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I allow my child to smoke
I smoke four packs a day, and have for a long time. My six year old girl recently asked me to let her puff on my ciggy. So I did. She asked to do it repeatedly all day. By the end of the day, she wanted her own ciggy. So I gave her one. Since then, she has been smoking like a champ, about a pack a day. I somehow feel guilty but not really. I actually don't think it's all that bad for her to smoke.
Recently, I cut down to 2 packs a day because I am pregnant--3 months. I just don't think I should deprive myself just because I a pregnant. I expect my new baby will want to smoke too, and I don't have a problem teaching it how to do it. I love smoking more that anything. I don't think I'm all that bad, but my friends say I'm wrong. Any comments?
Belinda,
I forgot to ask, how many PPD does Ren and Lilly smoke?
Declan
Belinda,
There's something I like about your parenting, maybe it IS that you've got badass twin girls in Ren and Lilly.
I've got a son 8 and a daughter 6 who have been asking me to teach them smoke for a few months now. I'm asking you for your opinion on this please.
Thanks
Declan
Teach them to smoke i have two children 6 boy and 8 girl the have been smocking for a while know
What brand of cigarettes are u going to buy your children
I smoke them they are not too strong what brand do u smoke
I'm going to buy them Winfield Blue.
Declan
How are your children know with there smocking and what brand do they smoke and how many ppd and u with your smocking
My daughter aged 6 smokes but my son, 8 hasn't taken to it. I've stopped offering him cigarettes.
Declan
Those are proper ages to have them start. Get them ashtrays and cigarettes and encourage. My daughter always thought smoking so bad but I ensured here smoking is good for you.
Matthew
How is your 9 year old daughter with her smocking how many ppd does she smoke from greg
Pam
Yes we did get s ex and plenty of it at the party but Ren got more f ucks than me. I was blind f ucking drunk and off my ti ts and mum went off her f ucking head at me. When she tried to get really mad at me when we got home, I just lit a cigarette.
Lilly
Lilly,
Did you and Ren get any ** at last Saturday night's party and I don't really think that 16 yo guy has a lawyer uncle. He was just trying to frighten you and as Belinda said he'd be crazy to have you on an assault charge because he sexually assaulted you by grabbing your ** in front of witnesses.
Pam
We went to a 13th birthday party for one of our girlfriends last Saturday night and I got so f ucking wasted I was f ucking worthless. As I was lighting a cigarette a 16 year old guy crouched down behind me and grabbed a handful of my c unt and said how about a ciggie and a f uck. There were plenty of witnesses. I told him to f uck off.
I elbowed him in the face and I broke his nose. He then said his uncle is a lawyer and he was going to have me charged with assault. I was worried a bit so I told mum when she picked us up and she rang him and said if you charge Lilly with assault we will charge you with sexual assault.
Lilly
Pam
there's no doubt that Ren and Lilly concentrate far better when they're smoking and doing their homework. They always have a cigarette burning in the ashtray and they get less agitated when they smoke while doing their homework and studying.
I can't imagine them not smoking when doing their school work now.
Belinda
Belinda,
I saw on another thread you wrote that Ren and Lilly are fine academics in that they finish 1st or 2nd almost every year in their exams and you attribute that to the fact that you allow them to smoke. They smoke in your home study together while they do their school homework and I think you said they put in an extra hours study each night after they finish their school homework
Pam
I can't believe all the hoo-ha that goes on with parents who don't give approval for their kids to smoke although they know their kids have been smoking for quite some time.
My kids, Ren and Lilly came home from a party this morning and told me one of their friend's parents still won't allow this particular girl, also aged 12 to smoke openly at home, yet I know the girl's mother to be a smoker.
I have said quite often that it's my belief that a lot of parents tried their first cigarette before or about the age of ten.
For the record, I allow this same girl to smoke all she wants when she visits the twins at my place.
Belinda
And I told mum Ive got a sore c unt too and a cold. She said it's only a smoker's cough and it won't get me out of doing my share of house chores. Lol 😃
We went to a friends 13th birthday party last night and I drank soon much I was so f ucking worthless. I came home with a sore c unt but I got the sh it f ucked out of me real bad.
Lilly
No we Renae (Ren) and I are twin girls ages 12. We've been having s ex with each other and boys for a few years now. We're going to a girlfriend's 13th birthday party tomorrow night. Our mum will know we'll be f ucking guy and drinking and smoking and she allows that. But she will pick us up at 2am on Sunday because she won't let us be driven home by 17 or 18 year old guys who have been drinking or who have taken drugs.
Do you drink and smoke?
Lilly
Is it bad that i had s** at 13?
Not at all
I miss Cate so f ucking much.
Lilly
Belinda it must have been a real turn on for Ren and Lilly's father when you came home to him in school uniform as you were going to school at the time when you were 17. Did he ** you when you were wearing school uniform?
Paul
Paul,
I have been living with Ren and Lilly's father since I was 17 years of age and I was in my second last year of high school. He was 26 at the time and Ren and Lilly were two. When I went on to teacher's college at Sydney Uni and graduated but I only taught for one year. There was far too many government politics with teaching plus the fact that I was only able to smoke during recess and lunch times what I needed top smoke much more than that.
I then bought in to a hairdressing salon and make up parlour with a girlfriend teacher colleague of mine.
Bellinda