My wife's boss

Too the people that are following.my life I think it's important to mention about two years ago my wife had major surgery that saved her life. She soon had to go on to major hormone therapy. She always loved ** and now is filled with these. She probably has more testosterone than me and loves it. That also accounts for her fit body. She works out half as hard as me and gets twice the results.
It seems she has the drive of a 20 year old man in a gorgeous mature body.
She only wants ** and big **.

It is not the surgery she is just a **

Maybe but a beautiful one. Like she sometimes says a guy will do it any. Cancer he gets married or not. Why are women whores and men not.

I knew my wife was starting an affair with her boss when she started going to work without a bra. She had never done that before. She denied it for 3-4 months but eventually she confessed it.

Why do all these wives have affairs with their bosses. My wife sleeps with other men now but it started with her boss.
And she still has an emotional attachment to him only.
Is it some form of submission to them or feel of control?
Is your wife still doing him

My wife is still carrying on the relationship with him, although I'm not in the marriage to her anymore. I had to divorce her, for myself and for our children: I just didn't believe I had the strength to cope with the overwhelming humiliation of what she was doing. I'll be candid: I thought divorcing her was the right thing to do. I honestly did. But after reading your thoughts and feelings here, I'm not sure I was right. Your reasoning for remaining married to such a woman is irrefutable: If we love these oversexed women, we should want what's best for them and what makes them happy, and we should deal with, and assist in, the ways they get that. I now am starting to think that I was being selfish, when I argued for a couple of years that SHE was being selfish. In addition to that philosophical distinction, I can now see how such a woman could be AROUSING the man she is "mistreating": your story is the instruction manual for that sort of thinking. I have always heard of cuckolding, of course, but that's not what this is, I think. I think it's something bigger and more profound than that, and I think it is more beautiful. However, my wife was not as intelligent as yours, so she could not (or at least did not) find ways to shape and sharpen my humiliation: your wife must be an amazing intellectual. [More on the rest of your reply below.]

As for why so many women are involving themselves with their male superiors at work, especially in this age of feminism and supposed enlightenment, and in the face of sexual harassment rules and HR regulations, I think you are correct: they crave the sort of submission that once prevailed in the workplace and they want a man in their lives -- without the restraints of social elevation of women -- to take charge and just ** them. Naturally, most women (like your wife, and CERTAINLY like mine) also like the big big BIG **, and if they happen to find a ** like that at the office, they'll go after it without regard for whether or not they are running afoul of rules against fraternization. They know the affairs are wrong -- morally, socially and even legally -- but that taboo makes the relationships more appealing. In my situation, though, if my wife had found this guy in another setting she still would have let him do her and would still be doing her. It's a complicated social situation, but the sexual part is simple: these women want to be on a big **, so they go get a big **, and they let everyone around them sort themselves out. It's all about their baser urges. I thank you for your really excellent page here and I wish you well.

I can understand you getting a divorce. That is the norm. I was just afraid in the beginning but now it's a combination of that an constant arousal and so many different emotions. She is a master manipulator. She has three of us on her web ready all for different ways she wants to be satisfied, now that I think of it. I apparently being the low man on the pole. Just there to serve her daily needs. Yesterday was cleaning both our and docs condo. She came home from work and made me massage her all night and finish her orally while her friend was texting ** pics and they were rating.
She showed me one and said I never knew what a real one looked like.
That is not easy to deal with but it and she are so hot. BTW. Most of her friends cheat in one way or the other. Mine just does it openly. One was divorced thwives for it and is already looking to do it on the third.
Good luck in your next relationship. There is no such thing as the perfect one we used to believe

One day I told my wife that it’s okey for a married person to feel attraction for other persons different than their spouse but what’s not okey is to have an affair with them. For my wife my words were liberating. She told me she had been feeling guilty for fantasizing about other men. I didn’t ask her but she volunteered her ongoing fantasy about her boss. Little I knew she was going to work without a bra because of him or that she started wearing thongs for the same reason. She even confessed she got a wearable ** she uses at her desk in secret.

....so my wife is involved with her boss too........she says she needs bigger ** than what i have so thats why she goes withhim.......she says hes the biggest ever and he ruins her with it...........she says she has to havehiim........she says she loves me but she loves him too and has to get with him.....she says he fills her up and i never make her feel full........she says she needs to feel filled and he totally fills her up without even putting all of it in her......she says she needs to get filled up......filled up......

Do they do it all the time and at work and does she tell you?

.....it mostly happens at work..........andalmost every day.......sometimes she tells me when he does her but sometimes not.......i think it depends on how mean she wants to be as to whetherornot she decides to tell me about it.................

Yes I understand. She probably sometimes wants to humiliate you. It must drive you crazy. It does to me

YES! thats exactly it........sometimes she just wants to humiliate and when she does it it turns her on so much! but sometimes.....she will also come home from a date and not say anything......not even that she was on a date....but she will just come in to thehouse and come up and hug me.....and i will be able to smell the ** on her neck or hair or clothes .....or even on her breath.... and she knows i know. it is so hard to smell that and know hes been ** her and that i cant do anything to stop it. . . ...... it does drive me crazy but i admit that it also is arousing to me....and i dont think sheknows that......but mostly she loves the idea of humiliating me and showing who controls the marrieg.....

Last night I met my wife at the bar where we have a drink and eat some sushi. We were there for a while when someone came in and sat next to us. My wife was talking to me about her martial arts and the guy chimed in and said he was a black belt. She turned the stool and talked to him for an hour. She was pretty drunk and moved really close and they had a long kiss. She said let's go turned and handed me her pocket book to carry. When they got this car he grabbed her and just went crazy kissing her. She had his leg between hers and pushed back and forth really fast and hard. Finally I could see her body shake.
She dragged him in the back and finished him. The whole thing took 10 minutes. There were some people sitting by the window watching... . I just stood there holding her pocket book. My wife is so beautiful and can get any guy in 2 minutes

I know you are bothered by the kissing almost as much as the **, and I completely understand the hurt that causes (I've experienced it in my own marriage, a few years ago, so I know), but I'm wondering about the hour before the kissing started inside the bar, before they went outside and created that spectacle you told us about. Were they talking **/nasty to each other during that hour, or just flirting, or really only just talking? Were they doing it in part to make you humiliated, seeing them obviously working their way toward a sexual encounter........right under your nose? Were they that blatant?

Well he was sitting next to us and was listening to us talk. He chimed in and when wife turned to reply she paused raised one eyebrow and started talking to him. In one minute she turned and faced the back of the chair to me. The conversation was serious about their martial arts. He started complimenting her body and looks more and more. Everytime she loved the chair closer till her face was about 4 inches. That's when he reached over and basically stuck his t in her mouth. Right there. I am sure she liked humiliating me but he was probably just turned on . He knew as soon as she turned her chair she was interested.
I didn't say three words till she had him and we left. I was there to pay for their drinks and hold her pocketbook

Well she went with her doc to the condo from 4 and came home after four hours. She said three of the four was **. I was in bed when she came home. She climbed on me covered my face and pushed down so hard I could hardly breath. Then laid down and made me massage her to sleep. Before she fell asleep she asked me how he tasted. Very humiliated. Only him tonight. came

She is makeing a effort to let you taste the seed of the men she is dateing. As a woman who cheats upon her husband that is very very powerful to me to see. I dont have that kind of nerve in my own relationships but I would love tobe haveing my own husband eating that from my mouth or my ** or my sphencter in just the ways your wife have shared that with yourself. It is so intimate. So loving. So strong. Please tell how you feel of this? Do you likeing that she does that and do you like the flavor and tastes of all of it when she shares? Or do you more so only like that she forces it upon you to do? It is a beautiful thing she does for you.

I think it's the way she forces it on me. This beautiful mature woman forcing me to taste how her men pleasure her. When she climbed on me at first I struggled bout after a few seconds I wanted it to never end. A few times I couldn't breath for what seemed like forever. I didn't care. If I died under her pleasing her I wouldn't care. I stayed aroused for so long. Her mental strength and the things she holds over me that forces me to let her totally control me is humiliating but I accept it and love her more for it.

Yes yes I see it how you said it about forcing you and how much you are enjoying her to that!! OMG! So so so yes sexually wonderful!! With her control to you by her mind and how strong she is in used it against you. What things does she hold over you? Is there a secret she knows or does she threaten to tell your all family or your children that she is dateing these men and even picking out strangers to have her love with? And would she tell any out of them about how you get erect ONLY when she is being such a ** for the men in front of your face? AS you can see me I am wishing that I could be such a woman and to control my own husband so hard. So hard.

In the beginning she had some personal emails I sent about work that would embarrass me in front of customers and fellow workers and she has all my email contacts. Now she has acumulated pics. One has me standing facing the corner naked and the other has me cleaning her lovers...Off her chest and pics of what she calls my **..
Even though she does threaten me she can be sweet and caring as long as I am good and please her. For instance last night while she watched 3 episodes of thwives of Atlanta she had me give her oral the whole time. She watched and ate and got up to per and came back and put me down there again. It was ty he most ** thing I did.

It's noon now and I bet she has already banged the boss a few times. I think then she'll go home and meet the gym guy there and have him ** her a few times in your bed before you get home. Then she'll go out a meet a new guy and give him the three-hole treatment all night. ** heap.

I think I am going to have to agree with the others. I think you are going to have a very bad valentine day.

My guess is that for Valentines Day she won't see either of the doctor or the man from the gym but instead she'll go out to a bar and let herself get picked up by a stranger with a humungous **. He will be so big and will love her so strong and so good and so so so so hard that he will make her his Valentine and then he will make her his property and then he will take her from you altogether. Have a nice day.

You were off by one day

I'm certain that both of her men are going to want to spend Valentine's Day with your wife. In bed. Probably in YOUR bed. **. How will she deal with that? Jesus, that ** of hers must be an amazing thing!!!!

I don't think so. The gym guy is just a good looking stud with a big one. She has a relationship with the doc and he is back.
She already told me to go and buy him a gift. I have to pick him up some polo Cologne. Her favorite , although I never knew tyatbtill now.... Also an expensive pair of Ray Ban glasses . I also need to wrap them.

..i think your being too optimistic...women like her (and I know because i am one of them) love all the attention and affection of valentines day.......and shes goingto want to get laid by all the men in her life that she can........shes going to want both of them inside her...

My wife took me to watch the Superbowl game at the bar. She was not in a great mood since her doctor lover went away for the weekend on a seminar and she could not go guess to a family get together.
When we got there her friend she did from the gym was there. She didn't tell me he would be there.
She got on the booth with him on her side and I sat across. We ordered food and drinks. After the second half she was tipsy. She moved closer to him and unzipped his pants and while they watched the game she used her hand on him. I could see his face when he came. She reached over and whipped her hand on me. After the game was over when we left I had to pay the check for all of us. I hate her but I am so turned on at the same time. I am not sure who she likes better. The doc or this guy but I know I am number 3

Does he produce a lot of **?

He does. When she wiped it on me it was all over my neck and upper chest. He just watched her wipe it on me and drank his drink. I hate her but she is so ** hot to watch that I love her..Or ii...
The craziest is when she deep kisses in front of me

Jesus she is really really really really really a ** beast isn't she?

She must of been on fire to give him hand jobs throughout that game. I wish I had a woman like her in my life. I would not care if she was somebody else's wife either. I would just do her every which way I could.

She really is just gone crazy. At 50 she is just into ** and herself. She had no trouble with her boyfriends because she is beautiful and good in bed. She is Asian mixed.

Did any of the wait staff or other patrons of the bar notice what they were getting up to? Did anybody say anything? Were you hard the whole time she was servicing him? Did you tell her? Did he eventually reciprocate by ** her?

I was too hard. It hurt I was that hard. And uneasy, anxious, and so hard I couldn't even explain it. The waitress did come over and my wife never moved her hand from under the table. He ordered a drink. She knew but acted like she didn't. There was no reciprocation. I think he was showing me how dominant he is. He just sat back came and kept on drinking. My wife's face was so turned on. She.just stared at his face when he came. He is better looking .Taller more cut.

I understand about the dominance, yeah he was showing you who owns her by sitting down with the two of you and using her to please himself right in front of you. In fact, it seems like every time the two of them have been together, it's been with you there, is that right? At the gym (or the gym parking lot) the first time, and then on the old road, and now at the Super Bowl party? He wants you to see that he's in charge and he's going to take what he wants even if it belongs to you? Your wife seems like she's responding to his taking control of her and that she loves him doing that.

Do you worry about STIs?

My wife isn't having a affair with her boss she's having it with my boss. It hurts so bad to know what they are doing to each other when their alone and they both mock and humiliate me with it. At home she is always reminding me how good the ** is between the two of them. And at work he always tells me about the last time he did her and when he's going to be doing her again. The things he says to me about their love life are just the filthiest things you ever heard in your life. I never even knew she was into ANY of that or that she would ever let somebody do that to her.

Wow that's tough. You have to see him every day. At least I don't . But my wife does. She spends more time with him than me. 10 hours a day at work.
Does your boss tell other workers. My wife's does not but they know by the way he acts

No so far he hasn't told nobody that him and my wife are involved in a affair. I hope he doesn't do that ever but he knows that scares me so who knows what he might do to keep me in line. None of my coworkers knows about what they are doing to each other but one woman noticed them talking privately during the offices chirstmass party this year and she asked if that bothered me (she knew he used to be involved with another woman there a long time ago). I told her that I trust my wife which was a lie although I guess I sorta do trust her to do whatever pleases her sexually. It hurts so so bad when I think about them to be together so I just try hard not to think about it because I can't stop it. I have never saw her happy in the way she is now or acting and dressing so ** as she is now. It turns me on until she tells me its all for Brett. She just smiles and tells me just that: "its all for Brett". God only knows what she does when their alone.

So not only does he have your wife. He has your paycheck. If you give him a hard time he can cut off your money.

Yes thank you for understanding that right away. I work in an industry where jobs are hard to find so if I quit or he fired me I'd be in deep **. And he reminds me of it and holds it over my head with him to be able to get with my wife. So not only does she remind me that he's way better hung than me and any man shes ever ** she reminds me of how rich he is and how much better he is than me in every measurement. I hate this. And I know you do too.

Her selfishness and adultery are going to destroy your marriage. Then they're going to destroy your family. Then they're going to destroy you. Get out.

At this point I may have to. There is no going back with her .Either I continue or leave. Or she feels she will be better with her boyfriend

She did both men **. She likes the feel of real skin in her. Although she said she wants to do it once with the doc to show me how much he comes

Does she make them use protection or does she let them ride **?