I think I hate my wife
I’ve been married for almost 20 years and we dated for 4 years. Over the past year or so I’ve not wanted to deal with her, going places with her is pure drudgery. She’s not a bad person, she was more attentive when we first got together, I think she’s just tired of being married and maybe I am too.
The problem is we are both in our 60’s and restarting would be difficult for sure.
I’d look for a FWB situation but I’m old and getting that is also difficult.
I’m sure this post will get ripped apart, I know I would have ripped on it when I was younger. ( so have fun at my expense)
We have been married for a long time & both are retired. Your wife may feel the same. This may be normal. My partner has no ** interest. If we were younger, I would cheat. Otherwise, my partner is sweet. I think they just don't know.
Get divorced. Life is too short. I wish you luck.