Racism in the US
My first gf was 2nd generation Mexican. I met her family and they treated me very well. I ate their food, learned Spanish and I loved their daughter while our love lasted. We split, but I learned Mexicans are super nice and respectful people, with good sense of humour and delicious cuisine.
My second gf was Japanese - pure. She came from Japan, only to study here, now she is back in Japan. I met a dozen of her Japanese friends and they were all very nice people. Quiet and serious too. They respected our ways and they paid for the education here. My gf was a devil in bad and I will always remember the things she taught me about women.
My gf now is 100% US breed - born here, with Irish and Dutch roots (arriving 8 generations ago). She is lazy and accusatory, her father wants to kill me, her mother is 'body positive' (read = fatally obese) and in bed my gf is ... lacking. Passive and sleepy. She dropped out of her college. She does not work.
Now I hear "Asians are **" and "Latinos are **" and "Blacks are **" so much here. But how about the white **? Are we not blaming on other colours the worst of our own characteristics?
So OK, I am white. And I know decent white people. Somehow, the decent ones never say a bad word on other colors. So I understand the "colour X is **" comes from ** white people who hate everyone but never look into the mirror.
The United States is well on it's way to becoming the South Africa from the 1950s.
So like my ex & I are both white. During our time together we both revealed some of our most intimate and longest held secrets to each other.
She admitted to having lost her virginity at eleven years old to her mid teen brother. I told her about my nine year old girl cousin that I did ** ** to when I was like almost fourteen.
Both of us admitted to being habitual masturbators and feeling uncomfortable around most non-white people.
I know that in my family, some of my cousins that were siblings fooled around with each other. My girl cousin already had experience by the time I did ** to her.
None of this caused our break-up. Her arrests for credit card fraud that jeopardized my own employment was the final straw.
Is it an American culture thing to play around with your sins & cousins or was it just how it played out in my little circle ???
Oh no. I once slept with a Chinese girl and she had bad breath. So obviously, ALL Chinese people must have bad breath.
There are good people and bad people of every race ,color, and gender.
100% correct. From a white dude living in Asia. Would NEVER touch a white woman again. Don't even want to speak to them or even look at them.