Step daughter

So update: i puinshed the one and took there cord away from her so she cant watch tv and I punished her for 2 days I feel bad so I went back in the room and was going to give the cord back to her and said don't let the thing happen again and I said I love you goodnight and she completely ignored me and I said it three times so I know she heard me she was just being a little brat with her bad attitude and didn't want to say it back so she still wants to continue to be disrespectful so now as it stands her punishments back and she will not have the TV

Hi hun and first off all well done on takeing the first step on removeing something she likes from her. Im sure she gave you alot off lip and was not happy about it. I am not disrespecting you when say this hun. But when you told her two days without tv then dont negosiate with her. I realise you felt bad also as i feel same still at times and dont be ** yourself because she never said she loves you back. Our girls sometimes dont answer us after we have disciplined them by groundings or spankings and etc. But its only because their not happy about being punished and i guarantee its same with your little one. Stay strong and firm with her hun and if she gives you anymore trouble tell her she will have no tv for longer with early bedtime and make her look at you b when talking too her and be very firm and assertive with her. I know you may find it hard hun and as i told you my now husband had never spanked his two girls apart from as said few spanks on their clothed bottoms. Please hun beleave me if she gets in your face again or curses at you then very quickly and sharpley land two too four very hard swats too her bottom. You dont have too remove her skirt,pants or ** at first. But it will catch her off guard and dont give her chance too say anything. But take her by the hand or arm and put her in her room and tell her shes staying there till she thinks about her behaviour and is ready too say sorry. I know its hard hun but trust me i went through similar stuff as you and realy feel for you. Our eldest hun did not do her maths home work on purpose and told us she had finished it. We useualy check their home work. But my husband was working and i was up too my eyes with our youngest not being well and the useual stuff us mommys do as you will know hun. Anyway her teacher lectured her about it and we were told she cursed and flipped her teacher off and rolled her eyes at her

Sent that message hun without finishing it so will continue here. So she cursed and flipped and rolled her eyes at her teacher. My husband took the call from school who asked for him too go in and collect our daugter straight away. She was in princeables office when my husband arrived and apparantley had even giveing her princeable some attitude by saying some stuff i wont repeat here hun. They were going too suspend her for copil off days. But my husband managed too purswade them it will never happen again and they agreed too let her off with detention two days next week and some lines. My husband said she back chatted him in carpark on way too car and even answerd him back in car on way home and refused too go too her room when they got home. My husband is a paitent man. But at that stage he knew she needed a spanking and so brought her into lounge and took a spoon from draw on way through kitchen and said our daughter started too change her tune and some crocadile tears. Anyway he put our daughter over his knee and gave her dozen spanks with spoon over her skirt and dozen over her ** with his hand and then finished her spanking with a dozen more on her bare bottomand had her stand in lounge as useual with our daughter with without ** in corner for time too reflect. I came in from some errands and hared whole story and sent her too her room with the promise off a reminder spanking before bedtime and gave her a lecture on home work and behaviour and bought my husband i hugged her and told her we love her as we do each time we have too discipline our girls. I brought her up too her bed and told her too rest and left her there too sleep for bit before our other girls came home from school. But please stay firm and i know if you do then your home will become a more structured place and i promise you may not see it straight away. But a bond will happen with you with you and your girls.

Good luck hun and your doing great. Children need discipline, structure and boundaries as much as love and care and makes them feel save. Message me anytime you want too even just chat about anything and please keep us posted on how things are with your daughters. You are an amazeng mother so stay strong and firm and be good too yourself hun. Huggs from a stepmom who knows and cares xxxxx

Just want too say thinking off you hun. Have a good day and message me anytime. Remember also be good too yourself and stay firm. Huggs and take care xxxxx

Just too say thinking off you hun...

Thinking off you hun and stay strong and firm. I hope you do something nice at least once a week for yourself. Plesae message me anytime as said hin and take care. Hugg from step mom who knows and cares xxxxx

You ok hun...