I bullied a guy

I do regret this and I know I’d get hate for this but this is a confession website, so I’m just admitting something bad I’ve done. Back when I was 16 I was in a relationship with some girl, she was really popular and hot. One day she told me some guy had told her that he likes her, it was some skinny unpopular nerdy guy. Obviously she told him she didn’t feel the same, but came to me about it. I was angry, everyone knew I was dating her so to hit on her was disrespecting me. The next day I went up to him at his bus stop when he was waiting for the school bus, and f***** him up in front of the other students. I didn’t beat him for too long, but gave him a black eye and he bled from his mouth, I broke his glasses but the worst thing I did was make him kiss my shoe in front of everyone. People recorded it and he became a laughing stock. From then on I picked on him every day for like a year, not beating him up but doing stuff like putting gum in his hair, ripping up his schoolwork, making him do a f*** ton of my homework, kicking him in the back during class. Even when me and the girl broke up I kept doing it, I guess for me I made him a living example of why not to f*** with me, and nobody ever did. Still, looking back I shouldn’t have done it. That guys probably gonna live with that for the rest of his life, all because he tried to build up the courage to ask his crush out. I would tell him I’m sorry but I doubt he would wanna ever hear from me again

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  • Nope....it's never too late to apologize. Period. It may be in the past for you but it's much harder for the victum to put things like this in the past. I had a bully in highschool & I'd be nice just to hear that he regreted it. Whats done is done. I'm past it all..... he might be too or he may not be. At the end of the day though...he has to forgive & forget or the memory will continue to bully him in his thoughts.... Even if he doesn't accept your apology, the fact that you offered one gives him the opportunity to do just that.....Let that be the reason for apologizing. Make sure he knows you aren't apologizing just to relieve your guilt...you're apologizing because it was wrong. Just tell him he didn't deserve to be bullied & you wanted him to know you regret it. Let him decide what to do with that......

    I also bullied another kid when I was young.....I was the ring leader of a group that picked on him for 2wks at camp. The adults didn't put a stop to it until we strung him up a flagpole by his underwear, proped a flash light up at him, and left a sign that said "Never fly a 'f**' at night without a light." When I got in highschool I had to write an essay about something I regret. I wrote about the flagpole imcident....The teacher asked me if that boy was a student at our school. She wanted to submit my essay in a statewide literary contest & if I won it would be published in the school news paper. I told her who the kid was and said she could let him read it & he could decide if it gets submited. No one was mentioned by name, but for anyone who witnessed what we did, it would be easy to connect the dots. Surprisingly, he agreed & told the teacher he hoped it did get published. I don't know if he forgave or not because we didn't talk again after that until I ran into him in college. It didn't come up, but he didn't have a problem making eye contact & shaking my hand.

  • Man I couldn't look myself in the mirror if I had done something that bad to someone for no reason. Get into therapy but prepare yourself to be unforgiven even by the therapist. Your why schools need monitors n buses and in the classroom.

  • You need your ass beat!! Would it be funny if the guy later on in life beats your ass!!

  • Obviously you have no regret you just want to show what a j****** you were and you are. No wonder that girl left you for her own good. You will pay some day I wish your child will bear the same embarrasment from some one like you and he/she will commit suicide then you will realize the comcept of Karma hitting your ass

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