a comfort. I certainly hope that's the case. You certainly deserve that. I wish you all the very best.