they all changed there minds

Maybe I am missing something. How can a guy that cheats on his wife and betrays his children as well be so wonderful? Then again I still do not understand how people think the GOP have their back. People really are stupid.

You're right: he CAN'T be wonderful and he's NOT wonderful. But she CAN be totally deluded, and she IS totally deluded. And as for politics, I'm thinking of starting a CYNIC party, because both of the conventional ones are such embarrassments and so utterly inept that it makes people want to avoid and ignore the political process altogether.

he cheats on his wife and spends more time with me than his kids because he loves me and my whole body and he wants to be with me more than all of them combined. and i really think we will have our own family together and i will give him such better children that he will love more and spend more time with. and he has promised me that hes not going to hook up with my friends even tho they want him bad and kinda try to flirt seduce him when we are all together but hes only going to be with me

Your biggest problem are your English skills.

Don't pay attention to any of these moralizing morons, all of whom are living lives far less admirable than yours. For whatever it could be worth to you, let me say that I admire you, totally and completely. It's so rare to find someone you can love and do love, and who loves you in return, so you should never ever let that go, no matter what. I'm old enough to be your mother, but when I was your age, I dated (in deep secret) the father of a girl I knew at school. At first, it was just physical: two people attracted to one another sexually, because it was so taboo (for our ages). But within 6 weeks, it began developing into something much deeper, and 6 weeks after that, we were truly in love. He wanted to leave his wife and start a new family with me once I got out of high school, and I loved him sooooooooo much that I wanted that, too, more than anything. Unfortunately, I was very afraid of the scandal we would cause and the hurt we would cause (it was a different time in the world), and so I didn't commit to him. We 'dated' for another year or so, and then to a less degree for several months after that, but then he met this girl even younger than I had been (a friend of his younger daughter), and when he told me he was going to start a relationship with her if I didn't commit, I panicked and didn't return his calls for several weeks because I didn't know what to do and I couldn't quit school to be with him. Eventually, he stopped calling, and not long after that, that other girl turned up pregnant. She said she didn't know who the father was, but I knew. Several years later, when she was out of school, he divorced his wife and married that girl and adopted her baby. And then they had another baby. Both of those children are probably about your age now. And I have regretted letting that man get away every day of my life. I'm married and have 2 children of my own, but they don't have the father they should, and I don't have the husband I should. Don't do what I did.

i really realy thank you for being nice expecially since only maybe three other people were. im sorry about you losing your man so long ago but do you ever think about going back to him now? would you still see him in secret if he said he wanted to be doing you again? maybe its not to late.

Answer this.........if your love is as beautiful and wonderful and true and perfect as you say it is, why do you have to keep it a secret from your parents?

This is ridiculous. This is why women fight all the time over ** me, why cant we work together like men do. I meab we should have common goals like the men do. I mean their common goal is to ** as many women as possible but at least theyre working together

Men* lol

You are absolutely right. Totally 100%. You go, girl!

it seems to me that this girl's goal is to do exactly what you said: ** as many men as possible. i mean she says its love and she's only with this guy but she also said she had been with other older men before and that at least some of them were married at the time so she could be still ** some of them or some other men and just not being honest. it also seems to me that this guy's goal is to ** all of this girl's friends and that is exactly what he's doing. i think he's ** them all and lying to her about it. and maybe i am the only one who thinks this but it also seems to me that all these girls are way too young for what is happening here.

i am only only only with josh and no body else. it wasnt liek that at the very begining but its totaly true now. even tho he lives with his wife he doesnt do her or no body else any more just me. not my friends not his wife not other girls i know or dont know. he only does me and he loves that having only me and having me all to himself. he says that all the time about loving how we are without ** ody else.

I think I have finally heard everything. This is what the OP says in one of her responses..somewhere below: "He says that there is something magic in side my holes because once he goes in there he never wants to come out of them again like ever. when i am older i will stil have that magic in me and he will still never want to get out of it." Magic inside my holes..lol! Really? Is that his best line? Oh girl! And you believe it! You're a lost cause. You only want to see what you want to see. You don't want to hear what the truth is. Hopefully, you'll figure it out one day. You will wise up sooner than later and not put your life on hold waiting for this guy....

This poster is sooooooo right. And by the way, ask your friends if any of them have ever been ** by a guy who used that "magic" line. If they are honest, they'll tell you yes, and that it was your guy who said it to them while he was inside them. If they aren't honest, they'll get embarrassed and not answer because they'll know that you know that HE has been ** THEM. All of them. He's hooking up with ALL OF YOU!

the guy is gonna give you a std or aids

no no we both get checked at the begining.

we got checked so we would know that neither of us would give the other any s.t.d. also that way he could go inside me without a condom and also to ** inside me without a condom. my parents put me on bc pills when i was young and he loves being able to ** in me without using a condom. and for me i love not using a condom with a guy bcuz it is soooooo warm and sweet and so intimate to feel a man emptying himself in you that way. i just love being filled up so much with ** that i cant hold it all in and it starts leaking out and its all going down my legs when i get up and walk or get taken home by him!!!

just because you ** so much better than his wife doesnt mean youre a better person than she is and it doesnt mean hes going to leave her for you. as long as you keep ** him better than she does and as long as you keep ** him as much and as nasty as you do, hes going keep you right where you are.

Well, it's good to see that you finally acknowledged what you are; you did that in one of your posts, where you said you wanted to use your body to get the things you want from this man. That is the description and definition of a golddigger. And that is sooooooo totally NOT love. Thanks for admitting that and telling us all who you really are. And WHAT you really are. Now......you need to admit this to HIM.

YOU KNOW ONE DAY ,,, YOU MEET GOD N JUDGMENT DAY.... THEM WHAT...LIKE MY PASTOR SAID YOU CAN DO ANYTHING ON EARTH BUT JUDMENT DAY,, BE GOOD GO TO HEAVEN ,,,, BUT YOUR BAD YOU GO TO **.....

I am glad you said this because i want to say that i beleive god loves what we are doing to each other even thogh josh is maried and im this age because me and him love each other and it is realy truly love even thohg i am young and he is much older and i feel that everytime me and him are together and every time we talk in secret on the phones without his wife or my parents finding out about it at all. i am not being bad and he is not being bad. we love each other and god loves that because he is love. this could not have happened anyother way and this could not be better. this is love and this is what life is abouyt. this is love.

You know that's the Biggest Lie when you say "bcuz God is love, everything (even sin) is acceptable to Him. Where does it say that in the Bible?

Here's the truth in the Bible: 1 Cor 6: 9 Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have ** with men[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.

The Bible says people like you will NOT go to heaven, that means theres only 1 place left - **. You better repent and read the Bible.

when 2 people love each other like me and josh do it has to be true that god is in it and is a part of that love. I truly feel that and beleive that bcuz it realy is so true.

Just bcuz ur in love doesn't mean God is in it? Just bcuz u "feel" that way? God says to NEVER trust our feelings in our heart. Look what God says about our hearts in Jeremiah 17:9 The heart is deceitful above all things
and beyond cure.

See that? The heart will deceive you into believing a lie is the truth, just bcuz u "feel" it must be true.
The Bible never contradicts itself so if u think its God in your relationship you are dead wrong! God says he would NEVER approve of adultery ( which you are making the husband do by having ** with you) Nor would He approve of ** outside of marriage.

Quit trusting your feelings, they are wrong no matter how "right" it feels. Repent while you still have time and watch this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPvf6dUq0Fo

Heres the God of love video worth watching

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXOWyjB7d24

So perhaps he does leave his wife, and you marry him and have his babies. And then you get old, and you become the old wife. He doesn't want an old wife, so he cheats on you. He's cheated before, he'll cheat again. You keep saying you are different to his wife because you're young and you give him great **. What about when you're older? He obviously likes younger girls, so why would he stay with you when you grow up? He'll stay exactly the same. Save yourself the heartache. Get out while you can.

what you said right now is just the same almost as what my girlfriends said at the begining that he only wants to get with me because of my age and looking even yunger then i am. yes i am realy young thats true but its not the only reson he got with me and staed with me. he tels me all the time how much better i am at ** than girls a lot older than me and how so much better i am at it than either wife he had and he says that there is something magic in side my holes because once he goes in there he never wants to come out of them again like ever. when i am older i will stil have that magic in me and he will still never want to get out of it. we love each other.

Not gonna end well for you. Hopefully his wife leaves him since he's clearly a piece of ** anyway and she deserves better, then you can have him and when he's tired of you karma will bite you in the ** and he'll find another girl to use. You'll know what it feels like.

Ditto. Great post.

Your friends were right all along. The reasons they changed their minds are all selfish and unreliable. You are so totally ALL the things they started calling you when you started dating a married man. You need to end that relationship before YOU get hurt.

saying your not a ** doesnt mean your not a ** your still a ** no matter what age you are

no i am not a **

Everyone has their own idea. I've been in relatonship with married man over 2yrs now, it all started as joke or cheating his wife if i can say that but after 2 months he changed his mind.why? I was available whenever he wanted **, i wanted it too, i was there as friend whenever his wife troubled him, cook for him because his wife went out with her friends therefore she had no time to cook for him, plus i was still is a woman who knows wht to do whe it comes to ** unlikely his wife accouding to him. don't get me wrong i knew he was married and nothing on earth can make me feel he is mine.but little did i know all those i was doing made him turn back to me and forgot his wife. 5 months of our cheating relationship he was already mine alone.as i'm writing now we leaving together for 9 months now, he couldn't keep a wife whom he has no feelings anymore.
back to the topic, this man might be love this girl for some reasons, she is more beatful than his wife, she is so better in bed than his wife,she cares and shower him love than a wife. so men are like kids, to where they cook better that's where clients will go to eat(lol).But girl if he loves you, ask him to prove it, don't be blind by his love and care probably he is pretending so use your body he loves to get what you want.

i really thank you for saying all that for me and suppoting me that much expecially when everybody else here has been cutting me and my man. i really do love what you said about you knowing that you were better for him and that the ** was better than he was getting at home but most of all i love that he really did leave that wife for you!!!! that is soooooo cool and so beautiful and i am so totally hapy for you and your man!! it makes me feel good to see that happening in the world and for you! i know you have to feel just so happy that you won and that the wife is in the past for both of you now. thats the way i want to feel and i know i will feel that eventually no matter what all these people say about that. and its really like super amazing what you said about using my body to get things i want because i been thinking just exactly that for the last awhile and i may actually start doing that. i mean it wouldnt be nolthing i would do as a mean or hurtful thing but just because of the way things are and i know he completely LOVES my body and would do just anything to get at it and get on it and get under it and get next to it so why not. you didnt say but is that what you did and did it work like you planned it? really thanks so much again. thanks!!!