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Manipulation as work
One of my co-worker has been acting weird. Her face represents loath, jealousy, and enviousness. Ever since we've been working together her behavior has been telling me "she doesn't like you and doesn't like to see your face." I'm trying to make this better. In fact, every time she does something to make me feel inferior, I won't say a single word. I've been minding my own business and making progress at work. Just like I wanted.
In order to prevent jealousy, I've been complimenting her and making her feel as equal as me. I don't think less of her. In fact, I never did. I'm still trying to make it better. I haven't given her benefit of a doubt about our professional relationship. She probably thinks I don't notice her behavior.
There are so many people doing me wrong, but to prevent it from happening I've been keeping everything to myself and minding my own business. But am I right to avoid this situation without discussing it with my boss? I don't know. We both are new. In fact, she came after me. I'm trying to compromise. They say, you always have to compromise to stabilize any relationship whether it's personal or professional. However, she wants to take over everything at work. Doesn't like me around her. Her manipulative attitude used to affect my self-esteem, but I've been pretty confident with my work lately and her manipulation hasn't worked. I'm making very less mistakes, which is keeping her quite instead of fault finding.
I'm not quitting my lovable job just to satisfy others. Especially for those who're doing me wrong.
Doesn't sound like you have much of a problem.
The problem is already solved. It doesn't seem like a problem, but it becomes a problem when you're at work and realize team work is important and essential. My work is a bit different and can't be done individually.
The problem is this hysterical ** lunatic thinks he/she knows that another person is jealous of them; maybe, this poster just likes to always be the victim. What crust, "I think this person is jealous", maybe they can see thru your manipulating ways
You're a ** self promoting whiner. Do you really think you're boss wants to hear that someone isn't making you feel special - get over yourself
Your boss, not you're boss
Stop the madness by not contributing to this site so much. My god do you do anything else besides write stories for this site?