I just want to move on

Almost 2 years ago my boyfriend told me that there was something he had top tel me I remember the day before we had a small argument and I thought it would be about that because he was being distant but UT turned out to be d ok merging that after all this time it still doesn't let me be at peace. :-( honestly I love him with all my heart and I don't want this haunting me every single day :-( he told me that they had called him to ask him if he knew so and so (ex) and since he did he would have to go take a DNA test cuz she had mistreated her baby and UT no longer would be under her care ever again. He turned out to be the father. He didn't tell me till after this all had happened and he found out. He told me at the beginning when we we're just friends that they had broken up because she had cheated in him. Well he said he thought it wasn't his blah blah but that I,was a great girl and deserved the best. Anyways... He got full custody and We ended up staying together. Fast forward to today and I,keep waking up crying I keep feeling depressed and I really just wanna get over it :-( I love kids he's a great partner and a great dad but I just can't get over the fact that he,has,a baby with someone,like her.. A fright s*** bad person who would best her own infant etc. I want to not care and just be grateful that she is not close to them. She hasn't give to visit him in,the past yr she has 2 hr visitation rights but she has never cared about her kid. She was on drugs during court and visits a the social worker so it's obvious she should not be called a mom.. I will probably never understand why such horrible ppl are blessed with children. Anyways I wish that didn't matter to ME I wish it didn't cross my,mind how he f***** up,and IM too in love to just wanna quit but it won't stop crossing my mind :-(.. No rude comments please and thanks for any positive feedback/help

Report this

1 Comment

  • newest
  • oldest
  • most replies
  • most popular
  • If he's a keeper and you love him , forget what happened.
    people make mistakes, dont like this come between you two. if he's a great partner you'll be willing to let it go.
    theres not point crying, whats happened has happened. turn those tears into happy tears by thinking about the positives and ignoring the past. you can have a great life with him and that little blessing. or you can let it eat at you..and sooner or later you'll lose both of them. dont worry, things like these happen to everyone once in a while, dont let it get you down. what was meant to happen, was meant to happen, go with the flow.
    good luck to you <3

Account Login
Is this post inapropriate?
Is this comment inapropriate?
Delete this post?