50/50 Chance?

I have been friends with this guy for about three years and we grew pretty close. Last year I began having more feelings for him and eventually asked him out last fall. At the time he was going through a rough patch in his life though so we didn't go out. For a short period after that our friendship was a little rocky because neither of us were sure what would be crossing lines or not; and before the dynamics of our friendship had always been knd of flirty. In about a couple months, things seemed to be back to normal. Then shortly after that he started flirting even more than he had before any of this happened. Towards the beginning of summer; however, he started distancing himself. I think this was because he was getting ready to move away and maybe thought it wouldn't be as hard to say bye to people if he was distant. I never got closure in knowing what was going on with us before he left and I went on a trip to Europe. Summer vacation passed and we didn't contact each other at all, and I got over it (at least I thought I did) and I even saw someone over the summer. Then this semester started and I found out that he actually ended up not moving and was going to still be involved in things where I would see him a lot. I didn't really think anything of it at the time, but he had asked a couple of my friends about how I was doing (and apparently getting nervous whenever I came up in the conversation). I still tried to ignore it, but then all the times I've seen'spent time with him so far he has been acting nervous. He also asked one of my closest friends to have coffee but they're not really friends. On the coffee "date" he mentioned that he was dating someone and when my friend tried to ask questions like what her name was, what she is like, etc he suddenly got really nervous and just kept answering "I don't know". Is he nervous because of what happened last year and thinks that I still like him? Or does he like me now? My feelings are back now but I honestly don't know what's going on with him and I don't know if I should say anything (let alone what I would say". I think it's a 50/50 chance...

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