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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
How much weight have you both gained?
Wow, lots of questions! See my other comments above, but I'll continue here. Short answer: 90 pounds for me and 125 pounds for her since we began dating.
I worked out regularly back then and had pretty solid abs and she was not muscled, but thin and firm. It wasn't like one day we decided "hey, let's get fat", although in retrospect, I guess that might have been fun :) But, no, it was a back and forth. I noticed I'd have to flex a bit more to show definition or I'd have a faint tummy bulge after dinner that would disappear by morning. I'd cutout condiments or she'd declare she was going to start jogging. This would go on for a while, then some event would come up or work/school would get busy and it would be postponed.
There was this interim period of back and forth for both of us, like a pendulum between cutting back and then indulging.
After a while, you get more used to being a little bigger though. It definitely has its benefits. We have a pretty traditional relationship, and though I wouldn't consider myself chauvinist, you could say our relationship is definitely more awesome (enough said) when she sees me as manly. When I was thin, that was sometimes pretty tough. Try looking masculine while ordering a kid burger, because you've already hit your calorie limit. Now I'll order the steak and not give a f*ck.
Dates became more fun too, once we more firmly crossed over to seeing ourselves as "big". Drinks, appetizers, the full plate, and a dessert. And the night's still young.
Oh, my! You two put on some pounds!! ;)
90 lbs. and 125 lbs. is a significant weight gain unless you both were super skinny before.
Yes, lesson learned: be kind to fat people because know matter how absolutely confident you are, you might join them someday! And even more crazy is that you might enjoy it!
I like the idea that you feel more free. That thought in and of itself is liberating. Just do what you want.
How much time was it? Like over ten years?