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My husband spanks me
I am 40 years old and have been married to my husband for 18 years, we dated 2 years before that. When we first met he was very jealous and demanding but very sweet and good to me. I remember I was driving soon after we met and I made a wrong turn and he pinched me. I got mad at him and he just laughed it off. That’s where I should have stopped it, but I kind of liked it.
If I did anything he thought was wrong he would get after me like a child. Once we got married he stepped up the discipline. He is a great husband and he provides well and means well but he keeps me in line. It’s strange I feel though and I cannot tell anyone because it is embarrassing. He has slapped me only once, and it was hard, but I mouthed off to him and dared him to do it. And he did. I don’t know why I did that. I usually do not talk back to him and certainly do not provoke him.
Just the other day I said a curse word, I said the S word when talking on the phone with a friend. He heard it and sternly said Watch your language. I said sorry and when I hung up he said Come here. I stood in front of him and he reached behind me and swatted by ** with his hand hard and said I don’t like you using that language. I said I was sorry and he said turn around I’m going to spank you. I turned around and bent over slightly and he spanked me ** the **. I said sorry again and he hugged me and gave me a kiss and then we made love. He can be gentle or rough in bed and he was very rough that night.
The thing is, he sparks me and gets after me but I wouldn’t change it. I love him and I want his discipline, it makes me a better person. I don’t curse at all usually and I listen to him. He gives me everything I could ever want and I would do anything for him and he would for me.
Today I wore a blouse that is a little low cut, I am ** and it showed some cleavage. I knew he wouldn’t like it unless he was with me, I could wear anything even tiny bikinis if he is with me, but I was out alone and he said You wore that? It shows all your **. Then he said come here, and I went to him knowing what he was going to do and he said turn around and I did and he spanked me hard, just one seat but it stung. Then he said You’re too ** and you’re ** are too big to go out like that without me, don’t do it again. I mouthed off and asked What if I do? He got angry and said then you will be in big trouble.
I’m turned on because I know he will take it out on me later when we have **. Isn’t that weird!
Does my husband have to spank me in front of our kids? if so why? and why do I need to be **?
My hubby has whipped me in front of our daughters many times. They are teenagers and the understand that if i disobey the rules then I get daddy’s belt. They too have been disciplined mainly by me but it’s always bare bottom for us all
That should not be happening. If you're into the Bible then show the verses pertaining to how wrong that situation is.
Do you have boys or girls
Yes. apparantly your husband believes in you being spanked w your kids watching. im the same type of husband. and yes it must be fully **
This is a dude. It's not real.
Absolutely.
90% of these posts are incel fantasies.
How did it go?
Pid
My husband just decided all three of my stepsons who are all teen boys will get to watch tomorrow night when he spanks me. he has already told me that I will have to have this spanking wearing nothing and all three boys will see me **. he also says he wants to spank extremely hard so I will cry. ive agreed and accepted the punishment. just makes me nervous
I do not think this is right at all, with the teenagers watching this.
I think this is very wrong.
I think your stepsons shoukd be taking turns spanking you too
You belong in jail. What about honoring your mother? Or do you " Christians" pick what part of tbe Bible is abusive to women
Abusive
Sounds abusive. Teem boys seeing you naked. He could lose custody of his kids for exposinh them to this sexualizes abuse. Hes a sexually abusive monster. Leave, get help if he can humiliate you like this he doesnt care aboit you.
I find it interesting the different way adults view spanking other adults. For me I want my wife to be submissive and obedient. I get turned on spanking her and I like her to accept the pain as a demonstration of her submission. But she is an adult and the idea of her behaviour being controlled through fear of physical punishment seems to imply a degree of immaturity on her part.
My husband spanks me. My behaviour isnt being controlled through feat of physical punishment. I have four rules that I have to follow at all times. I try my best to follow them but i break them sometimes. I know if I break the rules I get a spanking. I dont fear the spankings t hgv at husband gives me. I know that he will not give me more then I can handle. I do get nervous when I know I'm going to a spanking but I dont fear it. I love submitting to my husband this way.
My husband and I have been married for over a year now and he has never spanked me but he has been gone for a while now on personal business. When I talked to him on the phone yesterday he said I am in trouble with him when he gets home and was going to spank me for the first time and I will be restricted to my bedroom. He said he will explain what I did when he gets home. He promised me that he would never spank me with anything other than his hand. I'm worried about it because I don't know what I did and I know how strict he is on me. I'm not allowed to even walk down the street by myself with out him. He said that it is dangerous I I will not allow you to go anywhere without me. He is good to me and I love him very much and respect his diction to spank me when he gets home but really scared of it. How will I feel emotionally after he spanks me can anyone tell me what to expect after? I'm 35 and he is 52 year's old. I was the one who agreed to this in our marriage but he has never done it before. So yeah I'm waiting for my first discipline bad part is I have 4 more months to think about why he is going to spank me when he gets home and what it is I did I'm puzzled about it. Can another woman email me and tell me what to expect after the spanking? My email address is jennrus77@gmail.com thanks hope to hear from another cdd wife.
When I have spanked my wife - bare-bottomed and otk - she has always made a lot of fuss while the spanking takes place, but afterwards she just wants to be cuddled, kissed and made love to. She respects me for spanking her, when she deserves it, and I respect her submitting to it - not during the spanking, when the flat of my hand hurts her bare bottom, but after the spanking when we forgive each other and she tearfully confesses that she loves me all the more for punishing her with a long and hard spanking, when she deserves it, and we are always very much male and female when we make up and make love after her spanking.
My husband paddles,belts and grounds me. We practice CDD & have for 2 years. I am only allowed to wear skirts and dresses except around the house and have a daily routine starting with bible study first thing in the morning. I have skipped the last two days and now I'm grounded. I had to copy from the bible for an hour today for slacking.
My wife does not get any clothing priveleges at our house. I enforce full ** for her at all times. it seems to be very effective as far as im concerned. im debating if I should make this a permanent rule for her.
It's never immaturity on your part. It's you leading the home as her Authority. There's never immaturity when you're doing it for her benefit and to help her become a better person. It's not abuse when your spanking her on the ** and she deserves it. I don't care what people think, they don't matter. That's my feelings on it.
My husband spanked me lastnight. I feel a lot better now though. I wasn't listening to him about taking someone money well I got ahead of myself and told that person to meet me before my husband said it was okay. He told me not to do anything with that money until I heard from him and I did something I wasn't supposed to with it now I'm restricted to the bedroom and I got a spanking from my husband last night I hope he doesn't give me another spanking before bed but I think he's going to. I haven't been aloud to get out of bed today and he is making me wear a diaper I'm not allowed to get out of bed until he says I can I know not to get ahead of myself again I learnt my lesson I love you my beautiful husband. I'm sorry I disobeyed you. I won't do it again. It dose make me a better person and Wife when he punishes me and spanks me I feel so much better emotionally too.
Why should she be submissive and obedient? Do you view your wife as a child? Where is your respect for her autonomy and judgement?
Spanking your wife or girlfriend is coming back in vogue as more
men realize that women want men to act like real men and not
accept their unacceptable behaviour sometimes. Women are never
ore feminine and men never more masculine than right after he has
had her over his knees for a sound bare-bottom spanking. During the
aftercare with making up and making love they come to feel closer
to each other and to their true identity as man and woman than any
other time.
Men who spank their wives and girlfriends generally care a lot about them and want to be proud of them as women, and women who get spanked by
their men are angry at first, but soon it turns to love and wanting to make up and make love - and deep down these women are more feminine than other women and deep down they are also proud that their men are strong and determined and male enough to take them over their knees when they need it.
Nope. Redpill incels just try to shame women by saying they're not feminine unless they act submissive/enduring/forgiving/quiet/modest etc.
Women of all different types choose to be spanked. Same with men who choose to be spanked.
Men who love their women and spank them when they deserve it would
never hit, kick or beat them any other way. The wife - or girlfriend as the case may be - get at hot bottom and maty have problems sitting comfortably
for a day or two, but the man always makes her feel that he loves her - both
during and after the spanking. And more often than not they love and cherish
each other all the more afterwards.
That is also my experience. I have only spanked my wife a few times,
and she definitely does not like it while it goes on, and she starts by
fighting me, but eventually she gives in and judt lies over my knees
sobbing and apologizing. After the spanking she sits on my lap - very
carefully, and we assure each other of how much we love each other.
And when we make love a bit later we never feel and act more like a
woman and a man. So spanking works for us - my wife tries to avoid
them, because they hurt a lot, but at the same time she likes me to
take her in hand - and over my knees - when she has done something
to really deserve a spanking, because she feels more at ease with a
clean conscience when her bottom has paid the price for her behaviour,
and we are really good at taking care of each other after such a spanking.
I totally agree that women and men are always extremely feminine and masculine during and after he has spanked her bare bottom. She may cry and beg to let her off, but the man must do it properly, so that she remembers the spanking as a valuable lesson. After the spanking it is important that he takes good care of her and that they tell each other that they are forgiven and can make up and make love with a clean conscience. But it is important that he spanks hard and long enough to make her think twice, before she disobeys him on an important issue again.
A woman doesn't have to obey her husband though, any more than he has to obey her.
It's always been a well-known kink. It's not especially in vogue ATM. The Internet just provides more access to talk about it.
There are some dateless men who speak about women secretly wanting dominant men and forming echo Chambers around it, but women are focusing on our careers and educations. We choose handsome respectful men, not egotists who need a submissive wife housewife. Incel cope.
So a woman's true identity is being beaten by a man and crying? Why? Because might equals right?
Redpillers are trying to push this, and more and more men are single and lonely than ever.
No reason to be ashamed. A lot of women feel that they benefit
from an occasional spanking from their husbands, and women are
never more feminine and men more masculine than after he has
spanked her and they make up and make love.
As a man, has nothing to do with femininity. Some women and men just like being spanked.
You and your husband have been together long enough that you should know how you really feel about each other. If things are ok in other areas, just enjoy being spanked. Life's too short for guilt over something that's nobody else's business.
Exactly, nowadays there is no reason for girls to be ashamed because they get spanked by their partners. Even if they don't want or like the spanking, they accept it as a necessary part of their life together - and most girls like part of it, especially the aftercare and feeling free of guilt - and anyway if a girl does not accept it, she can tell him to stop or leave him.
Yesterday my wife got the worst spanking in our married life, and that is five years now. She had been toa lunch with some lady friends and drove her car home, but unfortunately for her I was home and could tell she should have phoned me or a taxi instead. After a short while she confessed and admitted that she deserved a spanking. I used her own hairbrush on her bare bottom and I did it long and hard. She soon began crying and begging to be let off, but I continued spanking her until her bottom was crimson red and she was sobbing quietly over my knees. Afterwards we cuddled and I kissed her tears away and told her that loved her so much and would not risk losing her because of drinking and driving, and she promised never to do it again, and soon we were kissing and cuddling and having fantastic ** in the late afternoon. She was even more feminine and tender tah usual and I was very strong and masculine. There is something about spanking a woman's bare
bottom that brings that out in her as well as me, and the rest of the day and the day after we were even closer and more affectionate than usual, and my wife said that when I was like that afterwards it was almost worth being spanked, almost shed added and rubbed her still red and sore ande very cute bottom.
The same thing occurred once, in our home as well. She made me promise & write 100 times, I will not drink & drive, or my wife will make it so I can't sit for a week, as she puts me naked over her knee & takes her old sorority paddle to me. When being spanked, I must call her mommy, & if I continue, she'll have her girlfriends over to watch & hand the paddle to them as well.
Spanking doesn't make a woman feminine.. and claiming this just makes women want to pull away from both for different reasons.
*women
This is boasting rather than confessing.
Enjoy being spanked.
I enjoy both spanking and being spanked.
.....sometimes...................a ** just need a beating........
Wow...
Too much, just a bit
I spank laurey when needed
william
Remember how you disciplan your wife is how god is going to discipline you