Should I keep going with my faith?

I was born in religious family background, schooled in private religious school since 6 years old and I'm secretary of religion organization in my university.

The problem is that after seeing how constraining my family was and how heavily indoctrinated I am during highschool after certain politically driven religious rally in my country, to the point I asked myself "is religion really relevant?".

I tried to asked this to everyone I can trust in real life but they just like "shut up and believe" and that's contradicting my logic and common sense

Apr 5, 2020

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  • You start with the line "Should I keep going with my faith"

    As I read it, you no longer actually believe. In other words your faith is gone.

    I think maybe your concern is that all your friends and network is connected into that life. You are a part of your tribe.

    It's a scary lonely thing to leave.

    It's a really lonely thing to leave.

    I know.

    I grew up in the church. A main line church. Nothing special. Married a girl I knew from a similar church. Said grace before every meal and prayed with the kids each night. Christmas with the in laws. Ran Sunday school and youth groups. Was faithful to my wife. But we drifted apart. I obviously had mannerisms and behaviours that pushed her away. She froze me out. Eventually she left me.

    I walked away from that church. I felt let down.

    But s*** I am lonely. I'd say most of my friends were somehow connected but I just felt so let down. All the things I had dreamed off were gone so I wlked away.

    Now I am I guess lucky in that I have a job and I can afford a place to live but coming home to an empty house. Cooking for one.

    So I understand staying or leaving is more than believing.

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  • Yes, by all means, you should hold on to your faith. With both hands !!
    !During this tsunami ofitwillsustain you (nothing else can). I don't think you believed for as long as you did as an act of intellectual assent: I think you food that because you had a spiritual connection. With God. Find that once again and maintain it. You will exit on the other side stronger, more sure and more secure.

    Be well, my friend , and God bless!

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