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Possibly in love with Two Guys..Help??
Hello.. So I dated this guy in high school who I was just crazy about and long story short after about 6 months we broke up and I had serious issues getting over him. Eventually I had moved on and about 6 months into my new relationship he calls me and says hes sorry for everything he had done and how he had hurt me (this is while he had a girlfriend) needless to say as a senior in high school I fell back in love with him. Going into my sophomore year of college I met a new guy who I fell head over heels for almost at first sight, which made me forget about high school guy. After about three months with Sophomore boy I genuinely thought I was going to marry him and then all of a sudden high school boy comes back.. The feelings were so strong it was unreal. That leads me to where I am today, after a year and change of dating High School boy I am very happy. But this past weekend we ran into Sophomore at a bar, he confesses his love to me and for some reason feelings start rushing back. I dont know what to do. I have always been in love with High School Boy, but is that because its what I always thought it was what I wanted? Is it what I really want or am I just going through the motions? When Sophomore came into the bar I got butterflys.. is it because it was something new again? Something I couldnt have?
I am so confused... could someone please help me?
You are young, you have plenty of time and room to figure out what your preferences are; however, in my opinion, I wouldn't be so concerned about tying myself to any one guy before you've had more experience figuring out who you are and such....