My wife is having an on line affair

I caught my wife talking s** with a man she met on line. She left her PC for a few minutes to go to the bathroom and I walked by and saw this man typing things of the sexual nature. She was conducting this on line cheating. Telling this man how much she wanted to sleep with him and all the things she wanted to do to him. I called her on it and asked if he or she has sent pictures of themselves. She said no but I don't believe her. I think they have. I asked if they have talked and she said no to that too.

It's still cheating to me. I don't understand what she is getting out of this. I told her she has to stop or else I will take steps to see that it does. I don't do this sort of thing to her and I don't expect it to be done to me. This inter net stuff can get out of hand and fast. I have friends who's marriages have ended from what started on line. I'm thinking of hiring a detective to look into what she's been doing know. I'd rather know and be able to get out of a bad situation before staying years and years in a bad one.

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  • My wife came back from her official tour and she had to mail some documents or something I am not sure, her laptop was on and her email was open when I entered her Room which she use for home office purpose. I had just made a coffee ( I am jobless and retired to home making) and was bringing the coffee tray to her room and saw she just entering the bathroom and closing the door. So as I turned to keep the coffee on her table, I saw her laptop on and an email just popped up. It simply stated 'Hi honey Gd Morning. See the attachment. Our memoir of last night. Enjoy. Have a good day'. Curiosity gave way and I opened the attachment which was a video of her lying naked with her boss and she was earnestly requesting not to take video. Though I knew there may have some thing like that going on, this was the hard proof. Without wasting time I got it copied to my phone and made the message unread. Though there was no action of sexual thing in the video, both were naked lying on bed resting after s**. I later was feeling a thrill and decided to upload the same on the Internet for the public to enjoy at ttps:// stream/jmaaVY2gK3H/Cheating_wife_with_her_Boss.wmv. Still viewing that video and seeing the number of hits I masturbates when my wife is at office. At times whenever I get a chance I would scan her laptops and even belongings to get hold of any such evidence but have not been successful so far.

  • The next step for her is to have s** with her lover boy. She will keep it from you as best she can. You need to keep an eye on her, sooner or later she will be f****** this guy.

  • Too late she is now having s** with him a couple times a week and she doesn't even care to hide it from me. It's torture knowing she is with him. I have no one to love. I might as well kill myself. I can't stand the pain of this. She was my life.

  • You are right, this was your life but now it is over, kick her to the curb and find someone who cares for you. You don't want to kill yourself, you want to live your life.

  • It happened. My wife has slept with this man she met on line. She told me the s** was wonderful and that she is going to continue to see him. She said that I should just go along for the ride and stop freaking out. She also told me that I should find myself someone to enjoy also. I don't want anyone else I just want her. There is not much I can do except divorce her and start over but I don't want to do that.

  • If she tells you to find someone else it's only to keep you busy and out of the way so she can cheat her brains out.

  • My wife is meeting her friend right now. She told me she was planning on seeing him today. I know she is going to f*** him. I asked her and she wouldn't say anything she just gave me this look. I can tell by the way she was acting that my worst fears are upon me. I just know it. She said that she would be home before the sun sets. Plenty of time for them to do a lot. My heart is pounding and my head hurts. There is nothing I can do now. But wait for her to return a different woman than when she left.

  • Call a lawyer and get a private eye. Then when all your ducks are in a row give her the divorce papers and walk out the door. Try to remember the look on her face .

  • What you can do is walk out the door and get a lawyer.

  • Yeah, you're more tight than you know. She'll be a different woman because she'll have been had by a different man, but also because she'll have gotten on bigger and better meat (that ALWAYS changes a woman), and she'll have started an additional long-term relationship (probably lasting longer than what she's had with you. But most of all, when she comes home, she'll be different in a fundamental way: she'll be pregnant with his child. Get ready, dude. You'll soon be raising a b******.

  • So what? Let her have her fun. Get over it and appreciate it. In fact, encourage them to meet for a f***.

  • You get her phone records to start with. Install a key logger on the computer. Lots of ways to get the truth.

  • She’s not cheating. It’s just fantasy role playing with maybe a pic or two involved. If she’s meeting up with him in person for physical s**, that would be cheating.

  • So what! You don't own her. Let her have her fun. Even if she is actually f****** him so what. Get over yourself and learn to enjoy life more. You men want to control a woman's life. Live your own instead.

  • I agree with this poster. I'm having an affair with a woman on line right now. So far we have met for coffee and went to lunch. But I'm going to get her in bed soon. What my wife doesn't know won't hurt her. If she gave me more s** this probably wouldn't have happened.

  • I cheated for years with multiple women I met online. Sad, lonely, married women whose husbands spent too much time at work and not enough time between their legs. I always took care of my wife's needs, and her needs were never enough for me. She was never willing to have s** more often, or to be more adventurous, or to give up the ass. So, I cheated, and I've never regretted it. I had some of the best s** in my life with those women, and I saved several of their marriages by providing those ladies with a discreet outlet and major excitement. My wife never found out, and we are still together and going strong.

  • Me too! They are all over the place. just looking for some companionship. I love giving it to them and what I get back is so much more than just the p****.

  • It's true: they surrender their entire bodies, their hearts, their minds, and their souls. You get the whole f****** package. And the whole f*** package. Go git sum!

  • Yes, I agree let your wife have her fun. Why don't you try it out. This might actually help your marriage survive in a hostel world. Be glad she's not actually f****** around for real. Think about that.

  • It's harmless. Leave her alone. I know, I know: they call it "emotional infidelity", but that's bullshit. If there's no penetration, there's no cheating. Let her have her fun, and thank God that she cares enough about you to limit what she's doing to ones and zeroes.

  • Why not see if you can catch her in the act?

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