they all changed there minds

Here's my suggestion, pick a date on the calendar a few years from now and make a promise to yourself that if he hasn't left his wife by then it's over. Don't tell him about this (he'll try to change your mind) and stop asking him about it. Just watch, and wait, and see what he does.

This is an absolutely great recommendation, so much so that I wish I'd thought of it. I just hope she'll take it, assuming of course that he doesn't break her heart by ** all her friends before that date comes.

my bet is that he is already ** all her friends. and a bunch of other girls too. (and i agree this is a super idea about fixing a date: kudos!)

Here's a better idea. Tell him you're pregnant. Tell him your parents know and they're insisting you tell them who knocked you up, and that the guy marry you now, before the baby arrives. Tell him you need him to be a father. But you really don't need to do any of that to know how he feels about you, do you? No, you already know he'll bail. Why will he bail? Because he only wants the **. You know it.

i dont know why everybody is being so mean to him when you dont even know him. he is so great to me and even tho all my friends whould love for him to do them all he is not doing them and not even behind my back as far as i know. he is a great man and a great father and he will make the perfect husband to me whenever he leaves his horrible old old wife and his family to be with me. it is going to be so wonderful and perfect because i know how to take care of him (he loves being in me and he says so always) and he totally knows how to take of me and every girl will be so jealous like my friends are being aftter him and me are a couple and have our own kids. he is not using me because he loves me. he cant commit to me right now because of the situation but i know that he will soon. he cant tell me when it will happen because of the situation but i knw it will and as long as he love me more than his awfull wife and make love to me more than her it will be fine and right now hes not even doing her at all hes only doing me. my friends want him but he only wants me.

Ask yourself, and be honest about your reply: Why did all your girlfriends suddenly change their minds about this relationship? Didn't that seem odd to you? Do you really think it's because he's so good-looking and seems (by his pants.....you say) to be so well-hung? Or don't you honestly think that he is hooking up with all of them? Isn't there one of those girls who you think is capable of ** this guy on the side and keeping it totally quiet? If he's even doing ONE of them, it means he's using YOU to get to HER and ** her!

Wake up girl! Everyone else in this comment section sees what this guy is doing. You're blind and you are going to get really hurt. He's going to do whatever and say whatever to make you feel "special" so he can get what he wants. He's going to tell you his marriage is on the rocks and make false promises that you two will be together...Why because all he wants is **. And you're giving him exactly what he wants. He won't commit to you. Why buy the cow when he can get the milk for free. You can't tell your parents that you're dating a married man. Doesn't that make you sad? You meet this supposedly great guy but you can't bring him home to meet your parents. And even your friends don't agree with your choices. They just agree now because they're probably tired of hearing about it. You should ask this guy when he plans on leaving his wife. You think you two are so in love..stop sleeping with him and see how long he hangs around. Very rarely do married men leave their wives.

This poster is absolutely right. You aren't his girlfriend or even his mistress: you're his **. Sorry.

i am so not a **! stop calling me that!!!

**!

not ! ! !

Qhore...
Oh, thats nasty...

she realy realy is nasty nasty nasty

he doesnt love you he just loves to ** you. and he loves to ** all your friends too.

i know my freinds wuold love to ** him because they all say that now that they met him and they can see from his pants how huge hung he is and all them totally love great big ** but hes not ** them which is why there all so jealous of me and what i got with josh and his amazing **.

He is nice to you because he wants your hot tight little **. And he is nice to your friends because he wants all their hot tight little **, too. And he's going to get them. All of them. He's going to have all of you separately and in secret, and then he's going to convince all of you to let him have you all at once. That is going to break your heart, but you're going to let him have it because you think you matter to him. But you don't matter to him. All that matters to him is your **. And all your friends' **. And he will totally do whatever it takes to get all of that **. You are kidding yourself, but you aren't kidding us. We all know what this guy is doing.

He probably has kids your age.

he has 1 child from his first marriage that is about like 5 years older than me. but the other 3 are all younger than me. but i really don't think that age matters and i never did think that way. we all just want to be with the person who makes us feel the best about ourselves and josh does that to me. i always feel perfect when i am with him because we really love each other.

....really.....how can you be so gullible.....he is taking advantage of you!!!

no he isnt taking advatage of me at all. he knows how mature i am and he says that all the time and it makes me feel it. and he knows for sure how good i am at making love and he says that all the time to from the very first time we hooked. he woud only be taking advatage of me if he didnt love me so much as he does but you really cant imagine how much he loves me.

What are you, 15?

Doesn't it bother you that he's married? And that he doesn't leave his wife for you? Don't you understand what he's doing?

it doesnt even bother me a little that hes married because i know he loves me and i know he loves me more than her. as soon as he fell into love with me he fell out of love with her and he doesnt even have ** with her no more at all. not that it matters because she is so much older than me that she preobly dont want ** no more anyways. but eve if she did i am better than she is and he would rather do me than her anyday. yes i know what hes doing. he is loving me and not her. we even talk about starting our family with our own children because he wants that more than what his wife gave birth to for him which are gross kids.

plus hes very safe with **. he always makes sure i am always taking my pill which is even more than my parents ever check which just shows you how much he cares about me.

U are so very stupid...

You're right. She's naïve and incredibly deluded. She needs the guidance of a grownup. Where are her parents when she needs them? How could they turn a blind eye to this?

my parents would freak if they found out the age that josh is because there thinking is just so old fashon and they have no idea how good me and him are together or how great a cupple we are. when i met josh i broke up with the guy i was seeing then and they were glad about that because he was like 13 years older then me and they soooo hated him the whole time but josh is older than him and married too so i cant hardly tell them about josh so i just say i am not dating nobody and that i just go meet my girls. my parents just so totally would not understand the love we have so i have to hide it from them.

The fact that you can't be with him around your parents should tell you that something is very wrong with your "relationship".

the other poster was right: your guy is so totally already doing all your friends. you are a fool.

If I was him, I'd be doing your girlfriends, too. And I would lie to you about it. Sorry. But I would be getting as much of that ** as I could take.

agreed. young ** is the best **. i would be tapping all of it.

all i can say is that josh is not like you and i am glad. he loves me and only me and he would never go get with other girls and expecally not my girlfriends. i mean yes that they all want him now that they met him and im sure they would drop there ** if he even smiled in a ** way but he would never do nothing like that and he only wants me and its all because he loves me as much as he does. the 3 times hes been with them hes been really nice to all of them and bought things but hes never been with any of them seperat from me or alone anywheres or secret. its just mean to say that he wants all there ** that way. he only wants my ** and hes not getting any other ** not even at his house from his awful old wife who has a dryed up old ** if she even still has one. he loves mine.

U must be within 18-25 years old..so naive.
You will learn.

i been with plenty of men for several yearrs so i know all about them and i know how to take care of them and how not to get hurt by them. i guess people always learn but i think i already learned alot and i know more than most. i love men and they totaly love me. all of them.

And then if he leaves his family and poor kids for you, then he will do the same to you too. Don't think your any more special then his poor wife, your not. to him you are just an easy lay. Congrats, your helping destroy his children's lives.If your so great, then why hasn't he divorced her yet?

we only just started dating during the holidays so it hasnt been all that long yet. eventually he will leave her and i will be a great stepmom to his kids even better than there own mom. and him and me will be the best couple ever. i just know that will all happen. i just know it.

Maybe he's ** them too. He's doing it to his wife, why not you too? Don't think you're special....Your friends are just other opportunities.

he really does make me feel real special every time were together and all the time we are. and even when we arent right there with each other hes always calling me and telling me he wishes he was with me and not with his family and expecialy his wife who is soooooooooooo old compared to me. my friends would love to get with him constantly....all of them i swear now that they met him and saw what ive been getting all of this time. they want him so bad they could just pee there pants i swear. but i do not think any of them are getting with him.

Still a **...this won't end well.

i am so so so totally not a **. i am only with josh and not with nobody else and he knows it and he loves it that way because then i can get with him any time he can get away and nobody else is in our way. its love for us both.

And he goes home to his wife....silly girl

he goes home to her because he has to go home to her for as long as hes married to her but doing that makes him sad when he has to leave me. he loves me more.

Boy...you drank ALL the kool-aid didn't you?

And you are how old?

i'm old enough to know how to take care of a man and he tells me all the time how good i take care of him,

I bet shes under 18 bcuz she wont reveal her age.