Incomplete

I feel like I am incomplete. I am only 30 years old an cannot have children. It will never happen for me. I see all my friends from high school like two or three children and while I am happy for them I am also horrendously jealous. I fee like less of a woman because I cannot do this one thing our bodies were designed for. It is just not fair.

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  • I wish I couldn't have kids soo wouldn't have to worry about getting ppl pregnant

  • Do stuff with ur own life...why do u need a kid to feel whole those other ppl close so many doors for themselves and choose the path that society expects us to travel often times boring monogamous s** boring job just predictable and then their kids do the same damn thing in a already way overpopulated world

  • Adopt a pet! Pets are good companions. My cat is like my child. I have to care for her every day.

  • I'm a guy who can't have children. I know how you feel. I get jealous too. But we weren't put on this earth just to reproduce. We were put on this earth to live. So live your life and deal with it. It doesn't make you any less of a woman. There are men out there who either can't have or don't want children. Or you can always adopt. So many unwanted children of all ages need good homes. Just because you can't get pregnant doesn't mean you can't be a mother.

  • Yes, having this issue in its proper perspective is key.. That stated, it is just feeling inadequate or incomplete due to whatever condition you may have that keeps you from childbearing however keep in mind that an equally important function your feminine body was designed for as well as your total function as a woman is keeping a man sexually satisfied for as long as he needs to be.. Furthermore, perhaps you haven't found a man that produces s**** fertile enough to enact conception at your core girl.. The point is that a man has the right to keep trying if you indeed wish for a pregnancy. He'll tell you when to submit & you should obey him..

  • Adopt some older children. Know their histories before you adopt them.

  • Trust me this could be a blessing in disguise; have you read any of the comments on here about people HATING being parents. If you still feel this way after knowing for sure you can afford to raise a child; you could akways adopt - there are plenty of kids who need a home out there!

  • Trust me this could be a blessing in disguise; have you read any of the comments on here about people HATING being parents. If you still feel this way after knowing for sure you can afford to raise a child; you could akways adopt - there are plenty of kids who need a home put there!

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