I hate my girlfriend's daughter
I really do not like my girlfriend's daughter. I have a 3 year old myself and she's beyond great and intelligent. If you were to meet her, you would know. I feel that my girlfriend's 2 year old little girl is one of the most spoiled and bratty kids ever.
This little girl is about to be 3 and knows no colors or numbers. She does really gross s*** like blows her nose in her hands and I once witnessed her taste her own pop. I also used to be a mentor and educator for kids so it's hard for me to witness a child who I fear has learning disabilities go without action. I have told my lady about these issues but she gets defensive and says nothing is wrong. The little girl does absolutely nothing her mom tells her, but when I speak she listens. I always try to help my lady when her day is rough but her daughter needs discipline. There is none. The only discipline she has is when I babysit her on days I don't have my little girl. I don't put my hands on kids or yell. We sit and do exercises and learning games, but it just doesn't go well. I'm trying not to continuously compare her daughter and mine but Jesus f****** Christ my child was 20 times smarter than this little girl at the same point in their development. I have talked to others about it and they usually say that I'm too h****** the situation because she's only 2, but I know when I see a problem. If I'm to marry or stay with her mom this has to be addressed not swept under.
Mu girlfriend raises her completely undisciplined. She says no and the little girl says don't touch me or tells back. My girlfriend and I argue when she gives her candy to put her to sleep. It blows my mind and I cannot coparent if this is going down. You may ask yourself things, and no, our kids have not met yet. I fear that I don't want her daughters stupidity wearing off on mine. I also don't want my daughter to be really disinterested because I've witnessed her around kids like my lady's daughter. My daughter goes about her own business and hates being grossed out. I think I may need to break up with my girlfriend. It's hard because she's a talented artist and great person. She just does not give her child a plan and order and that kills me to no end.
I liked it better when my girlfriend didn't have her daughter everyday. The girls dad is a damn deadbeat and doesn't work. He doesn't call for his daughter. I really want him to come get her though. She needs her dad and some discipline. When her and I first started dating it was ok because her daughter wasn't around all the time being an unbridled mess and I knew she was going back to her dad's house. I know what to do but I do love my girlfriend. I don't ask her to love my child, but my child is 100% more behaved and listens. It's easier, not the other way around.