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I just finished reading other people's confessions and I already feel like my problem is well within the realm of normal. I really appreciate people spilling their guts on this website. It gives me a lot of gratitude for the way things are going for me.
My confession is that I am in a committed relationship with a kind, cute, like-minded,strong, sensitive man and I've been fantasizing about other men lately. This started happening just after he started talking about getting married.
I suddenly want to look more attractive. I've been paying more attention to the way I dress and do my hair.
I keep running into the same man who lives in my town. It's a very small town. I have sexual thoughts about him frequently. I have sexual thoughts about multiple men.
I want to spend my life with this man (the one I'm with). What's my problem?
I was raised Catholic. Now I'm a recovering Catholic and a Buddhist. I would like to just be able to have a fantasy and feel okay about it...maybe even admit it to my boyfriend.
Some secrets are ment to stay that way. I think the question is "Do I love my boyfriend and want to stay with him?" Insecurity and the loss of trust will blow your relationship to shreds. Trust me a 3-way won't solve anything and men are naturally possessive and don't like to share. Maybe this is a warning sign to rekindle the aspects of your relationship that have gone stale. Good luck hun.
Being honest is fine, but some secrets are ment to stay that way. I think the question is "Do I love my boyfriend and want to stay with him?" Insecurity and the loss of trust will blow your relationship to shreds. Trust me a 3-way won't solve anything and men are naturally possessive and don't like to share. Maybe this is a warning sign to rekindle the aspects of your relationship that have gone stale. Good luck hun.
Its ok to have fantasies. In fact, many men are actually turned on by the idea of their girlfriends having fantasies about other men. A lot of men also like threesomes so if you are also into that, and he's willing to do it, thats a good possibility. Either way, I suggest you talk to him about that. Everyone will have fantasies, thats nature. As long as your not acting on those fantasies without consent your fine. I can almost guarantee you that your boyfriend has also had fantasies about other women.