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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
As long as the extra waist line coincides with some extra lovin’!
His weight gain has restricted things in the bedroom as most of his weight gain has settled on his tummy lol. He doesn’t have as much energy anymore but we manage, I just have to do the extra work lol
Is that sad for you?
No cause it’s mostly my fault being a larger woman who enjoys cooking and he has become used to the rich food I enjoy and the larger portions. He is happy.
Do you like that his tummy is too fat now?
It has made thinks tricky in the bedroom that’s for sure lol
I don’t mind I’m in love with him. He has gone from a flat tummy to a big solid hanging belly now. That what happens a lot of the time when a skinny man marries a fat woman.
That’s a big difference.
Even though the bedroom might require a little extra creativity, it seems like lots of other things would get easier now that you've helped him become fat too. He can relate more when you want to take a break on a long walk or your feet hurt. He won't do annoying things like grabbing a tight booth when you go to a restaurant. He'll be more empathetic about tough comments from others. He will understand and connect with the woman he loves in a deeper way than he ever could when he was skinny.