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My dad is starting to creep me out.
It’s no secret that my father is a huge pervert. He’s the kind of guy that makes sexual jokes and innuendos with me and my mother. He gropes my mom often, and appears to enjoy doing it when we have guests. He flirts with other women, sometimes flat-out asking if they are single. My mom doesn’t care, or does a great job at keeping her feelings hidden. Anyway, that’s not my confession.
I’ve started to notice that he’s acting weird around me. He’s made a habit of grabbing my ** or thigh, and telling me that I smell good. Sometimes after he and my mom have an argument, he slips into my bed for the night, and lays with his arm around me. It’s only happened twice, both being equally as uncomfortable. But I didn’t make a big deal about it. The bed is pretty small. The couch is smaller, so there’s no way I’d imagine he’d sleep on it and get a good rest.
It wasn’t until last week he did something that really, REALLY, creeped me out. I was taking a shower, and he stopped in to pee. I hear him wash his hands, but he doesn’t leave the restroom. He strikes up a conversation, and suddenly suggested getting in the shower with me. After I pointed out he had his own that he could use, he laughed and told me he was just kidding. He still didn’t leave, even after I was finished washing. I had to grab a towel from behind the curtain and cover myself, before he finally left.
I didn’t realize his behavior at first because I’m a guy. Logically, I assumed he didn’t swing that way. To be honest I’m still a bit convinced that I’m making a big deal out of nothing. But tell me what you guys think. Am I being melodramatic?
If you can live somewhere else you might want to go there. A person with a ** problem is hard to treat even by professionals.
You could be making a big deal out of it when he flirts with other women, he is attention seeking, if he gropes your mum when friends are there may be he wants group ** or maybe he wants to see your mum with another man or women, when he was in bed with you he didn't do anything wrong or you would have said, how do you feel about him grabbing your ** do you like it?.
How old are you...
If you are not comfortable with something your dad says, you could say something. It could be as simple as saying, that makes me uncomfortable. I get that some of his actions makes it seem like he's making a pass at you. But it sounds like your dad is just a joking/touchy feely guy. You are his son and maybe he's looking for a way to connect with you, although it is coming off a bit odd. Maybe it's about spending time with him...going to a movie, sporting event etc.. The time that he got into bed with you - did he do that when you were little? Or is something going on that maybe he feels that he's losing your or you guys don't talk much?
Your a guy. All depends how you are brought up with him. Sounds he is just being him. I hope im able to hug my kids when thay are 20.