My wife doesn't support me, and I want to stop drinking.

I used to attend AA meetings before I met my wife but then we started to hangout and clubbing/partying and drinking so we would have family reunions almost every weekends and would always buy beers, but after 8 years of marriage and been drinking all this time even week days although I don't concider having an alcohol problem cuz I can manage to have only a few and stop and had never disrespected her, she started to get in my case for drinking to much. So I made a recount of times I've had gotten in trouble,said or done stop things while at party's or with friends I finally dicided to stop drinking and attend to AA meeting again.
I to be honest like it there, I get along with people go up an share and release what ever has been creating pressure in my head and I've been sober for about 4 months now and I don't even attend to the meeting daily I just go maybe 4/5day a week and we just started to have problems with her cuz shes kinda demanding me time and its always a dramma when I'm getting ready to leave the house! Which I don't understand why!!!!!
I don't get it. It's gotten to a point where I'm thinking that I'm doing this for my self now and not for my family, but it's gonna suck if this issue gets worse cuz I Siriusly don't feel like drinking anymore.
Maybe I'm wrong and I'm taking family time away as she says, fuckent shiiiiiiiiiiit maybe I should just stay home and eventually star drinking again maybe that would solve our issues!

P.S Thank you for reading.

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  • Do you really still need to go to AA 4 or 5 days a week or is there another reason you go so often? I think she might have a point.

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