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I'm 22, and my husband is 47. He used to be a friend of my parents, and was a groomsman in their wedding. But my parents ended the friendship two years ago when we got married, partly because he divorced my mom's best friend to marry me, partly because I was already pregnant with his child when he divorced her and when we got married, but mostly because they thought he was taking advantage of me. We had started making love to each other in deep secret when I turned 17 and was legal, but he admits that he fell in love with me when I was 13. We started kissing and playing make-out when I was 14, which also nobody ever knew, but we didn't do anything actually sexual until I became legal. He has only told me about loving me when I was 13 and wanting to do me SO HARD the whole time, my parents don't know that. But what nobody knows, including my husband, is that I made him fall in love with me. I flirted with him and teased him, and I dryhumped him when we used to play make-out, and I even gave him handjobs through his pants until he blew his loads, all to make him crazy to get in between my legs because I wanted to blow up his marriage and his family. I had to wait a little longer than I wanted to while his kids got old enough, but now he is in love, and he loves our child more than the ones he had with Allana, and I don't care if my parents hate us both, because I got what I wanted and I used what I have to get it.
jesus ** christ!!! why are you jumping my **??! i dont ** get it. you think i didnt ** fight? you think i didnt ** care? you think i didnt ** love them? that is so ** crazy and so hurtful. i know it wont matter to you but i cried when i read your words. i still am crying. i lost my babies!! dont you get that? i expected the cheating girl ** to say it was my ** fault that my husband went to her and that my babies loved her more but i wouldnt expect it from a grown man who has lived in the world and who understands it like you do. a woman cant just lay back and let her babies get stripped from her and i didnt. how she took him and how she got the girls is too long of a story for here but you can be sure that i didnt just roll over and let that vicious ** ** me the way she ** my husband.
Well am sorry I hurt your feelings n made u cry. My conclusios are partly from your post. I am in no way insensitive. Misfortunes happen. But am not so sure letting some woman walk away with two of your kids while u keep one is such a bright idea. You dont have to tell us but u have to be true to yourself n the kids. After reading your reply, I still feel that you either havent done enough or arent that committed to re-unuting your kids. You and your ex should know that separating siblings like that is not healthy. It may look and feel like am blaming and criticizing, but am tying to put some fire under your ** so that you can exert yourself more and fight for your kids. Am not saying take them away from their dad but increase face time between you and all the kids.Dont give up, hang in there.
I apologize. i exploded on you and i shouldnt have done that. its Arienne that's to blame for me losing my husband and my two daughters, not you, so i'm sorry. i am oversensitive to blame in general but really when it comes to this situation. although i didn't know what was going on or when (the "when" and the "when it started" are big BIG issues but are both very long stories) i do feel responsible to a degree because my husband knows some things about my past that I cannot allow to go on the record in a court proceeding. if had never done them i wouldnt have nothing to hide. he never said anything in court or in depositions, but he knew i knew so the threat was always there. the larger problem is that he told a part to Arienne and so she used it against me, in private, and she continues to use it against me. i think she may have even known before she moved in with us (part of the "when it started" issue) but there's more to it than that, not least the fact that Arienne succeeded in turning my daughters against me without even using that ammunition. if i weren't in the middle of this, i would have to admire her cunning and her guile and her planning skills (she worked this out over a very long period of time, and did it brilliantly). long story short, i'm sorry i yelled and i hope you can forgive my selfish and rude ranting. i should reserve that for that ** Arienne who is living with my husband and raising my sweet daughters.