I allow my child to smoke
I smoke four packs a day, and have for a long time. My six year old girl recently asked me to let her puff on my ciggy. So I did. She asked to do it repeatedly all day. By the end of the day, she wanted her own ciggy. So I gave her one. Since then, she has been smoking like a champ, about a pack a day. I somehow feel guilty but not really. I actually don't think it's all that bad for her to smoke.
Recently, I cut down to 2 packs a day because I am pregnant--3 months. I just don't think I should deprive myself just because I a pregnant. I expect my new baby will want to smoke too, and I don't have a problem teaching it how to do it. I love smoking more that anything. I don't think I'm all that bad, but my friends say I'm wrong. Any comments?
I should've been more clearer. The twins mum had more than a good idea they were smokers (she told me that herself) after I told her i was allowing the tins to smoke. she said she could often smell cigarette smoke on their breath, in their hair and on their clothing. I was annoyed that she didn't aproach them about their smoking. Nonetheless their natural mother and I have a good rapport with one another and often go to lunch but still if Ren and Lilly decided to back to live with her, I'd be devastated.
Belinda
It is up to them but i think they will stay with u how long have they been staying with u
They have been with their dad and I for little over two tears now.
Belinda
Do not worry u are a great person and i hope u had a happy birthday
It wasn't my birthday, it was Ren and Lilly who recently celebrated their 1th birthday. Their grandparents, natural mum, my sister, their father and I bought them cigarettes together with clothes and we gave them money. My brother doesn't acknowledge their birthday and he has nothing to do with us because I allow Ren and Lilly to smoke although it's uncomfortable for our mum.
Belinda