i'm having an affair with a married

i'm having an affair with a married man. we had a brief affair over 10 years ago, and while we kept in touch for a couple of years, there was no more sexual activity. then about 6 months ago we crossed paths again and started talking and emailing. one thing led to another and we have now engaged in a full sexual affair. we are not just lovers, but confidantes (sharing things about ourselves that nobody else knows). i know its wrong, but i love the way both of us put each other first and quite frankly, i don't want it to stop.

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  • You can be friends with him, but stop having s** wth him!

  • B****'S LIKE YOU MAKE IT HARD FOR WOMEN LIKE ME I WISH I WAS HIS WIFE BECAUSE WHEN I FIND OUT THAT YOUR SLEEPING WITH MY MAN I WOULD KILL YOU AND HIM YOU STUPIED ASS B****!!!.

  • you are a f****** s***! he's banging his wife and banging you on the side. you are like sloppy seconds.

  • I hope when you get married and you think life is perfect, you husband has an affair. How would you feel know b****

  • To the 2nd responder - thank you for being honest. Kinda brutal for me to hear, but true. I'm going to end it, and get some professional help to figure out why I don't think I'm worth someone of my own. Thanks

  • I read your narration with deep sense of empathy. A lot of folks have had enough confusion from a "confused world" to last for a life time! Lack of "personal identity" can bore oneself sick even to having suicide thoughts . Have I once considered suicide in my life? Yes and indeed, many folks you see that walk the streets are full of challenges and pains that were inflicted or innate. In my own case, in my teens , I thought I will not be able to achieve anything because I was abused as a child , lived in a home that always felt like an explosive device was about to ignite. I struggled with these feelings and tried to fill the void via alcohol and "street smokes". I found fake boldness that was transient. I envied and wanted to be like others. I began to steal. Well, I am an adult now, well educated, employed, married, had kids, drug/alcohol/smoke free, and really free from all my demons. How? Yes, I know that this will be the question in your heart. It sounded foolish and dreamlike but it was real. Someone gave me a copy of "New Testament and Psalms and proverbs"; a little blue covered book which could fit into my pocket. It was published by Gideon international. I began to read it from "The Gospel of John" like he advised me. I love reading and it made sense. Well, I may not be able to tell you all that happened to me but I discovered that as I read it daily, I began to be attracted to and talk to the main character in the story; Jesus and it seemed like and old self of mine was dropping off daily. At some point , I was shocked when I was out with my friends and realized that I hadn't touched alcohol in the past 2 weeks! And the stranger thing was that alcohol lost its appeal to me. In fact, it disgusted me. My friends told me that they will "give me just three months" and I will drink myself to stupor like before. well it has been years and I keep getting better; more pleasant than the person I ever tried to be. Jesus is beautiful.

  • H'es MARRIED ! He's NOT putting you first and you are devaluing yourself by settling for second best (married men are EXCELLENT at telling you what you want to hear to keep getting your milk for free, so to speak). Even if he claims his marriage is unhappy or unsatisfying, this is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS...grow up and resolve your own issues instead of being a homewrecker! You're not a REAL woman when you get your fingers into someone elses relationship...!

  • S***

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