My wife is having an on line affair

I caught my wife talking s** with a man she met on line. She left her PC for a few minutes to go to the bathroom and I walked by and saw this man typing things of the sexual nature. She was conducting this on line cheating. Telling this man how much she wanted to sleep with him and all the things she wanted to do to him. I called her on it and asked if he or she has sent pictures of themselves. She said no but I don't believe her. I think they have. I asked if they have talked and she said no to that too.

It's still cheating to me. I don't understand what she is getting out of this. I told her she has to stop or else I will take steps to see that it does. I don't do this sort of thing to her and I don't expect it to be done to me. This inter net stuff can get out of hand and fast. I have friends who's marriages have ended from what started on line. I'm thinking of hiring a detective to look into what she's been doing know. I'd rather know and be able to get out of a bad situation before staying years and years in a bad one.

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  • She’s not cheating. It’s just fantasy role playing with maybe a pic or two involved. If she’s meeting up with him in person for physical s**, that would be cheating.

  • So what! You don't own her. Let her have her fun. Even if she is actually f****** him so what. Get over yourself and learn to enjoy life more. You men want to control a woman's life. Live your own instead.

  • I agree with this poster. I'm having an affair with a woman on line right now. So far we have met for coffee and went to lunch. But I'm going to get her in bed soon. What my wife doesn't know won't hurt her. If she gave me more s** this probably wouldn't have happened.

  • I cheated for years with multiple women I met online. Sad, lonely, married women whose husbands spent too much time at work and not enough time between their legs. I always took care of my wife's needs, and her needs were never enough for me. She was never willing to have s** more often, or to be more adventurous, or to give up the ass. So, I cheated, and I've never regretted it. I had some of the best s** in my life with those women, and I saved several of their marriages by providing those ladies with a discreet outlet and major excitement. My wife never found out, and we are still together and going strong.

  • Me too! They are all over the place. just looking for some companionship. I love giving it to them and what I get back is so much more than just the p****.

  • It's true: they surrender their entire bodies, their hearts, their minds, and their souls. You get the whole f****** package. And the whole f*** package. Go git sum!

  • Yes, I agree let your wife have her fun. Why don't you try it out. This might actually help your marriage survive in a hostel world. Be glad she's not actually f****** around for real. Think about that.

  • It's harmless. Leave her alone. I know, I know: they call it "emotional infidelity", but that's bullshit. If there's no penetration, there's no cheating. Let her have her fun, and thank God that she cares enough about you to limit what she's doing to ones and zeroes.

  • Why not see if you can catch her in the act?

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