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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
Are you sure she's not pregnant or researching it? That would explain knowing about cocoa butter. A lot of pregnant women like their man to get a tummy too. That way he can relate to changes in body shape, outgrowing clothes, the need to take things a little more slowly, and maybe even indulging cravings. She also perhaps feels a little less self-conscious. And afterward, she either has a workout buddy or a matching partner depending on whether her body bounces back or not.
No, we don’t have kids yet. But she is starting to think about it (asked me for a dog last year, and that’s always a subtle sign). She wanted our first years to be just us. For now, it’s just me, her and my new belly. I’ve put on 40 lbs. since our wedding day... 😔
No better way to get ready to get pregnant than to have your man gain some sympathy weight ahead of time! 😁
I put 70 pounds on my hubby in the first year of marriage before we had our first child. He has gained even more with each baby. So even though I’m 40 pounds heavier after 3 kids, he still outweighs me by 120 pounds and I feel tiny next to him. I’m so glad I started fattening him up right away. He’s my roly poly butterball!
Good point. She might be thinking she wants a baby soon and wants you to experience life with a belly, too.
My guess is she knows she is putting on weight now and doesn’t want to be alone in that process. She wants her man to match her so you still look relatively the same compared to each other. It’s less embarrassing for her if you both look bigger. Trust me, I know. I did it to my husband! ;)
Yea, she is in a relationship and almost all women start gaining weight once they are in a committed relationship. She probably knows she’s going to start looking bigger and wants you to beat her to it so all the fat focus isn’t on her.
Have you noticed that she is heavier lately? I think she knows she has gained weight and she wants you to gain as well. It’s harder to face family and friends when just one of you is bigger. Early in our marriage, I noticed I had gained 15 pounds and so I started giving my husband seconds at meals and making his favorite treats until I could look at his tummy and tell it was bigger.