Iam in love with my girl bestfriend

Iam a 14 year old,iam average looking. When i was in 5th grade i had crushes on alot of girls,just crushes.I was a loser.I was the nice guy who always got friendzoned no matter what.But in 6th grade i met a girl,she was beautiful,she had a great personality,she was really sweet and nice to me,i had a small crush on her at first,but then i fell for her. We became bestfrienxs in 7th grade.She was the first girl ive ever kissed on the cheeks,she made me feel different,she made me feel like iam not a loser,i already asked her out 4 times,but shes in love with this othef guy who is a total j*** to her and hurts her all the time,but this guy has a girlfriend so its not happening YET.The girl once told me she would love to be mine,but i asked her out four times,ive never been this hurt in my entire life,it isnt affecting our friendship but its making me weaker.I love her and tbe way i feel for her cant be described.But if its not meant to be,i cant make it happen,its hard to let go,caz shes all i ever wanted. What should i do?

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  • Just what you've been doing. You can't force it and so maybe the best things is that you're her best friend. Think about all the other guys who would like to have that title. Maybe it's not boyfriend, but the best friend position does have its perks. And there's always a flipside to these situation. It could be worse, you could like her from afar and not have the opportunity to know her. A lot of time love is about timing, and who knows what the future holds. Thankfully, there are a lot of other girls out there who like nice guys. Keep looking. And P.S. You're not a loser.

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