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My wife is having an on line affair
I caught my wife talking ** with a man she met on line. She left her PC for a few minutes to go to the bathroom and I walked by and saw this man typing things of the sexual nature. She was conducting this on line cheating. Telling this man how much she wanted to sleep with him and all the things she wanted to do to him. I called her on it and asked if he or she has sent pictures of themselves. She said no but I don't believe her. I think they have. I asked if they have talked and she said no to that too.
It's still cheating to me. I don't understand what she is getting out of this. I told her she has to stop or else I will take steps to see that it does. I don't do this sort of thing to her and I don't expect it to be done to me. This inter net stuff can get out of hand and fast. I have friends who's marriages have ended from what started on line. I'm thinking of hiring a detective to look into what she's been doing know. I'd rather know and be able to get out of a bad situation before staying years and years in a bad one.
So what? Let her have her fun. Get over it and appreciate it. In fact, encourage them to meet for a **.
You get her phone records to start with. Install a key logger on the computer. Lots of ways to get the truth.
She’s not cheating. It’s just fantasy role playing with maybe a pic or two involved. If she’s meeting up with him in person for physical **, that would be cheating.
It's harmless. Leave her alone. I know, I know: they call it "emotional infidelity", but that's **. If there's no penetration, there's no cheating. Let her have her fun, and thank God that she cares enough about you to limit what she's doing to ones and zeroes.
Why not see if you can catch her in the act?