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Men...........there's just no understanding them
I'll make this as brief as I can. I'm 24mwf, 5'10', educated, very social, natural blonde, thin, extremely fit, DD cup (via an augmentation that was supported and paid for by my husband), and men always check me out. My husband is 39, good looking, well-hung, a hard worker and a very good earner. We had what I thought was a good marriage until about 5 months back which was when I learned that he'd been cheating on me for almost 2 yrs with his secretary at work. He denies that, but I don't trust what he says anymore. What confuses me is the fact that she's a 45yo bleached-blonde piece of trailer-trash with several tattoos who is 5'1" and weighs probably 220lbs. She's been married five times and lived with god-only-knows how many other men. She has five kids strewn all over 2 states, though they are all grown now with the exception of a sixth child born in January of this year (I have good reason to suspect that my husband is that baby's father). If you looked at her and then looked at me, you'd be confused too, wondering why my husband would ** that instead of ** this. You'd wonder why he would do that even once, much less for 2 yrs. I guess I will just never understand men.
From the OP: I am completely amazed by the level of response to my post. I really thought that very few people would even read it and that NOBODY would reply. Since there are numerous comments, I feel like I should provide input on them, though I may only do that on one where there are other response of a similar sort. Thanks ~ OP
You are not as good of a ** as this other woman simple
Just by looking at her, at the way she walks, the way she carries herself, and the way she dresses (provocatively), my guess would be that she's quite good in bed. She's obviously managed to lure five men into marriage and dozens/hundreds more into bed. But I consider myself quite good, and I have the body that most men have wet dreams about. I doubt she's much better than me, if at all.
Honey, she makes him feel good ! You dont ! Simple as that !
..shes giving him rim jobs every time she sees him......you arent........thats why he goes there......
This is possible, I admit. I have frequently been on the receiving end of a **, but I stopped giving them while I was still a teenager. Men's ** are not as sweet as women's. No, thanks.
Ur right mens aholes r not nice its not bout that r she being better than u its that he now has to ladies to ** and he likes the change
He's not cheating on you with her. He's cheating on her with you. Wake up and smell the ** . . . . he's got her smell all over him.
Agreed. This is one of the reasons I believe he's cheating. Sometimes he comes home smelling like he's been drenched in ** juice. I think she grinds on him at the office, while he's fully dressed, smearing that filthy, greasy ** all over him, just so she knows I can smell it when he comes back to me. It's gross. She may also be a squirter (I'm not) and that could contribute to the filthy smell.
He doesn't love her, or else he would have already left you. He just likes tappin' that hot and nasty ** of hers.
The secretary used the baby as her meal ticket. You know she's milking that little infant ** for all it's worth. The poor guy will never be able to get away from her, or ever stop paying.
It seems likely that this is completely true. Sadly, I think my husband may have walked right into that trap, even knowing her history. I know she's used it before because she told me she had the very first time I met her. She was proud of having blown up at LEAST one marriage by using that technique.
Don't you know that men will stick their ** in anything with a hole?? He wanted new ** and is tired of yours.
Even though he cheated on his first wife with me for several years, I have always thought he was more discriminating in his sexual escapades. But Brenda (that's the secretary) is no prize by any means or standard. She's just trash. Total ** trash. Right straight outta trailersville. Skanky doesn't begin to describe it.
I'm sleeping with a married man. I'm technically heavier than his wife but I'm more feminine and attractive. Not to to imply she's ugly, because she's not. His wife is boring in the sack and doesn't put out enough. It's as simple as that. I'll do just about anything he wants and whenever he wants. I ** him every chance I get, swallow no problem, ** s'ex absolutely, and so on. Oh and my b'oobs are larger than hers and real (though hers are real too). Also I get to be the fun playful one. His wife is Debbie downer. But I'm not stealing him. I just like borrowing him.
I'm more appreciative of your addition than any other here. You told me two things that I hadn't thought of and confirmed one other. The new are (1) the frequency of oral ** (my husband LOVES a BJ, and can't get enough) and it being in FAR greater numbers and in many more fun places than the norm, and (2) that you offer an environment that is entirely about the pleasure of love-making and not about the work of relationships. The confirmed one is that you don't intend to take your man, but simply use him. I hope that is what this ** is doing with mine. Thanks so very much for your input. I really GENUINELY appreciate it and am grateful for it.
I lost my husband to one of these nasty fat trailer-park ** almost 10 years ago. They are the meanest people on the planet. You couldn't imagine what this vicious tramp did to me and my family just to get what she wanted. Get out now, before she starts to level her aim directly at you. I don't care how big his ** is, your husband isn't worth the trouble that's coming your way.
The other woman involved here is totally capable of doing exactly what you described. TOTALLY. You can see in her eyes that she is pure evil and completely self-centered. She would do anything to get what she wants, or get someone out of her way. I hope I'm wrong, and that Brenda is like the woman above: only using my husband and not intent on stealing him. Thank you.
Looks like this ** has won she must hav some talent you dont have
^Totally!^^ She gives up the **, and either you don't give it up at all or you do it as a favor. It's all about that **!!
I do **. I can't say I love it, but I can say I'm really good at it.
Given her body weight, her ** are probably about three times the size of yours. And her ** could be about five times the size of yours. Maybe more. What your husband is doing, and what he's after, is perfectly understandable. She's not GOING to take him from you, she's already TAKEN him from you. One day soon, she's going to call you and tell you precisely that. She'll begin by confirming your suspicion that the baby she had in January is your husband's, and that she's pregnant again with his second child. Then she'll say he's there at her house........and he won't be coming home.
If it's going to happen, I really hope it doesn't happen the way you describe: that would be heartbreaking (even though I wouldn't be alone very long, I assure you all). I have to say, though, that your guesstimates are almost exactly right (three and five): don't know how you could get so close, but you're almost right on the money. I never thought of my husband as being that "into" gigantic **, much less the big round **, but that would explain his attraction to the **.
....if she's already got his baby, she's already won........
This is my greatest fear. Yes, this could easily be true. If that baby is his, he will leave to be with her.
Overly pretty chicks think they don't have to try in bed hate to burst ur bubble but it's not true
On the contrary, I make a serious effort in bed. And my results have been pretty remarkable.
Women from trailer parks are EXPERTS at taking other women's husbands. And, as you've already experienced, they ALWAYS target well-to-do men that are married. What you may not know is that they actually PREFER married men, because they love the idea of enticing someone to get in between their legs, rather than the legs of his wife.
......plus......they can use the infidelity to blackmail the poor schmuck.........
That's a crime btw its extortion I'm pretty sure
....blackmail doesn't always involve money..... ;>
^That's true^, but it's about money here. The secretary tells him, "I need financial help raising this child we made, and I'm asking you nicely. Please don't make me go to your wife and ask for money from her." That's blackmail, sure as any other, but it's not extortion and it's not a crime.
I'd seriously doubt that this chick hasn't cheated either even if she doesn't admit it
I "cheated" on my husband during the relationship we had before we got married (dating and then living together), but during that time he was married to somebody else, and I was clear with him: as long as he was married to and sleeping with his wife, I wasn't going to keep myself for him. But ever since he put a ring on it, I've been faithful. It's been reeeeeeeeeally hard (you could not POSSIBLY imagine how hard), but I've never strayed in four years of marriage.