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My husband has done the worst he can do.
We have been married for 15 years and have three children. I thought things were really great between us. He has everything a man could want. A lovely home and three beautiful children. A wife who lets him be himself. Doesn't nag him and gives him ** whenever he likes. I even initiate ** once in a while. He plays golf and gets time to himself. He has his toys which I enjoy with him and encourage. Like a Harley Fat Boy, and a 2018 Z06 Corvette. But it seems that things aren't ok. I found out he's been having an affair with an older woman at his work. I saw his phone ringing and I answered it. She didn't say a word when I said hello. Then about thirty minutes later I saw a text pop up that read, " When your a lone call me please very important I speak with you. Love you Miranda."
When I saw the words my heart sank. I met her at their Christmas party last year. I never thought something like this would happen to us. I trusted my husband never giving a moments concern about him cheating. He always lets me know when he will be working late which isn't very often. He's always affectionate with me and the kids and makes time for family stuff. So I have no idea where he found the time to even have an affair. When I asked him about the call and the text he fessed up and told me what was going on. I asked him why. Which he couldn't explain other than to say he just developed feelings for this woman.
He moved out and is currently living with a male friend who is single. I don't like this guy cause he is a smooth womanizer. I think this person is a bad influence. The affair isn't the worst part of the whole darn situation. It seems my husband has gotten his girlfriend pregnant. I just can't believe it. My parents love him like a son and are crushed. His parents passed away a few years ago. This home wrecker says she intends to have the baby.
He says that he loves her and doesn't love me anymore. I don't believe him when he says that. He comes to pick up the children and take them out. But sometimes we have had ** before he does so. The fact that I can still seduce him and get him to sleep with me makes me think he still does love me. I told him that I want to talk to Miranda and he said I better not and made me promise that I wouldn't. Wonder what she would think of him still sleeping with me.
I told him that I love him and will be right here waiting. I'm thinking of sending her a registered letter and ask her to leave us alone. I'm sure he would be back with me if she wasn't in the picture. She should have an abortion and find herself her own man and leave my husband alone. I really dislike her. Even though she is older she is prettier than me. I try to make myself attractive but that's how I feel. I think he's just infatuated with her but don't see it lasting. She is more controlling and very insecure and jealous. If they are together and I call his cell phone she goes crazy and suspicious.
Your best friend is spot on. The only contact you should be having with him given this hot mess is co-parenting matters. PERIOD. He's played you a fool for a long time then when found out you allowed him to continue playing you.
Absolutely do as you say and consult an Atty. Your husband is going to get a real awaking when his affair melts down and he has support payments for a couple decades and he discovers in years to come he is the one that blew up his own world.
Time for a divorce. Your husband has the nerve to knock up another woman with no regret and you want him back? You need to get your head checked sister
Stop sleeping with him. You trying to entice him back home is not going to work in essence your placating his bad behavior. Go talk to a counselor to get some perspective and to help sort things out.
You are delusional. He doesn’t love you anymore. Just because you can seduce him means nothing. Easy ** is too good to pass up. He probably doesn’t love her either. Don’t believe me? Set him up with another chick and he’ll go for it. Time to take care of yourself now. Take his money and find some new **.
I can't believe how ungrateful you are being! He is with the woman he loves!
He still has s*X with you and you are being so selfish, you said yourself she is better looking! And guaranteed much better in bed than you!
Be grateful he is keeping you on the side! Don't ruin what you have got!
It's so cute when incels try to troll a subject they are in no danger of experiencing themselves. Or are you a middle school kid? Either way, stfu Donny. You're out of your element!
Really, ok let just see how you interpret this?
You are american, a woman and clearly spend a lot of time on line.
As for the original op (which could be you?I don't care either way) he is gone, he cheated, you say this woman manipulated him? Then he is weak!
He had children with you and has let them down too for his affair, apparently another life is being brought in to the world only to be fukked around!
Stop sleeping with him! You are making yourself an away target!
Show your children what a strong woman can be! Lead by example boys should be shown how a real man behaves and girls should learn a woman is not a doormat!!
That was easy target