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WHERE TO NOW?!????
My husband and I have been together 3 years through it all. Recently we've been struggling with economic situations. He just landed a job with his hard work but the pay isnt too good or too bad he works hard in the sun all day but he has a associates in welding. The job hes working he gets good money just not enough to pay bills. Typical doesn't want me to work or at least not yet. A few months back he had a interview for a company that is I'm another state, at the time he wasn't working but we have our savings. We risked it all going to his interview the company has great benefits from what I've researched it's hard to get into the company. His interview went great got a offer In he spot and the 12hr drive was worth it. Now it would take awhile as your can see to start since he had to find something else (the job he has now). The lady who helped him with the job hes working know told him shed keep him 100% busy avoiding lay offs. Meanwhile the out of town offer called him a week ago saying they would be ready for him in December. He doesn't want to let the money opportunity go here but the benefits of the out of town. Job either he constantly asks me what do I think, in my head I just have always supported him no matter what. When I fell him what you think is best he gets upset. But when I tell him the money will come get the out of town job it has great benefits for our future he dissipates to make a choice. We have 3 months to make a decision we aren't sure of . what's the best thing stay here in our hometown and build a family and foundation with the lady keeping him busy with work without having to worry about lay off time here or leave to the other side of town starting from scratch but over time we would be economically stable. Btw we have no kids....
Have you tried less spending of HIS money? Should help with you guys financial situation...
Did you get a part time gig?
Aren't you working? If not, a household is better to run if both parties are employed, not just one. In the 21st Century, anything is possible.
The out of town job is unlikely to happen. No company looks that far into the future.
I'd make the best of what you can locally and keep in touch with the out of town people. Tell them you'll need a couple of weeks notice. Ask if they will make a ex Gracia payment to lock you in.