How do you know when they’re *actually* flirting??

I think I may have a crush on a friend of mine. I’ve known them for a while, but part of me thinks that I might be overthinking this all and really we’re just good friends and whatnot

As I was slowly coming to terms with “maybe they don’t see me that way,” they started flirting? And I don’t know how to read it. I’m not sure if they’re jokingly flirting or flirting for real. Regardless, my feelings came back as soon as I was coming down from that “lovey dovey high”

The other day the flirting got more intense, but I still can’t tell what’s going on. I’m too scared to tell them how I feel though because I have a fear of commitment. What if I didn’t understand my own feelings and *thought* I had a crush on them? Idk, it’s all so frustrating mainly because I feel like no one would understand what is going through my head. I want to confess, or at least be more vocal about this, but I’m worried what my friend would say, and what our friends in our friend group would say. I know none of them would mind or think anything weird if it, they’re supportive and I appreciate all my friends because of that, but it’s just that innate paranoia and sort of mental block that prevents me from saying anything at all.

I hate not being brave enough to do anything about it.

Oct 30, 2020

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