Why her

My lover has ended our affair because he has a new girlfriend, but now wants to tell me every details of their relationship.
My heart is breaking

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  • Honey when you are "the other woman' you need to be sexy vulnerable flirty. You my dear have become a social worker or cousellor. You know the person a guy goes to to get advice. You wear boring clothes and drive a small car and look like a house wife.

    If you want him back you need :-
    sexy hair - maybe pony tail or a sharp contrast youn know fringe and straight down at the sides or maybe pixie.
    Lippy - Maybe a fluro pink. Out there babe. Look at me i am sexy! (your gf will be jealous and call it trashy. F*** them you want him and he wants not housewife)
    Sexy clothes - skirt a little too short. Maybe a sun dress that occasionally catches a bit of wind but not too much. You know girl it's all about the tease.
    Sexy shoes - cummon you know you have to have high heels. Flats are really really practical and that means boring.
    Car - ditch it for a motor bike. Perhaps a nice leather mini and some vynal leggings.
    Oh and no listing to his issues.

  • You were a bad girlfriend...be happy that you did not marry this guy.

  • What he's doing is completely thoughtless and pointless. And worse: it's cruel. For your own health and sanity, you need to tell him you don't want to know what's going on with the woman he left you for. I understand why you're allowing it: you want to maintain contact with him in the event he "comes to his senses", but the pain you'll experience in the meantime -- assuming of course that it ever happens -- is not worth whatever benefit you might receive if he returns. It will hurt to close off even THIS communication, I know, and it may even lead him to claim that YOU ended the relationship, but none of that matters in comparison to the heartache that will accrue. Don't let him do this to you, please.

  • Sorry - she is the "other woman". She does not verbally tell him anything. This sounds like the wife negotiating chld access or something. He is doing what men do. Thinking with his d***. Comes to his senses - what crap speak is that. If

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