My messed up family

THAT I AM TOTALLY CONFUSED AS TO HOW I SHOULD FEEL. I TAKE LITHIUM AND SEROQUEL AND THEY DON'T SEEM TO BE HELPING. THE PROBLEM IS THAT MY MOM IS HANGING OUT WITH HER BROTHER THAT RAPED ME FOR 15 YEARS!!! AND SHE KNOWS IT!!! EVERYBODY IN THE FAMILY HAS MADE IT SEEM AS IF I'M OVERREACTING BY SAYING THAT SHE SHOULD NOT BE HANGING OUT WITH HIM, NO MATTER WHAT!! THEY WENT OUT OF TOWN, CAME BACK, AND HE'S THERE AT HER HOUSE. PUT HIM IN A MOTEL ROOM. GET HIM OUT OF YOUR PRESENCE! HOW DARE SHE HANG WITH THE MONSTER THAT MURDERED ME-HER DAUGHTER-28 YEARS AGO. TO MURDER IS TO ROB ONE OF LIFE AND THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HE DID TO ME!

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  • Get over it? So he f***** you for a few years. That was years ago and your moms clearly gotten past it you need to also. You're an adult now grow the f*** up and stop abusing drugs a major addiction isn't going to help your mental state.

  • You mother is probably very involved with an incestuous relationship with her brother . You mother is f****** your uncle , she has no remorse and no feelings for you , if you do not go to the authorities then your guilty of suicide . If you value yourself you will get help , or eventually commit suicide due to you have no self worth . You can probably kill your uncle and get away with it due to the mental abuse he put you through . If he raped you that many times , I would cut his throat or put a bullet in his head , he is nothing , so your not killing a human , your king a wild animal with a disease . Killing a crazy person is easy and it make you feel better .

  • He has committed an act for which there can be no forgiveness. If one of my brothers raped my child over an extended period as you were I would never again have anything to do with him. Your mother must choose between you and your rapist, she cannot have it both ways.

  • I wish things were better for you, and I wish I could offer hope for their improvement in the future, but improvement seems unlikely. Although we -- at least arguably -- have some kind of obligation to our families, we don't owe them our misery and fear and self-neglect. Sometimes, we just have to "divorce" ourselves from our family, for our own physical safety and our own mental health. That may be where you are, but no one other than you can make that call. While I hope you don't have to separate yourself from your family, it may be the only solution that they've left to you. If you do it, do it quickly and cleanly and completely. Waiting for someone else to change is almost always a futile endeavor. Please take care of yourself, above all.

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