i had s** with a really good friend of

i had s** with a really good friend of mine .. i'm really scared of where things will go .. i don't want to be with him in that way .. but it's nice how he treats me .. i like it honestly .. it's weird because i'm 25 and the first time i had s** with him it was different .. it was like honestly making love .. it was a great feeling .. but i just don't know .. sometimes he says stuff that are things he just doesn't have to say .. we're just friends .. it's not like i'm his girlfriend .. he fliped out on me and said that's the last time he would say anything nice .. i just don't want to get myself caught up .. especially with him because we are connected in some way .. i asked what he thought and where this was going .. i want to make sure we're on the same page .. i think it's easy for me to get caught up .. he said that we're just good friends and he doesn't want to mess that up and he asked me what i thought .. i said i agreed .. now i don't honestly know if he wanted more or not .. i don't know what to do

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  • Yeah i understand. When you let your guard down there's ALWAYS a 50/50 chance of you getting hurt. But that's the only way to find happiness is to give in. It's a tough situation I know becuase you don't want to loose your best friend on one hand but on the other you can see that you might have something special. You'll never know until you try but trying is the hard part. But I will say if you keep sleeping with him it will soon progress on it's own. It almost always does when s** is involved.


  • i was actually hoping 'siteshrink' would write ..not to say that i won't take any other advice but you are always so honest and give really good advice .. thanks for the advice i've been kind of going back and forth with what i should do .. i'm honestly scared i might catch feelings for him because we are good friends and we do have a mutual respect and love for each other .. i guess i just don't want to let my guard down

  • I was in the same situation. One day my best friend and I were upset becuase she had just broken up with her boyfriend and i had just left my girlfriend. Joking around we decided that one day we'd kiss. So one day we did. This was my best friend. We shared everything with each other. Well to make a long story short now she's my wife. And our relationship is very solid because we were friends (best friends) first. All I'm saying is keep an open mind. It seems like he's giving you all you could want in a man. The s** was more than just s**, you like the way he treats you and you know he likes you for you becuase he was your friend first. It may or may not work out but don't let being friends stop you from trying. And even though he says you guys are just friends right now, things can change in a hurry believe me. I know from experience.


  • Trust what he is saying until he gives you a real raeson not to trust him.
    I see nothing wrong with what you did.

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