My husband spanks me

Interesting what husbands want. I like to show my wife off. I like her to feel on show. Something for me to show off and control. So I like her to be a little skimpy. I like her to tell people she is obedient and submissive. I also like her to submit to being spanked. I don't mean just a titilating hand spanking I mean a full on whipping that is insanely painful and leaves welts and bruises that take several weeks to heal.

Did you always spank your wife from the beginning of your relationship? Does she like being spanked? Or does she need it? How often do you spank her?

My husband began spanking me on our wedding night. He took me in his arms said he was head of houdehold and i would obey him.in everything. He then said he would show me what i would get if i didntn bey. He then turned me over his knee and spanked me very hard with his hand. I learned fast and we have been married 15 years and I'm expecting our 8th child being pregnant does not prevent a spanking. My ** is red and sore now because of paddling I received yesterday.I'm only allowed to gain so much weight each month and will be expected to be at my original weight eithimn3bweeks after baby is born in have only failed to do this after myn4th pregnancy and he really tore my ** up i was down to my goal e right within days I just needed the spanking as motivation. Also I breast feed my children so basically in 10 years my milk has never dryer up as my husband enjoys nursing along with the baby. Some might think I'm crazy but letting my husband control of all my life I am free from worry and he allows me to have time for myself to do things I like that he approved of. After 7 children I don't need to be spanked as often as I did in beginning and I miss. When he does punish me it. It is always a very hard over knee spanking with his hand or paddle. He has only use his belt on me once. My bottom was so sore he would not ** me for days he said never again. And he hasn't he can really tear my ** up with his hand and paddle. ** is always great After a good whipping. He never spanks kids. Spanking is reserved for mommy. I would not have any other way. Sorry I have rambled on so I know this life style is not for all but I would not have any other way.

Yes, spanking is fine for the wife when she misbehaves,
but children should not be spanked. My wife also benefited
from a good, hard and bare-bottomed spanking, and she was
more loving and tender wife for many days after a spanking.

I disagree children need spankings up to about age 12 , but never beatening , wife or children. That's a sin before GOD and man to beat eather.

Just perfect

Married over 20 years and I've been spanked about 4 times or so. I can say each time I totally deserved it and each time was very sound on my bared bottom. Once was a sound spanking then he took off his belt and gave me a strapping. I learned my lesson and as I said I deserved them all.

This post and these comments are sick

My husband has been spanking me too. ..I've had some boyfriends in the past do it too... I think I have some testing thrill of annoying g them but honestly hate being spanked. When I get a spanking ill pinch my husband or slap his face....which gets me harder ones.
I've decided to hide his stuff to teach him a lesson
Beside's this power struggle battle
We get along great

The only time my husband has spanked me yet was for slapping his face repeatedly in a fit of jealosy. The first time I slapped him, he warned me not to do again, so when I slapped him again he turned me over his knees, pulled down my ** and spanked my bare bottom long and hard. Soon I began to cry and promise to stop being jealous, but he continued setting fire to my behind until I just lay sobbing and totally subdued. Afterwards he explained why he had spanked me and that I had absolutely no reason to be jealous, because he would not have ** with other women, and I believed him. I know he would not have spanked me, if he had done something wrong, so when we made up and had ** ater he had dried my tears and comforted me, I felt better ande more at ease than ever before. He has not spanked me since, and sometimes I feel like pretending a fit of jealousy to make him spank me again and have that wonderful feeling afterwards. But I don't want to hurt him, and besides the thoughtof how much that spanking hurt also deters me. What do you think I should do?

You are not the first woman who finds out that you like getting spanked,
because you have slapped your husband and he retaliated with a bare-
bottomed spanking. It also happened between me and my first wife, and
after the spanking we made up and made love and got really close to
each other. And the next few days we were very much in the mood for
love and **, and she confessed that the spanking had really turned
her on and renewed her respect for me. But it had also hurt her bottom
and her pride (normally we are completely equal), so we agreed that
I should only do it again, when she had been really naughty - and that
happened only a few times after her much too early death because of
a big heart.

Tell him you need it for sexual pleasure

By the way was it a bare cheeks spankin

You may hate the actual spanking on your bare bottom,
but you love leading him on - and without the exciting
danger of a sore bottom you would be bored. So you are
lucky to have a husband who provides - also spankings when
you need them.

Then dont read them or give your 2 cents. Its meaningless.

There is nothing sick about a woman who admits that she needs
a spanking from her husband, when she has done something bad.
And there is nothing sick or perverted about the husband, who has
found out that his wife wants it that way, whether or not he himself
gets turned on by spanking her. It is a good thing that people get what
they want, even if it is a bare-bottomed spanking. :-)

My husband got really upset with me after almost ten years of marriage. I had been being b***hy for a long time and just kind of obstinate and not nice. Again this went on and off for a couple of years. He finally swatted my ** and took me upstairs telling me he was spanking me. I have no idea why but I went quietly. I went over his lap and was spanked on my bare bottom very soundly!
I actually realized how wrong I'd been acting, the spanking woke me up and I began acting better.
Years later he said I needed a spanking in jest, I said okay. I guess I wanted it again. He told me if I got it, it would be real and very sound and I agreed. I spoke to him throughout the day and he confirmed that I wanted this. I said I did but taunted him saying I didn't believe he'd follow through. When he came home he bared me and spanked the daylights out me! He really gave me the spanking of my life.
He said from then on this is how he would handle me when I needed it and I again agreed saying okay.
In the beginning I received many sound spankings for various reasons but I've learned and needed less in recent years. If everything is going well I've realized my husband will still paddle me soundly at least once a year saying "Things are going well and we're going to keep it that way!" I think this has worked very well for us over the years. VA.

We recently started DD. It’s already helping. My hubby of over 10 years spanks me several times a week. He tore my booty up last night (still sore).

I am actually reading this with a very very sore **. I got his belt yesterday.

Why do I have an ** while reading this

Omg I know right? These blogs are my ** so ** up

What did you do to get the belt?

I failed to do something ask me to do and he blistered my bare **

So hot

You would have other things sore if you were my wife

My hubby and I have been married 20 years. And he has always spanked me. Usually always with belt or paddle. He has spanked me in front of friends and family as well. I love it keeps me line.

Are you embarrassed too be spanked in front of your family and friends?

My wife was, but since it involved Eileen, her best friend whom she accused of having an affair with, she got a long and hard bare-bottomed spanking in front of Eileen, and after the spanking they both agreed that I had done the right thing and stopped her jealousy that way.

How abuse. Why eould you degrade her like that?

Yes. Shortly after we were married and we were at my mom’ for dinner. I was in a bitchy, rude mood. Eventually mom said Karen get the hairbrush, I turned red and pleaded no mom, please.
Knowing it would only get worse I got it. Dave was deadly silent. Mom said lift your skirt and across that table. I did, horribly embarrassed. She began with that brush. Karen, take your ** off. Mom please, Four more with that brush and I took my ** down, she continued, I was squirming and yelping. When she finished I had to stay over the table, legs spread. It was humiliating. Dave was oddly quiet.
Then mom said Dave, spank her. He hesitated and she said it’s her hiny or yours. He began lightly spanking me. Harder or it’s you. He began giving me a very hard spanking,
Now he spanks me twice a month. It is embarrassing but it’s fun when he finishes.

I once spanked my girlfriend in front of her best friend, because she was jealous and implied there was something between her friend Eileen and me. The spanking convinced her that it was not so, and after the spanking Eileen also confirmed that. My girlfriend wanted me to console her and comfort her - and I took care of that too, and it completely stopped her fits of meaningless jealousy. She does not like getting spanked - always bare-bottomed over my knees with the flat of my hand - but she knows she deserves it sometimes, and it makes her feel very much like a woman - my woman I may add.

My husband and I were visiting friends. Our friend in 'fun' pushed his girlfriend over the sofa and began swatting her bottom. He's a big guy and He smacked her bottom full force at least twenty times or more as she squealed and bucked unable to get off the sofa. He made a joke as she rubbed her bottom telling him it hurt. Her ** had to be red by how hard he spanked her. I kind of felt bad for her getting spanked in front of us like that even if it was supposed to be in fun.
I experienced worse months later when we celebrated my birthday with them and two other couples. Returning to our apartment after dinner for cake and drinks someone said I hadn't had a birthday spanking yet. The big guy who'd spanked his girlfriend, asked to start things off. My husband was videotaping throughout the night, said okay and proceeded to video as our friend bent me under his arm and gave me Twenty-nine fast,hard swats almost like he'd given his girlfriend but maybe not quite as hard. I yelled from the first swat on as he gave me a real spanking! My ** was stinging and warm! I think I was on the verge of my eyes watering. He held me there while the others gave me each a smack. A co-worker I was friends with as well said it wasn't fair she wanted to give me a birthday spanking as well. Everyone drank at dinner and we were very,very relaxed.
Our friend lowered me over her lap as I tried to get out of it. My co-worker also gave me a spanking as the others counted to twenty-nine and one for luck. The first fifteen were slow and firm, but the last fifteen were firm and fast and after having been spanked soundly already I was squirming and kicking. She sat me up on her lap and told me I'd better not act up at work.
Reluctantly next was my husband. Watching the video later I was shocked! My skirt flipped up going over his lap, my red ** in just pantyhose was visible to all when lightly spanked by my husband as they sang happy birthday. The next morning my ** was sore!

Sara spanked me for the same reason. She thought her girlfriend and I were flirting. When she left Sara said take off your pants and undies so we can have fun. Vi did. She said lean across your desk. I did. Suddenly my rear lit up as she spanked my with a wood bath brush. I started to get up but the tone of her voice warned me not to. She had me spread my legs as she continued. I had tears streaming down. When she stopped she said stay there. Then I felt her ** pushing on my **. I tried to resist but her ** popped in eventually. Sliding it in and out she yelled this what you want to do to Cara. She fingered me until she was tired. I was sore, very sore.

Spank me.

Every woman needs a spanking and I'm happy to give them out.

Do you spank your wife? How often? How long have you been married?

Don't know if this is asked to any one person but I'll answer you're question.
It's not a regular occurrence but in almost twenty years of marriage my wife has had about a half dozen sound spankings when she needed (or wanted ) one.
I say it that way because once I said she needed to be spanked and she wanted me too for real. So I spanked her soundly and suggested she get it regularly. The next week or so she brought it up again so I spanked her good and then spanked her again until she felt she'd had enough. I probably should have kept it up but didn't and she didn't bring it up again.
She did get another for something she did.
The last one she had been really bad (wont go into details). She was spanked then I gave her a good ** whipping with the belt. Her bubble ** was red, sore and welted. She never repeated the same behavior again

U sound like a predator

You're sick.

I need a spanking.

I can give you a spanking

I will give you a good spanking

Would love to spank you otk knickers taken down until your bottom is red raw

Many wives have found that it is very good for them to have a husband who lovingly disciplines them. feel blessed.

Yes, spanking is a sort of discipline that is luckily not used much with children nowadays. But in an adult relationship it can have a good effect, if the man knows how and when to spank his naughty wife. It is mostly meant as a punishment, and a bare-bottomed spanking really hurts, bit it is the kind of pain and situation that is ** as well. So in spite of the pain most women accept the spanking when they know they have done something wrong and deserve a punishment. And women never feel more feminine and men more masculine than during and after a spanking - and that feeling often continues while her bottom is still red and a bit sore. It is a useful reminder to behave - but also of the good time they had afster the spanking.

I have been disciplining my wife throughout our marriage, and she understood from the start that she is submissive to me and that I will correct her with a spanking. She is spanked, usually with a belt or paddle, for disrespect, disobedience, or serious irresponsibility. She needs to undress, kneel before me to be verbally corrected, then go over my knee to get spanked hard and lectured firmly.

I have seen the benefit, including some past behaviors disappear, and the immediate responsiveness she shows to me after being spanked. Any conflict also disappears quickly after she goes over my knee. As others have pointed out, a spanking clearly reestablishes the man's leadership, and the wife's softness to him. After many years of peaceful and happy marriage, I have never regretted bringing discipline into our marriage. I would not want to be without it.

Great! I am there also....need a good spanking and a lot of love.

I have always had bare bottom spankings That is the best way to do it I some times walk around the house bare bottom showing My husband laughs and before I know I am over his knees Sometimes he used the wooden ruler or hairbrush This stings good and I like it Give me more

There's been times where I stayed bare for a while after having been spanked also. He even had me finish cleaning (what I promised to have done and didn't) with my red ** bare.
I admitted that a spanking seems to work for me sometimes but wanted to find a way to get it prior to really acting up or getting rude. (Which I think I would end up doing to provoke a spanking.) But I was embarrassed to ask for it.
We have signals now, I'll leave a belt on the bed or the wooden brush out of place, such as on the counter. My husband at some point after seeing my signal gets firm and takes me in hand. It works great in addition to if he finds something to spank me for.
But my big sign that I want ** and some sort of spanking is to walk around bare Bottomed!

My gf is a lot younger than me and she drinks a lot. She does stupid ** when she drinks -breaks things and sht. Eventually i had just had it and i told her we were done. She cried and said she wanted me to hit her. I said no way. She said she had done bad things but wanted to be with me still no matter what. I said no. But finally she said she was genuinely sorry and that if i punished her she could change. So we made rules. On her request, i bent her over my lap on the couch and beat her bare ** bottom with our bath brush. Severely, but again, only as she asked. The next time she got wasted and ** up the house, i bent her over our bed and whipped her with my belt until she was in tears. Is this ok? I don't enjoy it but she says she needs it. At this point i spank her almost daily. She is a ** brat still, jesus christ.

Does your wife feel better after her spankings and discipline? I imagine there would be relief afterward. Is this the only form of punishment that you use?

How long have you been married? Do you spank your wife only at home or would you do so in public if the situation warranted it?
Thank you for sharing your experience in domestic discipline.

As long as your wife permits it and is happy and safe. That's all that matters.

Other than that men aren't in charge of their marriages. It's absolutely a personal choice, and as we see alone from this website, wives sometimes spank their husbands. Live and let live.

Women don't need be soft if they don't choose to be, though, especially around the men who seem to be using it because they know the word weak sounds bad.

ARONHUSBAND is a well-known incel. He pretends he's married. It's all fantasy for him. He's not really harming anyone, I guess. Few take him seriously.

I am a twenty three year old wife and I agreed to be spanked when we got married six months ago. My dad told my husband he needed to control me with a firm hand so that is what he does. I’m his little girl now, he takes great care of me but he is also strict with me, and at least once a month I have a very sore bottom. I am always spanked on my bare bottom having my skirt and knickers removed ( I am not allowed to wear tights) then lectured on my behaviour before going over his knee for a hand spanking after which I am not allowed to to redress but must remain naked below the waist for the rest of the day. He has my pubic hair waxed fortnightly which sometimes leads to embarrassment if exposing my rosey red cheeks to the beautician and having to admit that I have been a naughty girl to her. Lynne.

I am sitting at work with a sore ** as I write this. My name is Michelle I am 45 my husband is 46 we have been married 25 years and he has spanked me and disciplined me since we met. He only uses a belt or paddle and always on my bare ** anytime he wants. I got a speeding ticket yesterday morning on my to work, and when I got home he was waiting for me with his belt. He made me bend over our table and pull my skirt up I got 30 hard licks until I was crying. I had to count every lick. After my whipping I had to stand in corner and I got grounded for 1 week. We also have 3 kids all girls and all teenagers they know our lifestyle. I think it’s ok. I have had to whip them. I like my punishments we go to bed he punishes me harder and takes it out on my ** which he owns

Ur sick and someone needs to call child services on you. Its one thing to let ur husband spank you. Thats fine. But for kids to know about it? That's. Sick. You're warping their minds and should be taken away.

Agreed

Have to totally agree, not for kids to be part of. VR

That child service is wrong, that’s why so many kids are screwed up, discipline is important, 30 years ago you didn’t have children service, you got a spanking and I’m ok today, none of my kids have been arrested, they work hard and enjoy life

** off, you monstrous **! your children deserve better than you!!

I commented earlier, I started getting spanked after ten years of marriage. I've got it with his belt only a few times for more serious stuff. Wow it stings!
If he warns me to stop something or asks if I want an a** whipping, I know he means the belt and I quickly settle down. We were out once and I'd been drinking and getting feisty.( I don't know why sometimes I taunt him if it's been a while and I'm thinking about getting spanked.) He said to me "Does somebody need an a** whipping?"
I got smart and said I may need a little spanking. He assured me if I didn't settle down I'd get a good spanking and I might get my ** whipped too!
Long story short I didn't settle down and taunted him saying he wouldn't F****ng dare! (don't often curse) He said We'll see.

I wanted a spanking and I got one before we even got home! It was in the car, pretty soundly then he made me ** him. I felt very submissive.
Went home, got naked and ready for bed and **. He took his belt and gave me the a** whipping he told me I needed. Quite the a** beating for a naughty girl, I felt it for two days! VR

I'm not the one with kids, and I agree kids should not be involved or see this in any form. VR

In our home, my wife does all the spanking, me included. She strips me, or catches me coming out of the shower & puts me over her knee, then spanks to her satisfaction. Sometimes, she'll pull the covers down in the morning (I sleep naked & on my stomach), sit on my shoulders & spank me awake. markiee

My wife uses a hard wooden hairbrush on me regularly and never stops until I am crying. I hate to go to they gym after a spanking as the marks stay a few days and everybody can guess I got spanked.

If we would live our lives by the way the Bible talks about, and follow God, we wouldn't have the BS we have in this country as much as we do. Marriage is the same way. If men would follow their role and encourage women to follow theirs, and women would follow their role and encourage men to live theirs as the Bible direct us to live, we wouldn't have all of this divorce. And it's a man's right under God to keep Authority in his home. As the church, the body of Christ, obeys Christ as our husband, the wife should obey her husband. And as Christ does, whether you believe it or not, but does discipline his bride, Believers in Jesus Christ, the husband has the right to discipline his wife. What good is having Authority if you can't use it. Christ will use his authority on us, especially during judgment. Therefore the husband has a right to use his authority, and even spank his wife when she disobeys. Don't like it, it doesn't matter. the Bible is the only opinion that matters,
not yours.

Yes I obey my husband is in charge like the Bible says. Not only does he spank me he uses his belt

Thank goodness we don't have to live Biblical marriages if this is what it entails for women.

Glad it's all a choice now.

Since you bring the Bible into this, please show me the scripture references that you rely upon.
King David denied his first wife, Michal bat-Shaul, ** and therefore children for the rest of her life. This is directly opposed to the attitude that God (YHVH) displays toward ** and marriage throughout the Bible. Apostle Paul repeats this in 1 Corinthians 7 when he commands husbands and wives to have sexual ** whenever either so desires (subject to the guidance of Scripture) and not to skip ** for very long, “lest you be tempted.”
The Scripture contains the proverb, “It’s better to live in the corner of the rooftop (their houses had flat roofs) than with a brawling woman in a wide house.” I can't think of any passage that endorses spanking one’s wife.

People like you love to speak for the bible and say dont like it or like it so to shut down thr truth. the bible even warns men that is=f they treat their wives harshly their prayers will be hindered. colosians 3:19 and 1peters 3:7. a husband is to lead by love and servanthood leadership not some sick kind of superiority. the bible stells men not to forget that their wives are equal heirs with them in christ. she submits to her husband as to christ, but not worshiping her husband. she is accountable to God for her discipline not to her husband. stop twisting the bible to fit in ur sick lifestyle. the bible says in 1timothy 3:6 that false teachers are also those who worm their way into women households and gain control over women who are loaded with sins and swayed by their evil desires. the bible refers to women like you as weak, gullible silly and with no understanding of the word of god upon your life so next time you are getting spanked think about how you have failed yourself by undermining the gift of wisdom and understandin god has dresed a christian wife with proverbs 31.

Nope. Many people aren't religious, and of those who are, that doesn't give men the right to beat their wives.

Women shouldn't obey their husbands unless they choose to (and vice versa). Otherwise, it's arbitrary, as men are no more competent/rational than women.

The fact that women can leave miserable/dangerous marriages is a good thing. Only abusive men using Christianity as a mask would view it otherwise.

My husband and I have practiced CDD for 2 years now. He paddles/belts me and takes away certain previlages. I have a daily routine starting with bible study in the mornings and I've skipped a few days and he made me copy the bible for an hour. He usually comes up with alternative punishments but has used the paddle and belt.

I too am spanked. My husband is the head of our family and I chose to obey him. He spanks me when it’s called for. It makes me a better person. I love being held accountable and I love the authority he has over me.

My husband spanked me for the first time a few days ago. He bared my bottom and spanked me long and hard, and I screamed and yelled, but finally I just lay there sobbing and apologizing for having slapped him in a temper tantrum. After the spanking he took good and loving care of me, and soon we were both in the mood for some wonderful **. I told him later in bed that the spanking had hurt something awful, and that I hoped he would not make a habit of spanking me. He promised only to do it when I had really done something bad to deserve it, and I accepted that and now love and respect my husband even more than before, because I know he is able and willing to spank me, if I do something really bad. And even though my bottom is still a bit sore and the spanking really hurt, I also remember how sweet and caring he was afterwards. So all in all I love him even more now, but I hope he will not spank me again soon - but as he says, I can always behave, so I'll try to do that - at least for a while, because it's not always easy, and the first spanking made me love even more - afterwards.

How do you ensure that he behaves?

Why? Why do you love his authority over you? You are an adult? How is he any more competent than you?

Who holds him accountable?

So many abusive men hiding behind Christianity. Yikes.