I met this guy(T) freshman year and we didn't really get that close but we were friends. During sophomore year we started eating lunch together with other friends and we started to get know each other a little more but nothing romantic just a friend getting to know another friend.
A new girl(J) transferred to our school and we had a class together and I invited her to eat lunch with us. I introduced her to everyone and I could tell she liked T so I decided to hook them up. I was talking to him more and her more and soon we all became best friends.
They always had this sexual tension every time they were around each other and after 7 months they went out together. By that time school was over and summer had rolled in. For some reason they stopped talking to each other. I kept in touch with both of them although I had moved to another city 40 minutes away.
Once I realized they weren't going to be together I stared talking to him more about things other than her and playing wing woman. I found out we have quite a lot of things in common.I slowly started to realize I like him. We've been talking as friends for 3 months and my feeling for him have only grown.
Recently my best friends have been fighting and now I'm caught in the middle. So on top of my feelings for him, I have to play peacemaker for them and I really think I'm falling in love with him. I think about him all the time.
He's also a very big flirt so I never know if he's really flirting with me or if he's just being a flirt. I needed a place to get this out. if you have any comments I'd love to hear them.