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I did something bad last night
I’m not going to go into too much detail but I used to date this guy years ago. We remained friends after everything went bad then we both got into new relationships. He’s been with her for quite some years now and I’ve become single recently. He asked me to come out and drink last night and I told him if she’s okay with it then that’s fine. We went out to the bar then he came over and we drank more. We woke up in my bed and we were naked. He claimed we didn’t have ** but I’m not sure if that’s true. I was very drunk and don’t remember but I know for a fact that we kissed. I feel so bad about this. This is so out of character for me, I feel like all my morals went out the window last night. The worst thing is that I know they’re really good together and I like his girlfriend, I think she’s a good person. She didn’t deserve that.
** happens. Forgive yourself, learn from it and move on.
I get why you'd feel bad about it. But try and keep it in perspective. You are both adults. He invited you out, when he knew he was unavailable. Which is something that most always invites trouble if one is not careful. Yes, he chose to drink. You didn't hold a pistol to his head. I get that you feel bad. It's understandable. When one is in a relationship, one needs to talk with their significant other and decide what they do and don't think is appropriate. Maybe even set boundaries. I did after I almost got in over my head awhile back. I didn't cheat, but my not setting proper boundaries with other women when I was in a relationship almost burned me. If you want to keep his friendship, then talk with him and figure out a better game plan before you hang out again. Good luck
I always say if you friends with ex's eventually something will happen