Step child..? Merging families..? What does this mean!!
I have a stepson who has down syndrome. He doesn't ever listen he is absolutely impossible to be around. Every single time he is over here I try to hide away in my room because he is always being as annoying as possible. He always whines. ALWAYS!! It never ever ever stops. He whines and screams and I just can't take it. I am almost 8 months pregnant with my first baby. Very exciting times. However my significant others child is sort of stripping a little of the joy away. I don't want him ANYWHERE near my daughter.. EVER. He will poke her eyes out or try to pick her up and throw her or sit on her. KILL HER.. in other words. I keeeo trying to find ways to bring it up to his father without it coming off too offensive. I told him that he needs to stay with his mom and step dad for a few months after I give birth cause I am not going to let his son hurt my child. With no sleep and a new always hungry always fussy baby the last thing I need is the constant stress of having his dman kid run around being a j****** screaming and waking her every time I put her down for a nap trying to climb on me and pull her off of my breast when I am feeding. I mean I do NOTTTT want to accept him into my family. We are struggling so much financially because of the amount of money his father has to pay a month just because he can't function in society. When he mother and step dad make WAYYY more than us. He is walking around in designer brand clothes at 8 years old and I don't even have shoes with soles in them because all of our extra money is going towards putting FOUR GOD**** cars in his mother's driveway manicures on her nails Victoria secrets finest on her body. I feel so awful for having these feelings of resentment toward my stepson but I just do!!! I just want his father to sign his rights away and be fully committed to OUR family. He doesn't need us anyways. He has two parents in the other home and lots of nice nice things. I think about leaving on a regular basis and UGHHH!! I don't know what else to say..